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Shared Backyards: Brilliant or Bad Idea?

SodaHead Living 2012/06/17 00:06:42
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Robert Frost said that good fences make good neighbors. But these days a growing number of homeowners are knocking them down in order to create larger communal backyards.

Joining your backyard with your neighbor’s means there is more room for gardening and entertaining, children and pets and can run around more freely, and you may even be able to build that swimming pool or tennis court you’ve always dreamed of. But the extra space doesn’t come without added difficulties.

Gardening expenses can be split evenly, but who pulls the weeds and who gets to pick the fruit? Post a sign-up sheet for use of the communal table? Or is there an always-room-to-share policy? What happens when one neighbor wants to sell?” asked Anne Marie Chaker of The Wall Street Journal.

Many of the individuals who have opted for shared backyards explain that they are are hammering these details out in monthly decision-making meetings and in legal documents. The potential risks are evident, but if you actually like your neighbors and are willing to give up some of your privacy, yard-sharing seems like a fantastic option. (That is if you live in a neighborhood that hasn’t prohibited the practice.)

So, what do you think SodaHeads? Is yard-sharing brilliant or a bad idea?

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  • Beatriz 2012/06/18 17:49:24
  • Ben 2012/06/18 17:39:42
    Brilliant
    Ben
    If two families can get together and agree on an awesome design, then it could work. If one neighbor ever decides to sell, it should have been in writing long before how the property will be split. How cool would that be to have double your backyard's size for parties and other events?!
  • iamco2000 2012/06/18 17:36:35
    Bad Idea
    iamco2000
    Communal space where all can ELECT to come together if desired: great idea! Communal backyard where the idea of individual property rights are executable in a rarely-ever scenario is about a socialist as it gets, sounds like someone's "priming the pump" quite frankly.

    Grace to you, Glory to God!
  • TimothyBrianFoley 2012/06/18 17:05:35
    Brilliant
    TimothyBrianFoley
    sharing is caring its always nice to share a back yard i would do just that
  • democoach Timothy... 2012/06/19 06:47:05
    democoach
    even with your neighbors thoughtless drunk friends?
  • JessicaLynn 2012/06/18 16:28:53
    Bad Idea
    JessicaLynn
    I may have said it is a bad idea, but I am really on the fence about this issue, lol. Seriously, this could be a good things, but it definitely could go very wrong. It depends on the people around you.
  • Nanjing03 2012/06/18 15:51:26
    Bad Idea
    Nanjing03
    It only works if you have great neighbors. What happens when a slob moves next door? I have great neighbors and we even share gardening chores and lawn cutting when one of us is out of town or we can't get to our own lawns in reasonable time. We also have a golf course meandering throughout the neighborhood. While I don't play golf, I see the advantages of a well kept and well landscaped easement backed up to the property -- compliments of the golf course maintenance crew. The same could be said of private properties backed up to national and state parks, college campus grounds, hunting clubs and timberlands.
  • Michelle 2012/06/18 15:39:51
    Brilliant
    Michelle
    As long as you get a along well with your neighbor and you both want the same things for the yard I say it's a great idea!
  • smitty 2012/06/18 15:24:28
    Brilliant
    smitty
    Until Schleprok moves in next door. Only reason we have a fence is because we have a pool.
  • Professor Wizard 2012/06/18 15:23:21
    Brilliant
    Professor Wizard
    Like a marriage :: as long as the neighboring land owners are getting along :: all is well... But I can see some NASTY situations arising when one neighbor decides he doesn't want to be a part.
  • rcardon 2012/06/18 15:09:49
    Bad Idea
    rcardon
    +1
    Not only is is a bad idea, I'd say it's a terrible idea. I mean, if the dog takes a dump in the back yard, who cleans it up? What if all the houses have dogs and no one really sees which dog did it? Also, how do you know where to stop mowing and your neighbor should start? If the backyard's a big garden, who gets which produce?
    I just see all kinds of ways this could go bad and end up in a neighborhood feud.
  • Fisher 2012/06/18 14:53:00
    Bad Idea
    Fisher
    I keep my own backyard for my privacy and keep the nosy neighbors away.
  • GoatHorns 2012/06/18 14:48:20
    Brilliant
    GoatHorns
    if it works, why not.
  • democoach GoatHorns 2012/06/19 06:48:37
    democoach
    ait till your neighbor has a huge party and you wanted a party at the same day or something liek that! see how happy you both end up!
  • GoatHorns democoach 2012/06/20 04:35:53
    GoatHorns
    if you've agreed to share a yard, i would hope that your neighbor would respect you enough to tell you in advance of his plans
  • democoach GoatHorns 2012/06/20 05:43:28
    democoach
    what will you think is brilliant next? open houses?
  • GoatHorns democoach 2012/06/21 06:40:37
    GoatHorns
    are you a total idiot, or just partial? if two neighbors agree to share yards, why isn't that a good idea. would i want to do it? no. but if people do, and it works for them, great.
  • JayLynx 2012/06/18 14:47:46
    Brilliant
    JayLynx
    Awesome! Let's taking the first step towards love. Sharing good things makes us a family!
  • Kyra 2012/06/18 14:35:12
    Brilliant
    Kyra
    +1
    It's a great way to practice "Love Your Neighbor."
  • greg 2012/06/18 14:16:28
    Bad Idea
    greg
    +2
    just one disagreement away from choas
  • seasmoke70 2012/06/18 14:15:17
    Bad Idea
    seasmoke70
  • BLUEDAIMOND 2012/06/18 13:37:30
    Bad Idea
    BLUEDAIMOND
    It could be both u don't know if hes a killer ppl cannot be trusted now a days
  • FordCrews 2012/06/18 13:31:09
    Bad Idea
    FordCrews
    I along with 2 of my neighbors decided that the useless ditch at the back of our property cold be damned and a lake built. We did, chipped in together to stock it, and agreed to do nothing but catch and release for 3 years so it would get a great chance to restock itself. 6 months after stocking it, one of the neighbors got a divorce, sold his home to a scum bucket, that had 10+ friends over almost daily until it was basically fished out. ;-(
  • brunyon 2012/06/18 13:17:43
    Bad Idea
    brunyon
    I will need to build a bigger fence
  • John Hall 2012/06/18 12:54:41
    Brilliant
    John Hall
    This answear can be both good and bad if you have good neighbors it can be a great idea but all it takes is a bad one to build a larger fence .
  • HendricksMathew 2012/06/18 12:53:31
  • ~writersblock~ 2012/06/18 12:19:29
    Bad Idea
    ~writersblock~
    Thats how wars were started.
  • SilveryRow 2012/06/18 11:45:51
    Bad Idea
    SilveryRow
    I like a private space.
  • ttfndude 2012/06/18 11:15:01
    Brilliant
    ttfndude
    we are actually thinking of buying a property with our neighbors behind us....we will split the actual legal but share the area..........the thing is you have to know you are willing at some point to give it up if someone's feelings get hurt and just let it go. See real people don't sue others because of hurt feelings, or misjudgements......that is what time is for
  • malayflorist12 2012/06/18 10:00:48
  • Mike 2012/06/18 09:33:57
    Brilliant
    Mike
    But neighbors should also have good conduct.
  • Rockangel420 2012/06/18 08:55:58
    Brilliant
    Rockangel420
    I love to play in the. Gaarden:-)
  • Aksana 2012/06/18 07:18:07
    Brilliant
    Aksana
  • sarahbearer 2012/06/18 06:43:11
    Bad Idea
    sarahbearer
    I think people would get fed up wit their neighbors
  • AmericanVirus 2012/06/18 06:41:58
    Brilliant
    AmericanVirus
    +1
    It could go either way
  • HBO 2012/06/18 06:29:24 (edited)
    Brilliant
    HBO
    I think the idea of community gardens, shared by 2 or more households is a great idea. But only if you like your neighbors, of course. You can save a lot of money by growing your own vegetables and herbs, and there's nothing like picking your food and bringing it straight in to the kitchen to cook. It gets children excited about what they're eating and is a good way to teach them about where our food comes from. That being said, I don't see why you'd want to share your entire backyard. You could use the back of the yards for the garden and have that space connected while still leaving the rest of the yard fenced and open for the kids. Having an actual 2 house backyard is a little too close for comfort for me. Kids or neighbors can literally be hanging out on your patio and by your windows. Everyone needs a little bit of privacy and their own space. There;s always the option of the front yard though !
  • Sweetness 2012/06/18 06:08:51
    Bad Idea
    Sweetness
    Someone is bound to want to do something that another person doesn't want to..and then it'll be "Oh, well this is my yard anyways..."
  • carrotcat 2012/06/18 05:51:32
    Bad Idea
    carrotcat
    I will chop of your fingers if you touch my tomatoes
  • Michael 2012/06/18 05:44:27
    Bad Idea
    Michael
    "High fences make good neighbors!" That expression that has been around since forever, didn't start for no reason! I live in a condo and it has shared pool, recreation, etc. areas. The neighbors are pretty good, but their pets aren't!
  • lorenab. 2012/06/18 05:16:15
    Bad Idea
    lorenab.
    +1
    haha! my aunt does not like her neighbors and they have a shared backyard kind of... well, the neighbors hate trees, so my aunt just planted some pine trees right on the property line!!:D haha! so he doesnt like trees, and now there will be a big mess from them too!!:D haha

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