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Sex=power...cheating

BADGIRL 2009/06/25 12:26:45
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psychologist say men/women cheat to feel better about themselves. its an adrenaline rush.....do you agree or disagree..
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  • Maddie 2009/06/25 14:04:34
    i think
    Maddie
    +7
    I think it could be a adrenaline rush I mean the thought of sneaking around and taking chances of getting caught. It is a thrill... But I also think they cheat because something is missing at home... Love, sex, respect.. And as far as feeling good about yourself I don't know I guess if your married and someone else wants you it does feel good.... Or it's a turn on.. And everyone likes to be turned on and feel good about themselves..

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  • Dee* 2009/07/19 03:23:15
    i think
    Dee*
    +1
    I don't really know if I agree with this but it could be possible with some people. There are also other reason's for a person to cheat.
  • jaymz 2009/07/02 11:23:07
    yes
    jaymz
    +1
    my only requirement in a woman as that she dont say NO
  • SuperCee 2009/06/30 20:28:27
    i think
    SuperCee
    +1
    that there are more ways to get the adrenaline rushing than by having cheating sex! Doing it in a place where I could get caught is more adrenaline rushing than actually cheating on my partner. But whatever floats your boat!
  • Keen Tojones 2009/06/29 22:59:41
    i think
    Keen Tojones
    +1
    Sex is highly overrated and not worth contracting any diseases. However, if one is in love and the partner is willing, then get after it.
  • Cloud 2009/06/29 06:07:42
    i think
    Cloud
    +1
    it is possible for some but others do it because they feel they deserve more, they forget about the trust they are breaking.
  • Terry J Vey 2009/06/29 05:52:53
    i think
    Terry J Vey
    +1
    I never cheated so I really can't say!I do know others that have and when they get caught they are sorry as can be!
  • deadhead509 2009/06/28 23:14:29
  • Pet Rock Whisperer 2009/06/28 13:42:01
    yes
    Pet Rock Whisperer
    +1
    I think in a lot of cases it's like a sugar rush. You feel up for a short time, then the big crash and you're worse off then before.
  • Lavendergrl 2009/06/28 01:46:21
    i think
    Lavendergrl
    +1
    There are lots of reasons cheaters give for cheating. For power, sexual addiction, neglect by spouse, a dying marriage. I personally don't buy any of them. There is no justification for betraying the sexual and emotional trust of a spouse. It shows lack of self control, lack of character, lack of self respect. Thing is, if you feel you need it from somewhere else discuss it with your spouse. Solve the problem or end the marriage so that you're not hurting other people with your selfish behavior.
  • David 2009/06/27 22:23:36
    no
    David
    +1
    Many cheaters feel neglected by their spouses. They do it for both revenge and to satisfy their sexual and emotional appetite.
  • crimsonbutterfly 2009/06/27 16:23:22
    i think
    crimsonbutterfly
    +1
    I agree 100% with Maddie.
  • i think
    Sc ♥ Angel ♥™ -Won't be back for awhile, if at all.
    +1
    I think people cheat when they're not getting what they need from the relationship.

    I tend to think it's more emotional then most let on...relationships take work..continously.

    If you forget to let your significant other how much they mean to you..or treat them like their Not important..then I feel they will seek it elsewhere..That's what I've found from a few of my friends that 'stepped' out...Sex came with it..but being made to feel cared about and important is what drew them into the affair to begin with.

    Everyones situation is different though..
  • twothunders 2009/06/27 14:57:49
    i think
    twothunders
    +1
    I think people cheat less for power and more because they have discovered something that they are lacking with the person they are with
  • michael x 2009/06/27 12:37:00
    yes
    michael x
    +1
    pretty much...
  • Whitese7en 2009/06/26 15:14:00
    no
    Whitese7en
    +1
    Whatever the reason given, what it boils down to, is lack of or poor character. In essence, it is a self serving act in which the cheater thinks of no one but him or herself.
  • American Voter 2009/06/26 10:48:03
    i think
    American Voter
    +1
    I know some guys that cheat for the purpose of having sex acts with other women they would not think of having with their wife. Makes no sense, but is what they say.
    One other guy I once knew said it was ok to cheat for a guy because a guy can wipe it off & a woman cannot. No joke and today he is a full ordained minister. So sad.
    Some say that is the way it is suppose to be for a man.

    Myself, I do not see it because of what it would take away from one's self being. I tease, flirt, have all kinds of fun, but I know my limits as well as all I associate with do. Regardless of how beautiful a woman is, even if she is willing, no matter how much fun she seems, I know another cannot replace the one I am with. If it ever seems that possible to me, then I would know I made the wrong choice selecting the partner I am with.

    So much goes back to the way we each were raised and the morals we each hold. Self respect is so important to me. With self respect you will always respect others.
  • Arowolf 2009/06/26 06:12:21
    no
    Arowolf
    +1
    I just think we do it cause we can and we think we can get a way with it... in some cases we want to be caught... but most times its to fill our selves with pleasure one way or another... but yea....
  • divajinx 2009/06/26 03:45:45
    i think
    divajinx
    +1
    that's bunk! I cheated (once) cuz I was curious about what else was out there, what was I missing.....it sucked. There was no adrenaline rush, nor was there any foreplay. It was no different from what I was getting so it was a waste of time.
  • rebecka 2009/06/26 02:13:58
    no
    rebecka
  • Athlete 2009/06/26 02:04:59 (edited)
    i think
    Athlete
    +2
    Psychologists are correct in it being an adrenaline rush. However, cheating is cheating and leads to everything from feelings of guilt to remorse and despising of one's self. People need to work out problems with their husbands and wives and stop the insanity of hurting others and destroying lives!!!
  • qqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqq 2009/06/26 01:36:44
    no
    qqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqq
    +2
    no n they cheat beacause they felll tht they get more atention
  • claptonluvr 2009/06/26 00:12:18
    i think
    claptonluvr
    +2
    I think people cheat to fill a void they have. It may be a rush at first, but then they are left even emptier than they were.
  • DJ 2009/06/26 00:11:33
    no
    DJ
    +3
    If you really love the person you are with then there should be no need to cheat.....
  • *~*P1EL C@N3L@*~* 2009/06/25 23:59:37
    no
    *~*P1EL C@N3L@*~*
    +2
    i think its really hurtful n selfish wen people cheat. n its a choice that they make knowing wut they r doin. feel better about themselve??? well in order to cheat u hav to be in a relationship wit sum1, so if u hav some1 already..how much better do u need to feel about urself?????????DUH.urgh its frustrating...ive been cheated on n its so ridiculous!
  • keeper 2009/06/25 23:58:05
    yes
    keeper
    +1
    In many cases that is the fact...look at "conquests" for young people who want to get notches on their bed posts to show their prowess.
  • Doug 2009/06/25 23:54:42
    i think
    Doug
    +2
    i dont know really but i guess it could be the adrenaline rush and how evryone loves a good secret. cheating could also just be the love of knowing they could get someone and they are hot enough to get someone even when they are already taken. no girl or guy likes to be rejected and taking the chance is where the fun is. who knows the real truth though because all women arent alike and may have personal reasons behind their cheating actions.
  • emily 2009/06/25 23:45:18
    yes
    emily
    +1
    People cheat to fulfill a need that they think they have. it isn't right but it happens.
    I was once told by a man that I didn't understand true passion and being caught up in the moment. I understand it but I try to save it for the relationship that I am already in.
  • cmdrbnd007 2009/06/25 21:31:49
    yes
    cmdrbnd007
    +1
    Of course it is. I wonder how much that study cost the American taxpayer. Should have just asked a cheater. LOL
  • BADGIRL cmdrbnd007 2009/06/25 22:11:45
    BADGIRL
    +3
    too much as usual...
  • cmdrbnd007 BADGIRL 2009/06/26 02:40:35
    cmdrbnd007
    +1
    Way too much.
  • GLaDOS 2009/06/25 19:48:06
    yes
    GLaDOS
    +1
    I wouldn't doubt it. There's the fact that someone outside of their relationship finds them attractive. Then there's the teaser of potentially getting caught, which, while that would be devastating, acts as an erogenous point, because of the forbidden nature of it.
  • Jeffrey Nero 2009/06/25 19:47:13
    yes
    Jeffrey Nero
    +3
    i found someone for me her name is amy dumas
  • djarob 2009/06/25 19:35:03
    no
    djarob
    +1
    they cheat for one reason or another..
  • crotchrot 2009/06/25 19:12:09
  • turkey pepperoni 2009/06/25 18:53:55
    yes
    turkey pepperoni
    +2
    sure. i think that's part of it.
  • Hitch 2009/06/25 18:44:45
    yes
    Hitch
    +3
    i think its true bc some ppl just dont have very secure feelings about themselves and i think it makes ppl feel more confident when they are wanted by somone other than there partner.
  • xXxNinjaSpaceRaiderxXx 2009/06/25 18:38:57
    yes
    xXxNinjaSpaceRaiderxXx
    +1
    yep it makes them feel a little more want at least what ppl tell me
  • g!anna 2009/06/25 17:57:41
    i think
    g!anna
    +1
    sure, it's an adrenaline rush, but that doesn't make it right.
  • hows my aim? 2009/06/25 17:52:21
    yes
    hows my aim?
    +1
    wouldn't supprise me
  • Hope & Love 2009/06/25 17:40:25
    yes
    Hope & Love
    +1
    only if they get away with it....lol!

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