Ladies....if YOU have to do the proposing....let's face it ...... He's just not that into you....
Thankfully I've never had that problem!:-))
PUBLIC OPINION > Women Should Propose (If They Want)
SodaHead Living
2012/01/09 16:33:26
Snooki is getting a little anxious for her boyfriend to pop the question, even though they've only been together for maybe half a year. She reportedly said that she was giving the guy two years or she was gonna pop the question, and though she only mentioned it in passing, social norms are always a healthy topic to bring up. We took the opportunity to ask SodaHeads how they felt about women who want to propose.
Should Women Propose to Men?
70% Say Sure, Why Not?
A few decades ago this question probably would have gone in a completely different direction, but these days any question that starts with, "Should women..." is pretty much going to get a majority vote. Traditional expectations are definitely still there, but they've become somewhat optional for most families. One commenter wrote, "Although I prefer the old school way, I don't see the problem with a woman proposing to a man." More to the point, another respondent wrote, "Both of my wives did!"
Men Don't Mind...
There actually wasn't much of a gender gap here, but we felt we had to include this just to point out that men don't care, either. In fact, they were 5% more likely to encourage a girl to propose. Traditionally, men have taken the assertive role, even as far back as hunting and gathering societies -- but that's being challenged more and more. The Japanese even have a term for straight men who prefer submission: Grass-Eaters.
...But the Pressure's Still On
Grass-Eaters aren't getting all the luck, though. When we broke it down by relationship status, we found an interesting trend: Voters who were in an unmarried relationship were significantly less enthusiastic about letting the girl propose. Even married and engaged voters were fine with the idea, but the ones who are actually waiting for a ring are still hoping for that traditional proposal.
Sure Thing for Smokers
Not many demographics were as enthusiastic about women proposing than the smokers. Why would smokers have a stronger opinion on this? We're not sure. Maybe they have a burning desire to promote gender equality. Sorry. Bad joke. We're done.
If you'd like to vote on this question, dig deeper into the demographics, or engage in existing discussion about the topic, visit our original poll about women proposing. We'd love to hear from you!
Top Opinion
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Michelle 2012/01/10 01:02:20
As well as, a man that's equipped with 'palle di ottone'!
Two thoughts come to mind:
1. A lot of MEN in stable relationships believe they are stable because the way is open for either person to step if they don't like something. People tend to try harder when the audience isn't captive.
2. While it won't bother men who actually care for the woman but have a (ahem) "man reason" for not stepping up to the plate,.. it will cause some guys to run for the hills.
it's amazing how many women go for the effeminate male... so gross!!!
give me Bruce Willis, not Robert Patterson...
I like your pic, btw. My favorite Disney movie as a kid. Evening.
here's the thing though... Belle isn't a princess.. she never married the prince! lol
ok.. I take that back...not every girl...just us "girly" girls... those of us who still enjoy chivalry...and the non feminized male :-)
BTW, I have no intention of EVER getting married. I prefer to "live in sin". ☺
I should warn you though...many a female aquintence of mine said the same exact thing until they met the right guy! :-)
Don't try to curse me! Take it back or Imma have to do some Voodoo on you once I learn some!
;-p
Glad to see someone on Sodahead has a sense of humor! ☺
Thankfully I've never had that problem!:-))
man is suppose to leave from his mother and fathers abode and start or cultivate his own healthy habitat hospitable for his queen and a family. A man with purpose who values his life and mission understands the importance of choosing the best mate. Failure to choose wisely could really prove to be a grave mistake. The question is, what type of well prepared wise man waits for a woman whom he knows is special and is more than likely the one to propose to him. Bluntly put, if the woman has to ask, she can do better.
is that a picture of you btw?