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Public Opinion Says Teaching 11-Year-Olds About Condoms Is Not OK [INFOGRAPHIC]

SodaHead Infographics 2011/08/30 22:00:00
Last week we asked SodaHeads if 11-year-olds should be taught how to use a condom. It was a close call, but public opinion suggests that kids should be a wee bit older before getting that part of "the talk."

If you missed out on the original story, here's what sparked our interest:

But it looks like times have changed -- in New York City at least. The metropolitan city is reforming the way they look at sex education and will begin implementing a more controversial curriculum starting this year.

What does that mean, exactly? Well, for starters, public middle schools and high schools in the city will be given lessons on how to successfully use a condom and a talk on the appropriate age for sexual activity.


It was a close call this time around, and the break-down was a bit more complicated than previous questions we've looked at.

Religion and politics broke down as expected, but age threw a wrench into the system at every turn. There was even a strange disagreement between engaged and married people. Weird.

Let's dive.

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  • dePSyChO 2011/08/31 00:13:41
    dePSyChO
    +20
    I'll repeat my answer from the original question:

    1) Safe sex ed is better than abstinence only (or no sex ed) in every way

    2) No matter what you think or want, kids have sex earlier and earlier

    3) Knowing is half the battle, and it's always better to be safe

    4) Teaching them doesn't mean they're actually going to have sex, only that they'll know what to do when they do.

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  • JoeKnows Common ... 2011/09/03 01:11:54
    JoeKnows
    +1
    ... same here. I'll let my daughter in on it later, when she's ready... when I say she's ready. In the meantime, all she needs to know is that her clothes stay on and if someone tries to get inside of them... Daddy is going on a hunting trip.
  • Common ... JoeKnows 2011/09/07 04:23:06
    Common Sense Conservative
    100% agreed.
  • MCR 2011/08/31 02:05:20
    MCR
    +2
    Hey, just think... I and my fellow classmates had to learn about the male body parts at the age of 3rd grade... I think thats a little too young. We were all like ewww! but maybe if they didnt teach some stuff till a later date, then maybe there would be less teen pregnancies?
  • Flea 2011/08/31 01:57:13
    Flea
    +2
    I don't care about the denial, the "it won't happen to me"s- - after you contract a lifelong STD after having sex THE VERY FIRST TIME, you couldn't condone condom use ENOUGH to any kid old enough to have sex- and 11 is a perfect age to do it.
  • Victoria Flea 2011/08/31 02:16:35 (edited)
    Victoria
    Again, kids are never too young to teach, are they?
  • Flea Victoria 2011/08/31 02:27:34
    Flea
    +1
    I'd rather have them teaching each other to use condoms than having sex...
  • Victoria Flea 2011/08/31 02:44:23 (edited)
  • Flea Victoria 2011/08/31 03:04:00
    Flea
    +2
    My concern is the parents who don't EVEN teach, period. They have been out there, and will continue to be. THAT'S why these classes are so important.
    I've heard stories of parents, even in this day and age, who simply throw a box of rubbers or sanitary napkins on a kid's bed ( or if they're lucky, an actual book or pamphlet) and that's the extent of "the sex talk" in the house.
  • Victoria Flea 2011/08/31 03:08:24
  • JoeKnows Victoria 2011/09/07 06:48:38 (edited)
    JoeKnows
    "Again, kids are never too young to teach, are they?"

    What a stupid freaking comment...let's hear you say that when I'm teaching your 11 year old kid how to sterilize a needle just in case they decide to start shooting smack with their friends.
  • Common ... Flea 2011/08/31 06:11:55
    Common Sense Conservative
    +1
    My question to you is this, where are you when your 11 year old is having sex?
  • Flea Common ... 2011/08/31 22:31:31
    Flea
    And I'll answer that by asking you this-- where did you go when you wanted to do something you didn't want your parents to find out about when you were 11?
  • Common ... Flea 2011/09/01 08:25:35
    Common Sense Conservative
    +1
    At age 11 I was throwing baseballs, digging snow tunnels and swimming in the towns pool. My parents knew where I was 24/7 just as I do with my kids now. Sorry, I had no reason to duck my parents at age 11.
  • Flea Common ... 2011/09/08 01:13:18
    Flea
    +1
    And you're a liar. All kids go off and do private stuff. It might not be sexual in nature, but all kids go off with a pal or two and do something stupid they know they're not supposed to be doing. I did it, my husband did it, my brothers and sisters have done it, my stepkids have done it, and all my friends have done it.
    You can't watch a kid 24/7, despite your statement.
  • Common ... Flea 2011/09/08 05:48:41
    Common Sense Conservative
    Oh but you are sooooo wrong. My kids are 100% supervised 24/7 no matter how bad you feel that you can't do it with your kids.

    BTW, no need to lie, my parents always knew where i was and what i was doing because we had this thing called love and trust. Getcha some, it's pretty good stuff.
  • Flea Common ... 2011/09/09 02:07:58
    Flea
    If that is true, you have definitely lived a sheltered life. You and I grew up in the same generation, and there still was trust in the neighborhood- fears of strangers grabbing you and doing horrible things to you was nowhere near as rampant as they are now.
  • Common ... Flea 2011/09/09 20:03:47
    Common Sense Conservative
    Hence the reason my kids are 100% supervised 24/7/365

    really, it works. BTW, I had a great childhood. Wouldn't change it for anyone else's.
  • JoeKnows Flea 2011/09/07 06:46:18 (edited)
  • Flea JoeKnows 2011/09/08 01:23:45
    Flea
    +2
    ::: Its called parenting. If you don't have the time to take care of your kids then why did you bring them into the world in the first place?:::

    Maybe the "parents" brought these children into the world because noone- including their own parents- taught them how to use a fking rubber in the first place?
    It's a catch-22.
    As for myself, my parents never talked to me about sex. I learned in 6th grade health class. And no, I did not go running out having sex all over the place afterwards.
    Smartest thing to do is to toss Rubber Wearing 101 into the Human Reproduction portion of health class and have done with it.
  • JoeKnows Flea 2011/09/08 03:09:07
    JoeKnows
    understood. which is why the buck stops with the parents who should be the foremost people who know whats going on in their child's head and be able to hit them with that information at the critical moment... not too soon...not too late. I have a few years to go before I have to worry about my daughter asking these questions but, I've already made the commitment to remain close enough and aware enough to help her when the time comes. I want that information to come from me - not her friends and not her teachers.
  • i<3conanthebarbarian 2011/08/31 01:48:30
    i<3conanthebarbarian
    it really isn't
  • DavidAdams 2011/08/31 01:39:57
    DavidAdams
    +3
    Sex ed has been a joke because they haven't been straight with the kids as much as they should be. We can't always rely on parents to teach their kids about sex with the frank talk that is needed. I am 42 and when we were 11, a girl in my class became pregnant; she made herself fall on her belly in order to end the pregnancy. I find that the teens here are smarter than most on this topic and what's needed.
  • Victoria DavidAdams 2011/08/31 02:18:58 (edited)
    Victoria
    +2
    They teach them where the body parts are... But I will tell you this, I didn't wait for sex ed to educate my kid. I was bare bones with her about the reality. I'll be damned if I was going to "protect" her like my mother "protected" me. Reality all the way baby...
  • DavidAdams Victoria 2011/09/02 00:06:31
    DavidAdams
    Good to see you went all in with your kid. My mother got pregnant with me at 17 for the express reason of having something to love and love her back. She was only taught that sex was to lie down and take it for her man. Jeez, poor thing.
  • Ivana 2011/08/31 01:30:39
    Ivana
    i agree.
  • MarinerFH 2011/08/31 01:28:11
    MarinerFH
    It's a bit of a conundrum for parents. Teaching the use of a condom to a child is endorsing and condoning sexual activity by that child. Not telling the child leaves the door open for pregnancy and STDs.

    Hopefully the parents have been building values in their children from the cradle. Sadly, most have not.
  • Sami 2011/08/31 01:23:49
    Sami
    I say when they reach their teen years... like 13.
  • Andy 2011/08/31 01:17:36
    Andy
    +1
    If they are active... they need to be informed. Wished they would wait
  • Common ... Andy 2011/08/31 06:14:19
    Common Sense Conservative
    Why is it that you have to wish, where are you during the teens sex?
  • Andy Common ... 2011/09/01 17:44:57
    Andy
    Not watching, if that is your concern??
  • Common ... Andy 2011/09/01 22:31:07
    Common Sense Conservative
    Then that's YOUR problem. I watch my kids every move and one of them is NOT having sex at 11. WOW, no wonder this poll is up, for YOU
  • Andy Common ... 2011/09/03 14:25:18
    Andy
    You are messed up... I mean I am not watching kids have sex. I am not a perv!! I have discussed this issue with my daughters since they were very little. Now...two in college and the youngest in high school. They know the dangers of pre-marital sex and have vowed to stay pure until marriage.
  • Common ... Andy 2011/09/07 04:24:51
    Common Sense Conservative
    I'm not messed up, you are, the one assuming I have issues because I don't ever want some stranger telling my kids about sex. You do, and you call me messed up.
  • Met 2011/08/31 01:13:05
    Met
    +7
    Doesn't surprise me, the majority of people do seem to be idiots.

    Ask the same people if they think a 12 year old pregnant girl, or an 11 year old with an STD is acceptable, and they'll likely say no. The sad thing is they're too self righteous to see the correlation between the two, and how early knowledge can help overcome early mistakes.
  • blushn1980 2011/08/31 00:56:54
    blushn1980
    +3
    I want to know where the hell the parenting is! Being a parent means answering questions, no matter how uncomfortable. It's not just one talk at 10 it's a series of them. It starts as soon as they start asking them

    Do you really want a FAILING school system teaching something like this?
    Sex ED is a joke, since it's implementation in schools...
    Teen sex- rising
    Teen pregnancy- huge numbers and Glorified
    Teen STDs- UNBELIEVABLE NUMBERS
    teen pregnancy- huge numbers glorified teen stds- unbelievable numbers TEENS WITH STDS ON THE RISE
  • Ammyanne blushn1980 2011/08/31 08:42:19
    Ammyanne
    I read the opposite. Teen pregnancy and disease rose in correlation with abstinence ed.
  • blushn1980 Ammyanne 2011/08/31 13:33:24
    blushn1980
    Ask your doctors office. I work with teens and abused kids. Sex ed was implemented in the early 80s since then teen pregnancies have been on an increase. I don't want to be rude, but check your sources, and who is backing it. Be sure that they are backed by real stats.

    I was taught at HOME about abstinense. Guess what it worked! When taught propperly, such as teaching a young girl that she is worth respecting. She will be empowered to be strong. You can't just say don't do it or wait and leave it at that.
  • Christine 2011/08/31 00:54:16
    Christine
    11 years old is too young in my opinion. I think maybe 13 or 14 would be more appropriate.
  • Angel 2011/08/31 00:50:37 (edited)
    Angel
    +4
    schools should stick to , English, Writing and math, leave the sex talk for parents.. so they can be taught the parents values and not some stranger at school
  • blushn1980 Angel 2011/08/31 00:58:40
    blushn1980
    +1
    I AGREE TOTALLY!

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