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Public Opinion Says Teaching 11-Year-Olds About Condoms Is Not OK [INFOGRAPHIC]

SodaHead Infographics 2011/08/30 22:00:00
Last week we asked SodaHeads if 11-year-olds should be taught how to use a condom. It was a close call, but public opinion suggests that kids should be a wee bit older before getting that part of "the talk."

If you missed out on the original story, here's what sparked our interest:

But it looks like times have changed -- in New York City at least. The metropolitan city is reforming the way they look at sex education and will begin implementing a more controversial curriculum starting this year.

What does that mean, exactly? Well, for starters, public middle schools and high schools in the city will be given lessons on how to successfully use a condom and a talk on the appropriate age for sexual activity.


It was a close call this time around, and the break-down was a bit more complicated than previous questions we've looked at.

Religion and politics broke down as expected, but age threw a wrench into the system at every turn. There was even a strange disagreement between engaged and married people. Weird.

Let's dive.

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  • dePSyChO 2011/08/31 00:13:41
    dePSyChO
    +20
    I'll repeat my answer from the original question:

    1) Safe sex ed is better than abstinence only (or no sex ed) in every way

    2) No matter what you think or want, kids have sex earlier and earlier

    3) Knowing is half the battle, and it's always better to be safe

    4) Teaching them doesn't mean they're actually going to have sex, only that they'll know what to do when they do.

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  • mahogan... Common ... 2011/09/01 03:53:16
    mahoganysoul
    Yes, I'd rather have a teachers teaching 11 year olds how to be safe than have kids running around giving each other STDs and later on unplanned pregnancies. I know for a fact kids aren't going to wait for you to be ready to talk to them about sex, so someone has to do it.
  • Common ... mahogan... 2011/09/01 08:19:35
    Common Sense Conservative
    I know where my kids are 24/7 and I know what they are doing 24/7 and it's not having sex. Hey, if you want a teacher that isn't skilled on this topic to teach your kids, Sign em up. Me, I talk to my kids and again, I know were my kids are and what they are doing 24/7. That's what good parents do.
  • mahogan... Common ... 2011/09/01 16:14:49
    mahoganysoul
    You're right, that is what good parents do, but that doesn't mean everyone is out there doing those things. Some kids need the school system to teach them thing that they aren't getting at home. If you don't want your kid present then don't sign the permission slip, but there are some kids who do need this.
  • Common ... mahogan... 2011/09/01 22:28:44
    Common Sense Conservative
    School is NOT for teaching any kid about sex. That is the parents job whether they do it or not. If you think otherwise you are stepping over you bearings.

    To you, if I don't like the way I see you talking to your kids I have the right to step in and tell your kids what it is I think no matter who I am and what I'm about.
  • mahogan... Common ... 2011/09/03 04:10:54
    mahoganysoul
    That is not the way I see it. All I said was that while you may be the kind of parent who is on top of everything, there are many people out there who are not and their kids need someone even if its a teacher to have that talk with them before its to late.
  • Common ... mahogan... 2011/09/07 04:21:04
    Common Sense Conservative
    OK, then if someone thinks they hear you saying the wrong information to your kids, they should be able to step between you and your kids and set your kids straight. It's no different at all. You just believe what you say with the subject of sex when others believe there are other topics that might be just as if not more important.

    It's not the schools job to tell kids their OPINIONS.
  • mahogan... Common ... 2011/09/08 14:03:09
    mahoganysoul
    They don't want to give opinions they want to give facts. I'm not saying that teachers should be able to say whatever they want but somebody needs to be there for the kids who are not getting that kind of guidance at home.
  • Common ... mahogan... 2011/09/09 20:02:20
    Common Sense Conservative
    11 years old is an opinion for Gods sake.
  • ♥♥♥AznGurl92♥♥♥ 2011/08/31 03:26:48
    ♥♥♥AznGurl92♥♥♥
    +1
    too young!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • DutchHe... ♥♥♥AznG... 2011/08/31 08:36:22 (edited)
    DutchHeretic Native non-American
    +2
    yes , it is MUCH BETTER to wait until a 13 year home comes home pregnant ...
  • Common ... DutchHe... 2011/09/01 08:20:09
    Common Sense Conservative
    Maybe YOUR 13 year old.
  • DutchHe... Common ... 2011/09/01 08:42:16
    DutchHeretic Native non-American
    +1
    temper temper, when can I expect a coment from you that is no agression in it and actualy has substance ?
  • Common ... DutchHe... 2011/09/01 22:29:57
    Common Sense Conservative
    There is no temper what so ever,actually just the opposite, laughter,. Laughter at the stupid comments you liberals make.
  • DutchHe... Common ... 2011/09/02 16:22:39
    DutchHeretic Native non-American
    +1
    I am not a liberal , I live in the Netherlands and here this is quite normal and we have by far less teenage pregnancies than you narrow minded Americans...

    (and please spare me the crap you think to know about my country)
  • Purrrrr... DutchHe... 2011/09/02 21:18:26
    Purrrrrfect Lady
    Well said!
  • Common ... DutchHe... 2011/09/07 04:22:27
    Common Sense Conservative
    I could care less how your country is ran, do you know why,? Because it's None of my business. Let's keep it that way. And yes, you are a liberal.
  • DutchHe... Common ... 2011/09/07 05:51:54
    DutchHeretic Native non-American
    +1
    You don't care because you are a moron ..
    I think you watch too much football (the helmet) and my experience is that football fans are at average not the smartest people..
    And these people always think they know better ..
  • Common ... DutchHe... 2011/09/07 06:11:10
    Common Sense Conservative
    The typical liberal answer for everything. I'm so glad this helmet is here. It amazes me what people will turn to because they can't win a debate. That be you Dirk, the LOOOOOSER!
  • DutchHe... Common ... 2011/09/07 06:34:17
    DutchHeretic Native non-American
    +1
    Man you are SO dumb , calling me a liberal only a conservative would make such a braindead comment..
    And about this helmet I also looked at your profile and I see sports sports sports and sports..
    Maybe this is how you graduated college ?
    Because I highly doubt that you would made it without that ...
    And there is no debate to win, you are calling every one who disagrees an idiot and talk about kicking the teacher's ass , that is no debate..
    You are not exactly a winner in the brain department ..
    And me a looooooooser ? it has no meaning to me so call me what you want .
    But be careful with that because it might show you to be even dumber than you alread made yourself already appear
  • Common ... DutchHe... 2011/09/08 05:46:39
    Common Sense Conservative
    You are a looooser.

    DIRK

    Blaaaah hahahahahahaha

    Profile, sure it's all there. Blaaaah hahahahahahaha
  • hayesml47 2011/08/31 03:11:48
    hayesml47
    The teen poll was very interesting. Maybe these kids will be alright after all!
  • JoeKnows 2011/08/31 02:58:49 (edited)
    JoeKnows
    +3
    There is a fine line between educating children vs injecting them with information that is either useless or, harmful to their mental development. Not all children are aware or, even interested in sexual activities at the age of 11. Requiring all children to go through sexual education whether they are even prone to sexual behavior would be like requiring all children to go through firearm training by the age of 11 just because some parents own guns... Hey, y'never know when a child might pick up a gun and shoot someone so, why not send them to the firing range for a day and teach them how to avoid killing people. It would be just like sex education except they would replace the word "penis" with "gun", "bullet" with "sperm" and "condom" with "flack jacket". That would be ridiculous, and that is why this is an issue that must to be left up to the needs of the individual and not the needs of the whole.



    If I, as a parent, make efforts to educate my child in sexuality and do not want interference from an alternate source then, nobody has the right to interfere. If you are going to teach something uniformly across the board then focus on educating the children about social pressures and critical decision making... kid's are smarter that the educational institutes make them out to b...
    There is a fine line between educating children vs injecting them with information that is either useless or, harmful to their mental development. Not all children are aware or, even interested in sexual activities at the age of 11. Requiring all children to go through sexual education whether they are even prone to sexual behavior would be like requiring all children to go through firearm training by the age of 11 just because some parents own guns... Hey, y'never know when a child might pick up a gun and shoot someone so, why not send them to the firing range for a day and teach them how to avoid killing people. It would be just like sex education except they would replace the word "penis" with "gun", "bullet" with "sperm" and "condom" with "flack jacket". That would be ridiculous, and that is why this is an issue that must to be left up to the needs of the individual and not the needs of the whole.



    If I, as a parent, make efforts to educate my child in sexuality and do not want interference from an alternate source then, nobody has the right to interfere. If you are going to teach something uniformly across the board then focus on educating the children about social pressures and critical decision making... kid's are smarter that the educational institutes make them out to be; they should try spending their time working on a curriculum where children actually learn to think for themselves rather than simply spoon feeding them regurgitated rules from board regulated agendas. It is a parent's responsibility to speak with their children about the facts of life - If you can't manage to do that in an effective way, then you shouldn't be a parent.
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  • Ammyanne JoeKnows 2011/08/31 08:38:03
    Ammyanne
    Guns kill. Most people don't kill.
    Sex makes babies and diseases. Most people have sex. Everyone one the planet is here cos of sex.
    Quit equating guns and sex. Nearly all Kids are gonna try sex before guns.
  • JoeKnows Ammyanne 2011/08/31 16:50:28
    JoeKnows
    +1
    ...It is a parent's responsibility to speak with their children about the facts of life - If you can't manage to do that in an effective way, then you shouldn't be a parent.
  • Ammyanne JoeKnows 2011/09/02 21:14:08
    Ammyanne
    Especially an eleven year old parent who wasn't taught about condoms:-\
  • JoeKnows Ammyanne 2011/09/03 01:02:32 (edited)
    JoeKnows
    ...what exactly are you getting at? All that I am saying is there are different levels of social development and if an 11 year old is not sexually active nor, sexually aware then shoving a condom in their hand and asking them to roll it onto a cucumber is not only an invasion of a parents rights, it is completely inappropriate in a school environment and could be considered borderline sexual provocation of a minor.

    You may think that its ok to turn the responsibility over to a school board to teach your children the basic elements of a parent/child relationship but, not every parent will agree with you.

    Yes, some children are just prone to sexuality and may need direction earlier in life but forcing it on every child is completely asinine. If there is a fault in sexual education within the family then, maybe its the parents that are too ignorant to give their child a proper learning environment that need to be sitting in a classroom learning how to be a parent.

    Teach your children (or choose not to) however you feel is right by you... if I have my 11 year old daughter come home from school and tell me that she was rolling condoms on cucumbers while I already had my own regimen in place... I would fear to be the principal of that school.
  • Ammyanne JoeKnows 2011/09/08 05:41:00
    Ammyanne
    They do send home permission slips, you know... Its optional, which means the good parents who are active in their children's lives and well-being can exempt their child if they so choose. It's for the kids of parents who are so out of touch they probably don't even read permission slips...
  • Victoria 2011/08/31 02:08:37 (edited)
  • Common ... Victoria 2011/08/31 06:10:45
    Common Sense Conservative
    +3
    I have an 11 year old son and I'd kick anyones @ss if they even brought up the word condom to him.
  • Victoria Common ... 2011/08/31 07:34:29
    Victoria
    +3
    Only a parent has the right to bring that topic up to a kid. I'd kick their ass if they were to speak those words to my kid if she were that age again. Parents need to speak up before others do though. They're only going to get the truth from their parents or not at all as far as I can see.
  • lindasue Victoria 2011/09/01 02:11:17
    lindasue
    Get with it. how about their peers??
  • Common ... lindasue 2011/09/01 08:21:22
    Common Sense Conservative
    PARENTING!!!
  • Common ... Victoria 2011/09/01 08:20:48
    Common Sense Conservative
    You are 100% correct
  • Victoria Common ... 2011/08/31 07:35:55
    Victoria
    +1
    Oh btw the way, Good day to you, goodbye to you as well. Been given a code of conduct warning because a guy who called me a nutcase turned me in, so I'm dumping on this stupid site. They apparently favor pedophiles.
  • Victoria Victoria 2011/08/31 07:38:43
    Victoria
    +1
    Yeah, this article favors pedophiles which Bob is, I received a code of conduct warning for calling him on it. I'm done with this idiot site. Bob, your pedophilia will be fruitful now that I'm gone....
  • Common ... Victoria 2011/09/01 08:21:52
    Common Sense Conservative
    Sorry
  • DutchHe... Common ... 2011/08/31 08:45:06
    DutchHeretic Native non-American
    +1
    Wow you are really narrow minded..
    Ok and when he makes a 12/13 year old girl pregnant, blame it in the girl ??
  • Common ... DutchHe... 2011/09/01 08:22:32
    Common Sense Conservative
    PARENTING!!!!
  • lindasue Common ... 2011/09/01 02:10:26
    lindasue
    Then you'll be charged with assault on a minor cause you can bet him and his friends are talking about it as you type. You're a real tough guy kicking everybody's asses. How ignorant.
  • Common ... lindasue 2011/09/01 08:23:11
    Common Sense Conservative
    No, I stand up and speak to my kids myself, not teachers.

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