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PUBLIC OPINION > Relationship Name Tattoos Are a Terrible Idea

SodaHead Living 2012/04/17 21:00:00
"Frasier" star Kelsey Grammer unabashedly got his fourth wife's name tattooed on his hip this weekend, conjuring that age-old question: Is it ever appropriate to get a tattoo of your significant other's name? Of all people, you'd think a man who had been divorced three times would be aware of the relative instability of a relationship. As sad as it may sound, marriage is not as permanent as a tattoo. We asked the public if relationship tattoos could ever be a good idea.

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What? Relationship tattoos are a bad idea? You don't say! We're surprised they got as much support as they did. The Top Opinion summarized it well: "Never get anyone's name tattooed unless they are your kid or they are dead." That sounds like a pretty good rule of thumb. Or... hip, forearm, lower back, wherever. However, there were some respondents with first-hand experience. One commenter wrote, "I don't regret it because at that point in time that person made a memory in my life."

It's Complicated

Surprisingly, the most supportive respondents were those in "complicated" relationships. You'd think they would be more skeptical, but maybe that explains why Grammer was so willing to tat up. However, divorcees were by far the least supportive, so... It's complicated.


Women Are More Likely

Women are nearly twice as likely to say a relationship tattoo could work. It could be that men, in general, are more hesitant to commit. That is a common stereotype, and you can't commit much harder than embedding someone's name into your dermis with permanent ink.


Not for Conservatives

Tattoos typically aren't very popular with conservatives in the first place, which could easily explain the difference between liberals and conservatives. There was a similar gap between Christians and atheists, which we assume would be for similar reasons.


If you'd like to vote on this question, dig deeper into the demographics, or engage in existing discussion about the topic, visit our poll about relationship tattoos. We'd love to hear from you!
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  • Fef 2012/04/17 23:03:19
    Fef
    +10
    #duh ... if you love someone permanently, put a ring on it, not an ink pen

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  • schjaz 2012/04/21 16:29:28
    schjaz
    I think you should do as you feel is best for you....thinking of getting one to commemorate my dad.
  • mind-pilot 2012/04/19 18:21:02
    mind-pilot
    Oh stop whining. That has been a problem since the art first originated. Get a good artist and he/she can remake something else you'll have to hide in 20 years. Is America just a nation of whiners about everything?
  • **Bessie** 2012/04/19 18:19:25
    **Bessie**
    I love ink, however, I would never put any name of anyone on me, with the exception, maybe, of my daughter
  • LeroyRogers 2012/04/19 17:38:45
    LeroyRogers
    Attention Whores. They want/need you to look at them.
  • schjaz LeroyRo... 2012/04/21 16:30:31
    schjaz
    I don't know if that's always the case. a lot of ppl get them as tributes.
  • Santiago sc 2012/04/19 16:36:03
    Santiago sc
    just marry her/him
  • Katniss 2012/04/19 16:34:05
    Katniss
    I can understand after you've been happily married to your first significant other for quite some time, but this...
    My parents have been married for 20 years, and are stil veeeery much in love, and they have each others names tattooed on their shoulders.
  • Mike 2012/04/19 15:04:43
    Mike
    Why would someone do such a thing, love is shown and given not a public display of ink jetting your skin
  • Robin B 2012/04/19 14:52:53
    Robin B
    +1
    I don't like any tats, but to each their own. I would like to open a scar free tat removal office, in a short time I'd be rich!
  • stl.shamrock 2012/04/19 06:13:52
    stl.shamrock
    He should have gotten "Your Name" tattooed on himself. If they didn't work out, he could tell any female he tries to hook up with, "I've got your name tattooed on me." and mean it.
  • Oaces_boss_yo® 2012/04/19 05:45:29
  • phil white 2012/04/19 03:28:09 (edited)
    phil white
    Gives the phrase "painfull divorce" new meaning.
  • LoveBug 2012/04/19 02:49:07
    LoveBug
    Anything can happen to the relationship. It could be fine one day, and on the verge of destruction the next--fighting, death... Anything could happen. I say names = No. However, couple's tattoo's are a different story. They could be something that would be easy enough to explain away to someone--if something were to happen to your relationship!
  • Maci 2012/04/19 02:46:25
  • Riley 2012/04/19 02:26:55
    Riley
    If you make an honest-to-gods commitment to that person, like say marry them, then why not? The idea behind marrige is to not get divorced so why not get a tattoo? If thats your thing then go fo it.
  • Mini Twuby 2012/04/19 02:24:10
    Mini Twuby
    Horrible idea what happens if you break up with him? DO you want his name on your back?
  • lorenab. 2012/04/19 02:02:35
    lorenab.
    +1
    yeah... i would never get my "significant others" name tatooed anywhere on me!:D i mean yeah, what if you guys break up, or what if they die. and you get another husband... thats always gonna be kinda weird...
  • Sig Sauer P220 2012/04/18 23:42:37
    Sig Sauer P220
    +4
    Bad Idea ... with the current divorce percentages ...

    Tattoed Sailor
  • **Bessie** Sig Sau... 2012/04/19 18:20:02
    **Bessie**
    Love Rockwell!! :)
  • Sig Sau... **Bessie** 2012/04/19 20:56:59
    Sig Sauer P220
    +1
    Likewise ...
  • Melanie 2012/04/18 23:15:13
    Melanie
    +2
    That's stupid LOL. "I love you! Let's get matching tattoos to show our love!"
    "I love you too! Okay!" and three weeks later their divorced...awkward.
  • Rambo S... Melanie 2012/04/19 00:39:30
    Rambo Smurf
    +3
    And a divorce without tattoos is so much less awkward. :)
  • Melanie Rambo S... 2012/04/21 18:52:23
    Melanie
    +1
    Lol that's true I just meant relationship wise. But still, sorry I didn't word it correctly.
  • Rambo S... Melanie 2012/04/24 23:08:32
    Rambo Smurf
    No, you're fine. I was just being silly.

    To me, the whole idea of getting a tattoo is weird. But using a tattoo as a way of showing commitment to your spouse is about as good a reason as any.
  • **StarzAbove** 2012/04/18 22:45:42
    **StarzAbove**
    +4
    Crazy idea.
  • Heisenberg 2012/04/18 22:44:10
    Heisenberg
    +3
    Yes, they are indeed a terrible idea because they can also be painful reminders whenever relationships wind up going South.
  • BRIDGET 2012/04/18 21:38:18
    BRIDGET
    +1
    EVERY SINGLE TIME I SEE A NAME TATTOO, THE COUPLE BREAKS UP. YOUR CHILDREN'S NAMES ARE FINE.
  • FordCrews 2012/04/18 20:34:37
    FordCrews
    +2
    Nothing like reducing your potential income by 1/3 for the rest of you life just to have some artwork on your body that looks like it was drawn by a horny 7th grade boy with little to no talent.
  • writing_fanatic 2012/04/18 20:10:25
    writing_fanatic
    +2
    If they've got a purpose. My uncle has one dedicated to my grandpa. That's okay. If you get them done for every person you date then you really need a new way of showing them you really love them.
  • PurdyGirl 2012/04/18 20:09:45
    PurdyGirl
    +1
    If you're in a steady relationship, I don't think it would be a problem. But if you're just dating it will almost always be a mistake.
  • gothickittie 2012/04/18 19:49:45
    gothickittie
    +2
    I think that it is stupid to get a tattoo of your lovers name. What if it doesn't work out? Your stuck with a stupid name on your body.
  • Honeybuns 2012/04/18 19:44:31
    Honeybuns
    +1
    I would not tattoo my boyfriend or husband name on me. Maybe a family member.
  • zionosphere 2012/04/18 19:39:24
    zionosphere
    +2
    Perhaps I'll get my own name tattooed on my arm. It suits my narcissism, and it will help me to remember when I am senile.
  • Sig Sau... zionosp... 2012/04/18 23:44:50
    Sig Sauer P220
    +2
    Maybe Obama should do the same ...
  • eliminator_90 2012/04/18 18:14:33
    eliminator_90
    +1
    Terrible idea !
  • no one here 2012/04/18 18:01:37
    no one here
    +1
    (lol) I had this g-friend and she had this Dudes name on her neck she never dated who was in prison just to be cool (lol), it did not last, I ren like hell (lol).. I do have an EAGLE On my arm because it is the symbol opf the native American People....

    eagle tattoo
  • Seán Ga... no one ... 2012/04/19 07:52:15
    Seán Gallagher
    +2
    Now then! The Eagle symbol: I sometimes ponder over that one: The Roman Empire...The German Nazi Army....The native American people........U ................Hmmmmmmmm???
  • no one ... Seán Ga... 2012/04/19 23:08:32
    no one here
    DISCERN FOR YOURSELF -

    Before the Taibou came (Europeans) OUR HOLY PEOPLE said they would come. They also said OUR SYMBOL Of the PEOPLE (EAGLE) Would be atop their staff. It was prophesy if they came with the symbol of the circle they would save our people, it was also said, if they come with the symbol of a CROSS they will almost destroy us.

    Now we are in another stage, that is, THE TREE OF LIFE! THAT ALL COLORS and CULTURES WILL STAND WITH US.

    THE FIRST SHALL BE LAST and the LAST SHALL BE FIRST - EARTH SPIRITUALITY!




    http://www.bibliotecapleyades...

    http://www.ausbcomp.com/redma... tree of life tree of lifee agle and condor
  • pitchergrl1 2012/04/18 17:00:51
    pitchergrl1
    +2
    i think they are stupid. cute for a while but not long. they are dumb because you never know how long that relationship may last.It wont be coming off to easy if the relationship doesn't last
  • Sig Sau... pitcher... 2012/04/18 23:46:31
    Sig Sauer P220
    +2
    Yup a friend of mine got her matching tattoo rmoved after she divorced her husband ... she said it cost over $1,000 to remove that $50 flashh tattoo ... and A LOT more painful for the removal ...

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