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PUBLIC OPINION > More Men Want to Stay at Home Than Women

SodaHead Living 2012/09/13 21:00:00
Gender roles aren't quite what they used to be. In the last 100 years, women in America have earned the right to vote and made significant progress toward financial equality. Women are free to pursue their own careers, or stay at home if they choose. Likewise, it's becoming more socially acceptable for men to stay at home. But does that actually reflect what the respective genders want out of life? We asked more than 500 people if they would rather work or stay at home.

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The results were split down the middle, with 51% of voters preferring to work and 49% preferring to stay at home. We should point out right off the bat that "staying at home" does not mean "relaxing at home." The Top Opinion read, "Staying at home is work!" Of course, each person will interpret "staying at home" differently. The most common interpretation was raising the kids, while some took it to mean simply working from home.

Women Don't Want to Stay at Home

No matter how you interpret the options, one thing is clear: women are less likely than men to want to stay at home. Many respondents suggested that women are natural care-givers, but the majority of female voters would rather go to work, often saying they'd go crazy staying home all day. Men were actually 10% more likely to desire staying at home.

Teens Want to Work

We were a little bit surprised to find that teens were actually most eager to go to work. By a lot. Some respondents did take "staying at home" to mean "doing nothing," but very few of them were teens. The 35-44 age group was least interested in going to work, probably opting to work from home after years of working in an office next to that guy who doesn't cover his mouth when he sneezes.

Workers Wouldn't Mind Staying Home

On a similar note, unemployed voters were more likely to say they want to work than voters who are fully or partially employed, suggesting it's not for lack of motivation that people are out of the job. Full-time employees would rather stay at home. Again, this is probably due to office burn-out.

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  • evangelism_vision 2012/09/13 22:04:57
    evangelism_vision
    +12
    I want to stay Home!

    After all, I served in the Navy for 20 Years, Combat duty in Gulf War 1 now Disabled Veteran, Retired and worked 35 Years in Retail Management.

    YEP! Love being home, watering the grass, trimming the Trees, Playing Golf, and being on Soda Head. And the Best Part is that I don't have to work Sundays any more and i am free for Church and that alone is more important to me than anything else.

    **************** Dang ! I love Retirement *************

    But Thanks to Obama, I have less money to spend and now Gas is $4.15 a Gallon here in California. Guess you know who I am Not going to vote for in November.

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  • norm 2012/10/05 17:21:51
    norm
    I would rather be on the golf course. Home is closer to the course. Therefore, let me stay home baby! The kids will fit on the golf cart!
  • Healingme 2012/09/18 16:57:25 (edited)
    Healingme
    i'm staying home because I'm in the process to start a business from home,it's makes sense :)
  • kimmie 2012/09/17 17:08:47
    kimmie
    I 'd rather go to work ! If I stay home all the time how am I going to pay the bills and put food the table to feed my family .
  • VintageLys 2012/09/17 06:25:06
    VintageLys
    not shocked
  • Skylaris Alanis 2012/09/16 23:56:05
    Skylaris Alanis
    cool.
  • democoach 2012/09/16 19:56:00
    democoach
    concidering woman are trying to take over mens positions, then i gues smen should tak eovr theirs lol.
  • Marianne 2012/09/16 16:10:12
    Marianne
    I do understand perfectly that men are increasingly realising that working or staying at home depends on the interests and skills of the individual. Everyone is different, has own targets and interests. Men at work and women staying at home was more a matter of education than of partnership. Now that mentality changes and that women's work and responsibilities are more and more recognised, also men will show more interest in formerly typical feminine occupations.
  • katzillarawr 2012/09/16 14:50:57
    katzillarawr
    +2
    LOL! It's just that modern women are more ambitious and independent than ever, so it's not surprising that we want to be out there working and contributing to society. As for men, more are becoming lazier and less ambitious. Ok - this opinion may be slightly biased :D
  • CAPISCE 2012/09/16 14:34:35
    CAPISCE
    +1
    Seems Women need a career to identify themselves more than men. In my opinion it doesnt matter what parent stays home but all children benefit more from a parent than a day care. I understand this is not possible in all situations but if it is possible it should be the case.
    More money is not as important as the childs personal care by a parent.
  • Alexander T Steward 2012/09/16 14:10:30
    Alexander T Steward
    If I had kids I might want to stay at home. But If I were home alone I'd go stir crazy.
  • zachary rhodin 2012/09/16 08:44:19
    zachary rhodin
    I like 50/50 home and work its all about balance for me.
  • Christopher Kirchen 2012/09/16 04:22:29
    Christopher Kirchen
    I kind of get it; men have been the workhorses outside the home for millennia and now want a change of pace.
  • Arse-Whole 2012/09/16 03:03:45
  • Arse-Whole 2012/09/16 03:03:01
  • warrior... Arse-Whole 2012/09/16 06:03:06
    warrior goddess
    +1
    I am glad that it does not take a man to care for a family. Perfectly fine doing that myself.
  • CAPISCE warrior... 2012/09/16 14:50:55
    CAPISCE
    That is a sexist statement.
    What if a man said a mother isn't needed to raise a child? Single parent can do an good job but all studies indicate a mother /father of opposite sex is most healthy enviroment.
    An article published last year in the "Journal of Marriage and Family" explores research results that reveal how children do when parented by lesbians, gay men, heterosexual couples, single mothers and single fathers.

    Authors Timothy J. Biblarz and Judith Stacey synthesized the findings from 33 studies of two-parent families and 48 studies of single-parent families. They conclude: "Compared to all other family forms, families headed by a mother and father, compatible parents are generally best for children."

    Their conclusion is consistent with research published in 2005 by sociologist Paul Amato, who "shows that compared with other children, those who grow up in stable, two-parent families have a higher standard of living, receive more effective parenting, experience more cooperative co-parenting, are emotionally closer to both parents, and are subjected to fewer stressful events and circumstances."
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  • warrior... CAPISCE 2012/09/16 19:10:06
    warrior goddess
    It is not a sexist statement. If a man wants to raise his children on his own, that's fine, as well. Sometimes one, well adjusted parent is all a child needs.
  • Arse-Whole warrior... 2012/09/16 21:11:45
    Arse-Whole
    +1
    One parent is never all a child needs. Everyone thinks they can do it themselves. Maybe they can survive, but the child still isn't getting all they need. There is an inherent masculinity men have that women don't. And there is an inherent femininity women have that men don't. Children are better off when both aspects are involved in their upbringing. There's no agenda to it. It's nature.
  • Arse-Whole warrior... 2012/09/16 21:17:10
    Arse-Whole
    Single mom, huh? How much do you collect each month? I'm just curious if you love and attend to yoir child all say and still keep the roof over his/her/their head without someone else providing for you. I'm a single dad and I do both. Hence, being a man.
  • warrior... Arse-Whole 2012/09/17 02:25:31
    warrior goddess
    I don't get a single cent from anyone. I pay my mortgage every month and they have food to eat. Hence being a PARENT.
  • warrior... Arse-Whole 2012/09/17 02:26:39
    warrior goddess
    Oh and by the way, other than pee standing up, there is nothing that a penis equipped person that could teach my son or my daughters about anything that I cannot.
  • Arse-Whole warrior... 2012/09/17 05:22:05
    Arse-Whole
    I disagree. Just as I'm sure there are things estrogen equipped people can teach my daughter that I can not, I'm sure your son's father can teach him a thing or to that you can't. You think you can. But you can't. And you lack the masculinity that your daughters crave. Girls need dads soooooooo much more than boys do. This is both proved in studies and through common sense. I'm not talking trash here. I'm simply trying to make the case that it's always better for any child to have both separate but equal roles of mother and father present throughout their childhood. But it doesn't mean kids from single parent homes are doomed.
  • warrior... Arse-Whole 2012/09/18 03:31:55
    warrior goddess
    Neither of my girls care to speak to their father. Work? They learned that from me. Sports? Me. Cars? Me again. There is nothing and I mean nothing that he has to offer them. At all. Ever. I have taught my son how to treat people, of both genders. You do know that all studies can be skewed to show the desired outcome, right? And here is the thing about studies and family- there is no one perfect situation-ever. Everything my kids need or will learn will come from me and me alone.
  • Arse-Whole warrior... 2012/09/18 04:37:41
    Arse-Whole
    Congratulations. That's the same proud attitude spawning dozens of single teen moms across the country. How did you teach them all these things (you and you alone) while maintaining a career and providing their basic needs? Parenting aside, as a guy I can tell you within 5 minutes of meeting a girl if she has daddy issues or not. A girl not even wanting a relationship with their biological father is one of the more prominent red flags. I'm sorry you got knocked up by a dead beat... 3 times, apparently. Just because you love your kids unconditionally doesn't mean they got everything they needed from you. Single parents tend to project more stress on to their kids, for instance. Indecisiveness, anxiety, low self esteem... just a few of the issues with children from single parent homes. Even if you did raise 3 of the brightest, hardest working, sports playing, car fixing kids on the planet, they're the exception to the rule. Not some study's rule. The common sense rule. There's always a void there.

    And back to the topic at hand. Your ex seems to fit the criteria of my original rant.
  • warrior... Arse-Whole 2012/09/19 03:19:28
    warrior goddess
    Thank cats I never married that man, meanwhile. None of them have self esteem issues. I work from home. I am also pursuing my degree- my youngest and I often do homework at the same time. My older daughter has very high standards for the kind of man that she will and will not date but is perfectly self sufficient on her own. She also does not define herself by some man - if she has a boyfriend, okay, if not, okay. Either way she is happy with herself. The only thing they ever got from their male parent is genetic material. The end.
  • CAPISCE Arse-Whole 2012/09/16 14:37:13
    CAPISCE
    The Liberal Feminization of American men.
    The flip side is Women becoming less Feminine per Liberal agenda
  • warrior... CAPISCE 2012/09/16 19:10:56
  • CAPISCE warrior... 2012/09/16 21:31:02
    CAPISCE
    Look around
  • mikeeonly 2012/09/16 02:54:04
    mikeeonly
    I've been disabled for 11 yrs and wish I could work. It's wierd though because sometimes it seems like I have no time
  • Boo! 2012/09/16 00:28:34
    Boo!
    +1
    My step-dad stayed home with his kids when they where little
  • kate 2012/09/15 20:23:01
    kate
    i'd like to work actually!!but in a job that suits me and that i find fullfilling and enjoy doing..i'd like to pursue a career after university but also spend time with my friends and family and create a family of my own as well.i'd like to live a balanced lifestyle...as much as possible :) and no i don't think men should stay home :// where did that now come from???i don't think it's good to live a life without responsibilities...especially with the economy nowadays this is not only stupit.it's practically impossible!!
  • Hitsuin 2012/09/15 19:22:26
    Hitsuin
    I've got more skills than Cloud Strife but I'm still recuperating from my childhood and teens.
  • Surgeon ~The Egalitarianist~ 2012/09/15 18:13:48
    Surgeon ~The Egalitarianist~
    I'm a woman and I'd much rather stay at home and take care of things in the house. But that's mostly because I just hate dealing with people that much - I'm not personable. They just annoy me so much, so I can't deal with co-workers and customers without a blood vessel in my head bursting from rage.

    That being said, I'd probably work from home, because that's simply more practical than not having any sort of job, but it would probably be selling my artwork - that'll give me more flexibility to get things done at home and stuff.
  • Playerazzi 2012/09/15 18:09:19
    Playerazzi
    I would do it from time to time. In fact, I'm doing it alot more these days, as my wife is in a very demanding nursing program, and my schedule is much more flexible.

    But it depends on each family. My wife still considers the home her domain, and leaves the main bread-winning and budget balancing to me.
  • chris91 2012/09/15 16:31:45
    chris91
    +1
    Why would anyone want to waste a big chunk of their lives at home? YOLO
  • CrazyJason 2012/09/15 12:50:54
    CrazyJason
    +4
    Get your asses to work.
  • Todd Parsons 2012/09/15 11:09:17
    Todd Parsons
    +1
    the 13-17 year olds are just anxious to grow up and move out and have the cash to be free of mom and dad for the most part.. I think that is why the graph shows as it does. the 35-44 year old have been in the workforce for at least 20 years and are most likely burned out at this point. As far as the overall rating... with 46 Million on welfare I can see why it's so close.
  • Angel* 2012/09/15 06:49:48
    Angel*
    +1
    It's about time men find out that staying at home with the kids is one of the hardest
    Jobs a person can ever have.
  • Drug Free Angel* 2012/09/16 06:58:02
    Drug Free
    Hard for some...but most people simply do what has to be done and take it all in stride...so to speak.
    It is stressfull for some but most people cope with it easy enough knowing that 10 to 12 hours on the job everyday is and or can be just as stressfull.
    Until you have tried both roles then it is hard to say which is more challenging and or more stressfull or harder.
  • Angel* Drug Free 2012/09/23 09:00:48
    Angel*
    True, I worked from the age of 14tn. Till I was 30ty and did well managing a few stores and I was the only bread winer in my family, then I entered a new relationship were we decided that it would be best for me to take care of our home and our children. I know working out side the home can be very hard, I'm not knocking it, it's just the hard work you do at home sometimes is not valued or even noticed at times.

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