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PUBLIC OPINION > It Should Only Take a Few Minutes to Text Back

SodaHead Living 2012/05/01 22:00:00
It's hard to believe how recently texting was introduced into our lives. The formative years were 1989 to 1992, when people were flipping their pagers upside-down to receive vital messsages like "hello" (07734) and "boobies" (5318008). In 2009, a reported 152.7 billion text messages were being sent per month in America, averaging 534 per user. You could say it's gotten popular. We wanted to know how long it takes the public to respond to one of those billions of texts.

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Hardly anyone takes an hour to text back on average, but the big pull here was between a speedy response and an apathetic laze. Most respondents said they typically respond within minutes, but there was a large group who are either too busy to ensure a quick reply, or just don't care enough to jump on it immediately. More often than not, it was the former, but there were some who expressed a sort of anti-texting sentiment. One commenter wrote, "I hate the phone with a passion therefore normally it takes me forever to get around to replying to any messages on it."

Females Respond Faster

There are conflicting studies on whether women actually talk more than men. One by Louann Brizendine suggests women speak an average of 2.9 times as many words as men in a day. Another, aided by James Pennebaker, suggests the difference is so small as to be statistically negligible. But our poll does show that women are 18% more likely to respond to your text ASAP. So there's that.

Young Adults Take Their Time

The age breakdown was surprising. We expected response time to drop as voters got older, but instead we found that only two age groups varied. Teens (13-17) and people approximately the age of their parents, maybe a bit older (45-54), were about 25% more likely to respond in a flash. But everyone in the middle (18-44) took their sweet time about it.


Dating Has Minimal Impact

We thought maybe there would be a divide between singles and voters in a relationship -- either they would be texting eachother with more zeal, or taking advantage of the time apart when they had it -- but there was little to be found. Those in a relationship were about 10% more likely to respond in minutes. Maybe that's because there was a mixture of both reactions. Or maybe it just didn't affect much.

If you'd like to vote on this question, dig deeper into the demographics, or engage in existing discussion about the topic, visit our poll about texting response times. We'd love to hear from you!
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  • Inquisitve Kat 2012/05/02 06:04:59
    Inquisitve Kat
    I like texting, it's convenient, but I hate that people are 'expected' to respond within a few minutes. Sometimes you're busy... or just plain preoccupied. It's like we expect the people we're texting to just drop whatever they're doing and shift their focus to us (not really the same as telephone calls, since we don't call nearly as often as we text).
    Just another sign of a "me"-centred society complete with sense of entitlement and an overwhelming demand for instant gratification.
  • Nai M. 2012/05/02 05:39:21
    Nai M.
    +1
    It is so annoying when you need to know something NOW and they don't text back until two hours later!
  • VERYwis... Nai M. 2012/05/02 20:27:13
    VERYwiseguy
    +1
    Try calling them. lol
  • TKramar VERYwis... 2012/07/01 04:02:11
    TKramar
    +1
    If I'm busy, it's just going to go to voice mail.
  • Me 2012/05/02 04:49:39
    Me
    It depends on what im doing and if a response is needed right away
  • TKramar Me 2012/07/03 22:27:27
    TKramar
    +1
    If my girlfriend sends me to the store for something, and I need clarification once I'm there, then I'd rather text. Short question, short answer. "I need a bottle of ketchup". I get there, and there are like five different sizes, and 15 different brands (though I know she'd just rather get the generic in almost every case).
  • Me TKramar 2012/07/04 01:43:26
    Me
    :-)
  • Grady Jellyneck 2012/05/02 04:12:16
    Grady Jellyneck
    It depends who im texting. If there boring me to sleep ill text them slower but still text them
  • L1 2012/05/02 03:47:03
    L1
    Still take my time. I'm not connected to phone at the hip and not all texts are important.
  • Shadow Wolf 2012/05/02 03:30:59
    Shadow Wolf
    i respond quickly if im not very busy cuz ya know..i do have a life lol
  • EmoMcParland 2012/05/02 02:15:20
    EmoMcParland
    +1
    Immediately I actually feel uncomtable on the phone; my buddies know so they text me.
  • seahawk665 2012/05/02 01:27:26
    seahawk665
    I'll respond in a few minutes if I'm not in class, at work, or driving and I have my phone with me. Otherwise the person won't be getting a text from me until much later.
  • Alexis 2012/05/01 23:58:38
    Alexis
    Depends on who texts me, if it's someone I want to talk to then I'll reply, if not I won't bother. If I'm busy or don't want to talk at the moment I'll wait to reply until I feel like it.
  • volley15 2012/05/01 23:43:14
    volley15
    Generally I respond back within a few minutes, however if I'm at work, driving,or otherwise occupied it could be hours before I get to responding to a text. Especially on nights that are normally very busy or that I'm closing the store.
  • Wolfgirl 2012/05/01 23:39:50
    Wolfgirl
    I usually text back immediately unless I'm busy.
  • Link 2012/05/01 23:11:24
    Link
    +1
    I generally text back fairly quick... But, delayed responses are generally due to being in a meeting (unless the meeting is extremely boring, or the text is extremely important and I can hide the fact that I'm texting)... or I'm training or some other important deal that I can't reply fairly quickly...

    And, an interesting side note: I read an article today on technology... Interestingly, there are what are referred to as Natives and Immigrants... Natives being those born "with a cell phone in hand" and Immigrants being those like me who grew up when a computer was in a room the size of a house and Windows and Mac weren't even thought of... when all that was on a computer screen was green, squarish text on a black screen and no one had them in their homes... I had never seen a computer in use until I was in my 20's...
  • TKramar Link 2012/07/01 04:04:23
    TKramar
    I'd seen them, but never owned any. I don't even own this one, belongs to my room mate.

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