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PUBLIC OPINION > Don't Wear Too Much Makeup on a First Date

SodaHead Living 2012/05/30 16:00:00
There are enough things to worry about on a first date without having to overthink your wardrobe, so we polled the public on big first date don't-wears to find out the key things women should avoid if they want to land that elusive second date. Sometimes it's easier to prepare if you've got a quick checklist of things not to do. But what is the ultimate first date faux pas? Read on to find out.

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Whatever you do, gals, don't cake on too much makeup! Obviously, if you're on a first date, you only care what the guys think. We'll get to that. But on the off-chance that you aren't intrigued enough to read on, take our word for it -- too much makeup is a big mistake. To be honest, it's kind of refreshing. It means that unnatural "perfection" that some women strive to achieve is a vain pursuit. It's not worth it! There's nothing wrong with a little color, but if you can't restrain yourself, you're better off au naturale. (Side note: The Top Comment brings up a good point. Wedding rings are worse.)

Women Are More Worried About Skin

The most interesting thing we found in our results was the difference between how men and women voted. Men were way more concerned about how much makeup a woman wears, whereas women were more concerned about how much they showed off. Only 14% of men thought that revealing too much was the worst thing a woman could do on a first date. Though, to be fair, that doesn't mean revealing too much is a good idea...

Respectable Teens

Parents would be happy to hear that the majority of teens (52%) said that revealing too much is the worst thing a girl could do on a first date. (Although, while we're on the topic, parents are considerably more concerned with makeup.) That number dropped steeply through to the 40s, where it jumped up a bit, then dropped again.

UGGs Get an Honorable Mention

UGGs didn't score especially high in any category, but they were despicable enough to merit a paragraph of their own. Overall, they landed a distant but comfortable spot as the third-worst thing a woman could wear on a first date, beyond too much makeup and too much skin. Look, we know they might be comfortable, but... No one likes them. They're like Crocs. Good qualities be damned. Just... don't.

If you'd like to vote on this question, dig deeper into the demographics, or engage in existing discussion about the topic, visit our poll about first date faux pas. We'd love to hear from you!
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  • .: LiVi :. 2012/05/31 05:54:51
    .: LiVi :.
    +7
    What I find interesting is that people don't really know what they want. Guys say they prefer no make up, and yet guys always, always go for pretty girls over ugly girls, and guess what. They're wearing make up! Didn't you notice? Not saying girls can't be pretty without make up. The thing with make up is if used in moderation it enhances your natural beauty. If you put lipstick on a pig, it's still a pig. Ugly girls with make up are still ugly but with make up on. I'm not saying this in a judgemental way btw. It's the same with girls saying they don't like guys who wear make up, and yet all fawn over movie stars. Didn't you know they are all wearing make up? If you don't notice and you can't tell the difference anyway, then what does it matter if someone is wearing make up or not? I believe people should dress and be the way they want, be who they are, express themselves whatever. For some people like goths or Amy Winehouse or whoever else is famous for their make up, first you make your habits, then your habits become you. Their make is a part of who they are, the way you dress, cut your hair, the way you stand and talk, all of these things are habits that you have created and have become your identity. People have been wearing make up for thousands of years. Look at the Egy...
    What I find interesting is that people don't really know what they want. Guys say they prefer no make up, and yet guys always, always go for pretty girls over ugly girls, and guess what. They're wearing make up! Didn't you notice? Not saying girls can't be pretty without make up. The thing with make up is if used in moderation it enhances your natural beauty. If you put lipstick on a pig, it's still a pig. Ugly girls with make up are still ugly but with make up on. I'm not saying this in a judgemental way btw. It's the same with girls saying they don't like guys who wear make up, and yet all fawn over movie stars. Didn't you know they are all wearing make up? If you don't notice and you can't tell the difference anyway, then what does it matter if someone is wearing make up or not? I believe people should dress and be the way they want, be who they are, express themselves whatever. For some people like goths or Amy Winehouse or whoever else is famous for their make up, first you make your habits, then your habits become you. Their make is a part of who they are, the way you dress, cut your hair, the way you stand and talk, all of these things are habits that you have created and have become your identity. People have been wearing make up for thousands of years. Look at the Egyptians, would they have the same identity if it weren't for all that black eye make up, or the Elizabethan era and their beauty-formed-identity of plucking all the hairs from their face and plucking hair from their head to create a receding domed shaped forehead. All people through time and different eras have all worn make up and altered their appearance essentially which formed who they were and became a part of them. Even just getting different hairstyles and dying your hair is altering your appearance. If you really wanted absolute natural, untouched humans then no one would ever cut their hair or paint their nails, or wear perfume or body lotion or make up or clothing or anything else that may possibly alter the appearance. Anyway, your physical appearance is only skin deep, it is the soul within that really matters, everything else is superficial really so if you're really interested in someone for who they are and are not shallow then you won't care what they look like, it is the person inside you see. That's my view!
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  • Dee ~Hopele... 2012/06/14 03:50:11
    Dee
    +1
    Plastic fantastic...
  • lorenab. 2012/05/31 04:13:30
    lorenab.
    yeah, if you cake on your hake- up, then you just look fake. and while guys might like fake for a one night stand... for a second date... not so much!
  • dream-h... lorenab. 2012/05/31 18:43:51
    dream-hair!
    +1
    we don't like one night stands how slaggy
  • dream-h... lorenab. 2012/05/31 18:44:03
    dream-hair!
    my friend had one and she died
  • lorenab. dream-h... 2012/05/31 20:06:05
    lorenab.
    because of the one night stand??
  • dream-h... lorenab. 2012/06/18 12:12:00
    dream-hair!
    yeah she died of ingesting too much sperm
  • lorenab. dream-h... 2012/06/18 14:02:43
    lorenab.
    oh my gosh!! thats terrible... and weird, ive never heard of that!! wow! im sorry!:(
  • dream-h... lorenab. 2012/06/19 21:08:48
    dream-hair!
    its not your fault, you didnt jizz in her mouth
  • Skye 2012/05/31 03:46:57
    Skye
    Next time they see you they'll be like I thought I went out with someone else.
  • Simone ... Skye 2012/06/01 18:01:52
    Simone Owens
    +1
    Lol, yeah. Some women wear so much makeup that when they are not wearing it they look like an entirely different person.
  • dream-h... Skye 2012/06/18 12:12:10
    dream-hair!
    simone
  • selena costa 2012/05/31 03:06:22 (edited)
    selena costa
    +1
    Well my first date i wasnt worried about make up i was more worried about the conversation not flowing or start to get awkward...damn, i was so scared but he ended up being an amazing guy and i feel really conferrable talking to him ^.^ took me to homecoming lol
  • ★earthbound_misfit★ 2012/05/31 02:48:57
    ★earthbound_misfit★
    +5
    Honestly I don't like things like this. It sends mixed messages and encourages women to jump through so many hoops to please their date. Women wear makeup to look pretty for their date...but wait, not too much! (whatever "too much" is) Women wear revealing cloths to be attractive to their date...but then they claim they don't like it? Seriously? I personally would never wear a hat or uggs on a date, but should it matter? And the purse...do guys honestly give a damn about the size of a bag their date carries? In reality, as long as you're clean, put together, and comfortable in your outfit it shouldn't matter to any man who's actually interested in you. I say if a man doesn't ask you out again because your purse was too big, then there's no reason for you to waste your time with him anyway.
  • DizziNY ★earthb... 2012/05/31 04:08:52 (edited)
    DizziNY
    +1
    Too much is when you have so much on you look like Ronald McDonald and when u can wipe off an inch think foundation on your finger.

    clown makeup

    cake face makeup

    cake face makeup
  • ★earthb... DizziNY 2012/05/31 14:09:29
    ★earthbound_misfit★
    I agree. But a lot of women seem to think that more than just a tiny bit is too much.
  • Brownielover504 2012/05/31 02:40:18 (edited)
    Brownielover504
    +1
    I dont realy wear make-up but if i do then i would wear eyeliner maybe a lil eyeshadow and lip gloss
  • Miss Mayhem ✗✗✗ 2012/05/31 02:11:04
    Miss Mayhem ✗✗✗
    Yeah, don't wear a lot at all! You're just really getting to know the person on an entirely different level. Even if you weren't friends with them first they were still either strangers or acquaintances.
  • swimmingswan 2012/05/31 00:00:56
    swimmingswan
    MAKE-UP IS THE LAST THING ON OUR MIND , WHAT ARE WE GOING TO TALK ABOUT I AM NERVOUS
  • JJ 2012/05/30 23:45:50
    JJ
    I agree, less make-up is good, notonly for a first date, but all the time. I do love make-up, but never did like a lot of it...never cared for eye shadow. But, I liked a more natural look with make-up.
  • Quiet-is-feared 2012/05/30 23:01:08
    Quiet-is-feared
    No one wants to see a cakeface of makeup, nor be seen with them, lol.
    I agree, keep the makeup on the lighter side, guys seem to really like the natural look better then the dolled-up makeover :}
  • BlondeAphrodite 2012/05/30 21:12:14
    BlondeAphrodite
    especially in the summer time i did that once and i looked like a drag queen then my face ran and i was sooo embarrased now i love colorful makeup i aways wear colorful eyeshadow and lipstick and glitter
  • FatherLiberty 2012/05/30 21:03:08 (edited)
    FatherLiberty
    +1
    There are a couple ways to view a woman who wears piles of makeup. She is fake, dishonest, has low self esteem, and/or plain old ugly. Also, men, it is okay to lie to a woman who wears makeup. Basically, she is lying to you about who she really is and what she really looks like, so it is okay for you to lie to alter how she views you. But, in the end all she is really doing is harming herself. These people forget that the skin is the largest organ on the body and absorbs over 70 percent of everything that touches it. Where did that cancer come from?
  • ★earthb... FatherL... 2012/05/31 02:59:40
    ★earthbound_misfit★
    +4
    Do you get haircuts? Wear flattering cloths? Shave your face? If so, you're being dishonest about your natural appearance and it's okay to lie to you.
    What really kills me is that If women did not wear makeup and let themselves go 100% natural you'd be bitching that they're all ugly and manly. We do it for YOU. Appreciate it.
    And last but not least, if makeup is what's causing cancer, why do men get cancer?
  • .: LiVi :. ★earthb... 2012/05/31 05:37:06
  • FatherL... ★earthb... 2012/05/31 15:36:04
    FatherLiberty
    I think there is a difference between cutting hair and plastering your face. A little bit of make-up isnt a big deal, but many of these women are basically wearing the equivalent of a mask over their face. And I never said make up was the ONLY cause of cancer. There are several causes for cancer, and many types of make-up just add to the toxicity of the body, which then leads to cancer. There are a few safe products out there, but not many.
  • ★earthb... FatherL... 2012/05/31 18:21:15
    ★earthbound_misfit★
    +1
    While I agree that plastered makeup doesn't look good, women aren't doing it to lie to you. They're doing it because they think they're making themselves look their best, just like when you comb your hair. That's my point. And yes, in the past makeup wasn't good for the skin but most of the products they have now are fairly safe as far as I know.
  • xXChemi... FatherL... 2012/05/31 11:31:41
    xXChemical_RomanticXx
    +2
    Are you stupid? That is not true at all. I wear make up and I am not dishonest or fake. I say what I think, very bluntly and I don't care who has what to say. I am confident in being me because well, no one can care about you like you can and I can't bother with someone who won't accept me and EVERYTHING I have to offer.
    I like experimenting with different looks and shades. I am an artist and so to me, the face is another canvas. Also, not all make up is harmful. Mineral make is beneficial to the skin and is better than nothing between your skin and the polluted air.
  • FatherL... xXChemi... 2012/05/31 15:54:08
    FatherLiberty
    Look, I was being mostly sarcastic. I have nothing against a moderate amount of makeup. My comments above are more for the women who pile on loads of makeup to the point you can carve out design on their face through their coverup. And, yes, there are a few types of makeup that are safe, but very few. Basically, if you wouldnt eat it, dont put it on your skin.
  • xXChemi... FatherL... 2012/06/01 00:36:17
    xXChemical_RomanticXx
    Moderation IS key.
  • bubbles47 2012/05/30 20:58:25
    bubbles47
    +6
    What differance does it make? This is 2012.. not 1945..
  • Xitlalilolly 2012/05/30 20:56:01
    Xitlalilolly
    i've never been on a date since im too young but even i know that to know if a guy trully likes you is if you dnt wear makeup on the first date to see if he likes the natural you...
  • edwin evatt 2012/05/30 20:32:37
    edwin evatt
    +3
    Be yourself if thats what you like do it .
  • Lisa 2012/05/30 19:58:48
    Lisa
    +1
    everything in moderation...
  • gocar 2012/05/30 19:44:05
    gocar
    What a shame American women don't love to wear hats. It is such a lovely add on to a wardrobe. Any plain dress can look better with a nifty hat.
  • xXChemi... gocar 2012/05/31 11:34:17
    xXChemical_RomanticXx
    The British ladies wear hats. It does add to the outfit. Most times.
  • giggity giggity 2012/05/30 19:40:13
    giggity giggity
    +2
    Don't wear makeup at all.
  • Michaelene 2012/05/30 19:35:06
    Michaelene
    +2
    I love makeup, don't like it? Next!
  • mneiai 2012/05/30 19:31:25
    mneiai
    +3
    The funny thing about "too much makeup" is that studies show that the average male can't tell when a woman who looks "natural" is just really good at doing a Natural Look, they think she naturally has better features than other women. So it's really not "too much" makeup that's the issue, it's "very obvious" makeup. Because guys actually love foundation, mascara, tightlining, etc., etc..
  • giggity... mneiai 2012/05/30 22:05:03
    giggity giggity
    +1
    I'd rather have a girl who wears no makeup.
  • ★earthb... mneiai 2012/05/31 03:03:29
    ★earthbound_misfit★
    EXACTLY! I get so sick of these men who complain about makeup when in reality they will go for the girl with a full face of natural looking makeup over the makeupless girl every time. After all, women wouldn't be wearing makeup after all these centuries if it didn't get results.lol

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