There were some significant differences in how people in different careers voted. The career most relevant to Petraeus's situation would have to be the military, and respondents in the military were a little less forgiving, but not much. The least forgiving career was hospitality -- half of them felt an affair should end a career. Finance, however, was the most forgiving field.
We also wanted to see how employment status in general affected how people respond, and it turns out unemployed respondents were more likely to say an affair should end a career. Well, it would mean more job openings, so that's probably a smart stance to take. Though that also means they might change their mind as soon as they got the job.
Finally, we compared income brackets to find out if there was any pattern there. There wasn't much, but people who make more than $50,000 a year were a little bit more forgiving. Naturally, they would have more to lose if they were in a situation like that, but of course this question is all speculation, so no one is actually at risk... right?
When most people marry, they officially or unofficially make a promise of fair and ethical treatment of their partner. Granted, when most people say, "I do.", they have no clue as to what this really means, but with time it may sink in.
When people join any branch of the U.S. Military, they make an oath of loyalty as well. As with the marraige vows, they too know little of the full extent of that vow, until they see prisoners of war "confessing" on video, or a comrade killed trying to fulfill that vow.
Long ago, my father taught me that a man is only as good as his word, on anything. Therefore, a man who takes a vow of loyalty lightly in one realm, might very well do it in another. It shows a lack of character, discipline and ethics.If you wouldn't want such a person in your personal life, why would you want him or her leading your company, troop or country?
Your personal life is only private until you take a step out of the herd and claim the qualities of leadership. At that point, other's livelihood, or lives, become dependent on your decisions, and as such, you have not only the benefits and respect of your position, but the responsibility and transparency that go with it. In other words, if I am supporting you with money, rank and power, you had better be ready to ...
When people join any branch of the U.S. Military, they make an oath of loyalty as well. As with the marraige vows, they too know little of the full extent of that vow, until they see prisoners of war "confessing" on video, or a comrade killed trying to fulfill that vow.
Long ago, my father taught me that a man is only as good as his word, on anything. Therefore, a man who takes a vow of loyalty lightly in one realm, might very well do it in another. It shows a lack of character, discipline and ethics.If you wouldn't want such a person in your personal life, why would you want him or her leading your company, troop or country?
Your personal life is only private until you take a step out of the herd and claim the qualities of leadership. At that point, other's livelihood, or lives, become dependent on your decisions, and as such, you have not only the benefits and respect of your position, but the responsibility and transparency that go with it. In other words, if I am supporting you with money, rank and power, you had better be ready to ...
When most people marry, they officially or unofficially make a promise of fair and ethical treatment of their partner. Granted, when most people say, "I do.", they have no clue as to what this really means, but with time it may sink in.
When people join any branch of the U.S. Military, they make an oath of loyalty as well. As with the marraige vows, they too know little of the full extent of that vow, until they see prisoners of war "confessing" on video, or a comrade killed trying to fulfill that vow.
Long ago, my father taught me that a man is only as good as his word, on anything. Therefore, a man who takes a vow of loyalty lightly in one realm, might very well do it in another. It shows a lack of character, discipline and ethics.If you wouldn't want such a person in your personal life, why would you want him or her leading your company, troop or country?
Your personal life is only private until you take a step out of the herd and claim the qualities of leadership. At that point, other's livelihood, or lives, become dependent on your decisions, and as such, you have not only the benefits and respect of your position, but the responsibility and transparency that go with it. In other words, if I am supporting you with money, rank and power, you had better be ready to defend your right to have it, in every way. You live in a glass house that is as magnificent as it is fragile.
The unravelling of Petraeus behavior while in one of the most sensitive and trusted positions in our country sounds more like the behavior of a college freshman than that of a general of the most powerful military in the world. Just as his uniform, shave and haircut must be impeccable and reflective of his position at all times, so should his decisions, both personal and public. It is said a chain is only as strong as it's weakest link. That link should never be the one that holds the rest of it up!
(more)When people join any branch of the U.S. Military, they make an oath of loyalty as well. As with the marraige vows, they too know little of the full extent of that vow, until they see prisoners of war "confessing" on video, or a comrade killed trying to fulfill that vow.
Long ago, my father taught me that a man is only as good as his word, on anything. Therefore, a man who takes a vow of loyalty lightly in one realm, might very well do it in another. It shows a lack of character, discipline and ethics.If you wouldn't want such a person in your personal life, why would you want him or her leading your company, troop or country?
Your personal life is only private until you take a step out of the herd and claim the qualities of leadership. At that point, other's livelihood, or lives, become dependent on your decisions, and as such, you have not only the benefits and respect of your position, but the responsibility and transparency that go with it. In other words, if I am supporting you with money, rank and power, you had better be ready to defend your right to have it, in every way. You live in a glass house that is as magnificent as it is fragile.
The unravelling of Petraeus behavior while in one of the most sensitive and trusted positions in our country sounds more like the behavior of a college freshman than that of a general of the most powerful military in the world. Just as his uniform, shave and haircut must be impeccable and reflective of his position at all times, so should his decisions, both personal and public. It is said a chain is only as strong as it's weakest link. That link should never be the one that holds the rest of it up!
Personally, I think we need to get over this crap about being faithful while worshiping characters from the Bible that had nothing but sex on their minds. Our religious leaders that are supposed to be setting examples have more sexual relationships than any ten of their congregate. (I think that word is right, huh?) But you all know who I mean, it's those people who go to church every several days and think their ol' preacher man is going to be there to greet him but he is really at your home greeting your ol' lady. hahaha Just joking. Don't take offense anyone. I sometimes just have to say things like that for my own personal laughs. It helps to maintain my sanity.
At the MOST basic level, this man and woman knew they had family who depended on their position and social status for their lives and sanity. They knew that if what they were doing were to be known, their families would be damaged. This woman has small children who will read all about what their mother did someday, as will their friends. Her husband had friends and acquaintances who can and will use this issue against him in the future. The man had a wife and family who had made ALL kinds of sacrifices to help him further his career. Is NOT your...
At the MOST basic level, this man and woman knew they had family who depended on their position and social status for their lives and sanity. They knew that if what they were doing were to be known, their families would be damaged. This woman has small children who will read all about what their mother did someday, as will their friends. Her husband had friends and acquaintances who can and will use this issue against him in the future. The man had a wife and family who had made ALL kinds of sacrifices to help him further his career. Is NOT your family the MOST sacred trust you have? And if you would take a chance that would endanger them, what chance does your company or nation have? It's pretty obvious your judgement is flawed and THAT is a scarey proposition when putting all that power into your hands. I, for one, don't relish the thought that the man with his finger on the button is busy sending secret e-mails to a woman with such low scruples. Yes, they are human, but being mortal does NOT excuse all impropriety, especially when you have been entrusted with the LIVES of others.
If we are to achieve the greatness of which we are capable, we must hold OURSELVES and our leaders to a higher standard or morality, dignity and responsibility. To do less it to teach our children that we are liars and hypocrites in our laws, education and places of worship, and that they can just live like animals, taking pleasure where they will with total disregard for the lives of those around them. If you talk the talk, walk the walk, or shut up and take the consequences of lawlessness. You can't have it both ways.
And for those of you who would take this as an open invitation to government control of morality, DON'T, because is it not meant that way. I don't WANT to control you, or know what you do in your private life, but if you set yourself up as a leader, BE ONE.
It's not so easy for dependents back home, either. Both men and women battle loneliness, lack of companionship, loss of their best friend and the fulfillment of their needs that is common to both men and women.
Male dependents are fewer in number than female dependents, but because they are male, many of the female dependents will ask for help with guy things. Fear and loneliness makes people do crazy things that they probably wouldn't even have considered, outside the military.
One might think that there are a lot of divorces in military families because of infidelity - and they would e right.
You might also think the civilian partner would never be interested in marrying another military person because of their experience. The truth is that the majority of divorced military and their former civilian spouses marry back into the military.
It's dysfunctional in a lot of ways,...
It's not so easy for dependents back home, either. Both men and women battle loneliness, lack of companionship, loss of their best friend and the fulfillment of their needs that is common to both men and women.
Male dependents are fewer in number than female dependents, but because they are male, many of the female dependents will ask for help with guy things. Fear and loneliness makes people do crazy things that they probably wouldn't even have considered, outside the military.
One might think that there are a lot of divorces in military families because of infidelity - and they would e right.
You might also think the civilian partner would never be interested in marrying another military person because of their experience. The truth is that the majority of divorced military and their former civilian spouses marry back into the military.
It's dysfunctional in a lot of ways, but it is like a big family. You can forgive your brothers and sisters and cousins, et al, because they have your back. There is absolutely no comparison in living in military surroundings than in any, ANY, civilian community.
Of my three best friends and I (known as "The Four Horsemen who Made the Apocalypse" in our single days), after we all were married, I was voted most likely to divorce soonest. Two of them have been married twice, and one has been married three times. Me? Just once for 41+ years. Who knew?
He quit..................... he wasn't fired !!!!!
Some peoples morals and ethics are more powerful than others.
Petraeus felt his weakness in sex would affect his job, so he turned in his resignation.
Believe me, there have been literely thousands of our political leaders that have had affairs with all sorts of women, men and boys and never resigned from doing so.
Hell they don't even resign when they get into a drunken stuper and kill one of we the people in a car crash.
Petraeus lives by a higher standard................... that's all.
To bad the rest of our political scumbags don't !
As for further up the pleasure tunnel, you might want to ask a woman who masturbates. I don't think she's doing it just to pass the time.
Finally, if your life has been what you say, you've never had a "Partner" who was concerned about you as much as he was about himself.
I do not mean what I am going to say next as an insult. I really believe that your life would be a lot more happy if you would talk to a Registered Sex Therapist, or even a regular Psychologist licensed to practice therapy.
Yes, some women have to fake it at times, but it is not a slap at their partner's manhood. It's a gift. They know the male ego is a fragile thing, and they do it for love.
And as for women using sex to control men, don't men use money and power to control women? If women couldn't be bought, a lot of ugly, fat, weak, sick and otherwise biologically inferior men WOULD NEVER MATE AT ALL as the survival of the species dictates. Only the physically strong and desirable would survive and procreate. Money and power changed all that, so now any nerd with a wad in his pocket, (not necessarily in front) can and will get laid if the price is right AND maybe even obtain a trophy wife in the process.
That is what capitalism is ALL about. It is the great equalizer that gives men who in other societies might be beaten up and thrown to the curb, the same draw as the big muscle men. My building is taller, my car is more expensive, my house is more of a status symbol, it's penis envy gone wild, and it works, to an extent. Never mind that after marraige she screws the gardner who is well endowed. The master still gets what he paid for. Justice is served, on a silver platter.
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Jill Kelley: Republican
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Where's Obama? Pardon my French but it's time to pull your head out of your ass. It's one thing to be bitter, it's another to be crazy.