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Please pray for Roza. She got in a car wreck when a drunk driver hit her and now she's in the hospital on life support. She may die. The doctors don't know yet.

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  • Tank 2011/08/21 12:22:25 (edited)
    My prayers are with you and her...
    Tank
    +6
    Still, as horrible as it sounds, living a life on support is horrifying. You see the body but the eyes have no light ... the soul is gone.

    My best friend ... she was savagely raped. They had her on life support due to being beaten so severely. Her parents blamed me for the longest. When I visited her, her parents left the room out of disgust thinking it was my fault but not wanting to cause a scene. I was asked by the doctor if I was her boyfriend. We were far more than that - we were almost like brother & sister. The doctor said that she had been so brutally raped that her uterus was torn up. She would never even be able to carry a baby to term, much less get pregnant or enjoy sex. She also had a severe concussion which most likely would cause tremendous amounts of mental problems. Hospital staff kept me stocked with towels ... I cried my heart out for the 3 or so hours I was up there visiting, even skipping classes since I was in high school at the time.

    The girl was eventually taken to a hospital 5 hrs away. Her parents pulled the plug on her life support. It was 6 months later that her parents called me to apologize. It was too late though. The girl was gone & her parents scapegoated me ... putting even more hurt on me even as I still hurt today remembering her.

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  • Jackie 2011/08/22 15:27:55
    My prayers are with you and her...
    Jackie
    I'm praying for her to heal and come back to her family. As long as they are not saying she is brain dead she can recover. If her body has time to rest and can get strong enough to not need life support. My son was on life support and it was touch and go for nearly a week, a little over a year ago. He was out of the hospital a couple of weeks later. He is healthy and better than ever today. I will pray that she and her family are as lucky.
  • ShyCuteArtist 2011/08/22 00:18:56
    My prayers are with you and her...
    ShyCuteArtist
    +2
    You have my prayer's support. I hope it all turns out for the best
  • seathanaich 2011/08/21 17:55:46
    I will...
    seathanaich
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    Prayer is pointless. If you want to feel that you are helping, then do something tangible and real.
  • Deactiv... seathan... 2011/08/21 18:51:02
    Deactivated
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    Faith is strong. I am doing whatever I can.
  • JakeisHere seathan... 2011/08/21 23:32:33
    JakeisHere
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    There is a time and place for that kind of opinion, this wouldn't be either.
  • seathan... JakeisHere 2011/08/21 23:41:43
    seathanaich
    This is an opinion website, so there are few times and places more appropriate this opinion, and a lot of others.
  • JakeisHere seathan... 2011/08/21 23:58:19
    JakeisHere
    +2
    This topic isn't asking for your opinion or anyones. Have a little more respect for people than that.
  • seathan... JakeisHere 2011/08/22 00:03:01
    seathanaich
    Facebook and private emails exist for that purpose.
  • JakeisHere seathan... 2011/08/22 00:07:53
    JakeisHere
    +1
    Who cares? Have some respect for other people, I even agree with your original post, but really your being very rude.
  • Pamu 2011/08/21 17:31:45
    I will...
    Pamu
    +3
    i will and i am confident she will positively come out of bad time and it is a passing cloud, believe in prayers and they have lot of energy and positivity for good cause and it won't fail,ever.
  • Deactiv... Pamu 2011/08/21 18:46:52 (edited)
    Deactivated
    +2
    Good and thanks. I appreciate it.

    thanks rose
  • Sister Jean 2011/08/21 16:33:21
    I will...
    Sister Jean
  • Deactiv... Sister ... 2011/08/21 18:45:36
  • Paige 2011/08/21 16:18:50
    My prayers are with you and her...
    Paige
    +4
    Prayers work wonders.....I certainly will pray for her. You bet!

    prayers work pray bet prayer angel
  • Deactiv... Paige 2011/08/21 18:44:57
    Deactivated
    +2
    I know they do...
    thanks rose
  • Paige Deactiv... 2011/08/21 20:08:35
    Paige
    +2
    Please keep us updated
  • Lady Whitewolf 2011/08/21 15:09:06
    I will...
    Lady Whitewolf
    +4
    Send Healing Blessings!
  • Deactiv... Lady Wh... 2011/08/21 15:58:27
    Deactivated
    +4
    Thanks.
  • Veritas 2011/08/21 12:46:37
    My prayers are with you and her...
    Veritas
    +4
    So sorry to hear of this . . . will indeed pray.

    hear pray pray
  • Deactiv... Veritas 2011/08/21 15:59:33
  • Tank 2011/08/21 12:22:25 (edited)
    My prayers are with you and her...
    Tank
    +6
    Still, as horrible as it sounds, living a life on support is horrifying. You see the body but the eyes have no light ... the soul is gone.

    My best friend ... she was savagely raped. They had her on life support due to being beaten so severely. Her parents blamed me for the longest. When I visited her, her parents left the room out of disgust thinking it was my fault but not wanting to cause a scene. I was asked by the doctor if I was her boyfriend. We were far more than that - we were almost like brother & sister. The doctor said that she had been so brutally raped that her uterus was torn up. She would never even be able to carry a baby to term, much less get pregnant or enjoy sex. She also had a severe concussion which most likely would cause tremendous amounts of mental problems. Hospital staff kept me stocked with towels ... I cried my heart out for the 3 or so hours I was up there visiting, even skipping classes since I was in high school at the time.

    The girl was eventually taken to a hospital 5 hrs away. Her parents pulled the plug on her life support. It was 6 months later that her parents called me to apologize. It was too late though. The girl was gone & her parents scapegoated me ... putting even more hurt on me even as I still hurt today remembering her.
  • bags Tank 2011/08/21 13:48:22
    bags
    +5
    I am SO sorry Tank.
  • Tank bags 2011/08/21 14:39:00
    Tank
    +4
    Thank you. At least now she's in a better place where she won't suffer like she was here. I hope that Roza comes out of this predicament without too much jharm
  • Deactiv... Tank 2011/08/21 16:02:30
    Deactivated
    +3
    sorry roses


    I'm crying again if I loose Roza I honestly might kill myself. That's how much I love her and how important she is to me.
  • Tank Deactiv... 2011/08/21 16:52:45 (edited)
    Tank
    +3
    I hope she gets better & I can only imagine your pain. Your online friends
    love you & would hate for you to resort to such measures. Take care & please
    reconsider your available options, my friend.

    friends love hate resort measures care reconsider options friend please stay
  • Deactiv... Tank 2011/08/21 18:41:25
    Deactivated
    +2
    I will try. I will live on. I'm strong. The things I've survived. It's a miracle in itself I am still living.
  • Tank Deactiv... 2011/08/21 18:52:46
    Tank
    +2
    Life goes on, right? <3
  • Paige Tank 2011/08/21 16:17:15
    Paige
    +5
    Oh wow.....that is certainly something that would scar a person for life! I'm so sorry!
  • Megajo Tank 2011/08/21 16:23:43
    Megajo
    +5
    Tank: Intense grief always looks for someplace to put blame. Sometimes it's well placed, sometimes it isn't, but It's rarely fair. Eventually, the day will come when her laughter will overshadow her death and peace will come.
  • Tank Megajo 2011/08/21 16:54:55
    Tank
    +4
    The life she could have lived had she survived would have been the worst possible so her release from torment gives a measure of comfort. Just hoping that Roza gets better for Anna's sake as well as her own. Anna has been too cheerful, until this, & is a pleasure to know here online to be lost to the sodahead & internet community.
  • Megajo Tank 2011/08/21 17:19:12
    Megajo
    +3
    Anna appears to have strength. This, too, she will overcome. IMO.
  • Deactiv... Megajo 2011/08/21 18:39:16
    Deactivated
    +2
    Yes I do and I can overcome anything. I believe Roza will survive this and everything will be ok.
  • Zamboni... Tank 2011/08/22 03:19:26
    Zamboni - Madoka Magica fan BN0
    +2
    That is one sad and disgusting story. I'm terribly sorry to hear that.
  • Only wishin for the truth 2011/08/21 12:09:28
    My prayers are with you and her...
    Only wishin for the truth
    +4
    hope everything works out im srrry
  • Deactiv... Only wi... 2011/08/21 16:04:47
    Deactivated
    +3
    Me too. Thanks.
    thanks roses
  • Cptfreakout . 2011/08/21 11:36:32
    I will...
    Cptfreakout .
    +4
    One prayer on the way !
  • Deactiv... Cptfrea... 2011/08/21 16:05:36
    Deactivated
    +3
    I appreciate that.
    thanks roses
  • Bethiie 2011/08/21 10:15:26
    My prayers are with you and her...
    Bethiie
    +4
    In Jesus Namee , I will pray for her :D
  • Deactiv... Bethiie 2011/08/21 16:06:09
  • Bethiie Deactiv... 2011/08/21 17:45:08
    Bethiie
    +2
    Aww dont mention it :D God Bless

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