No they do not. Each person needs their own space, their own privacy and their own time to do what they enjoy. Being a couple or married does not equal ownership. When the mail comes if it has my wife's name on it I don't open it, it is not mine. My wife doesn't mess with my camera's or lenses, and I don't mess with her sewing things. The bottom line is each person needs show respect and trust for each other. Being retired we are together 24/7 and that is not good for anyone no matter how good the relationship is. Thursday every week is a day we do whatever we want separately. I usually grab my camera and head out to take some nature shots and she goes to fabric store or lunch.
Some of the examples cited are dysfunctional relationships, they have communication problems and trust issues, poor maturity and lack of respect.
One in Five Men Have Secret Email Accounts: Do Couples Have to Share Everything?
SodaHead Living
2012/11/25 16:00:00
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Many say the key to a successful relationship is honesty but others believe that holding back a few details is fair game. Those who feel that keeping secrets is a lie of omission might be surprised to find out what their significant other is holding back from them. A recent survey conducted by BullGuard says that one in five men have an email account that they don’t tell their partners about. Often times the stealthy individual wants to keep a special address to communicate with an ex or with someone they know their current lady doesn’t like.
But those aren’t the only tidbits some guys are hiding. One in twenty men have confessed that they own a second cell phone so they can make untraced calls. And in order to avoid inspection by a nosy spouse, 77 percent of guys polled said they delete text messages on a regular basis.
BullGuard’s COO Mike Hodges acknowledged that some men just want to clear their browsers and maintain separate accounts for security purposes. But 20 percent of those polled admitted that they felt that their partner didn’t need to know all the details of their lives. What do you think: Do couples have to share everything?
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Space is important
Honesty is key
Trust is vital
Trustworthiness is equally vital
Those who forget these principles will have a rough time going through life.
IN LIFE AND FAMILY
You significant other should trust you enough to communicate with you and not keep things secret. There is a fine balance between disclosure and giving your SO their space.
*Forgot the O in don't*
If you have a "secret" email chances are you're doing something you don't want your partner to see, AKA you shouldn't be doing it. Also overly jealous partners are SO unattractive it's a turn off. I don't need my guys email or Facebook account password. If you can't trust them you shouldn't be with them. Point blank.
Honestly, I think that both of you have roles in your relationship, and if both can understand and agree to those roles, and pursue them together, then you have a greater key to a successful relationship than is found in many situations. They also say that novelty or surprise is a good sauce to a relationship, and to keep discovering new and interesting things about a partner is a very refreshing thing, and if they are good things, love can grow more deep and intense.
That being said I don't hide anything either, I forget to close my accounts and stuff all the time and so does he, it isn't a big deal because we both know that we aren't hiding anything. He asks before going through my things and I ask before I go through his. Its just respectful.