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Never go to bed angry with your spouse/boyfriend/girlfriend..is that a rule for you as well?

Zella 2013/08/04 12:17:16
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I honestly don't want to know if you don't have a spouse. But if you want to still answer the poll then respond with how you think you'd do jn a relationship.
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  • MisterOriginal 2013/08/13 06:02:03
    No
    MisterOriginal
    Not sure what difference it makes.
  • Zella MisterO... 2013/08/13 23:41:18
    Zella
    +1
    It just depends how much you care about the situation, and what kind of person you are. If you think sleeping it off will calm you down so you can either blow it off in the morning or talk about it rationally, that is the kind of person you are. For me, I'd like to not go to sleep upset because what if something tragic happens to them the next day and I haven't resolved the situation. That is going to haunt me.
  • MisterO... Zella 2013/08/14 04:50:56
    MisterOriginal
    +1
    Very true, but at 47 years old, it is impossible for me to claim the ability to maintain ideals on a day-by-day basis.
  • Zella MisterO... 2013/08/17 02:47:22
    Zella
    +1
    And that is okay. :) That is the kind of person you are. :) And no one is hating :)
  • MisterO... Zella 2013/08/17 02:48:31
    MisterOriginal
    +1
    The guy thing is our memories are short anyway.
  • Zella MisterO... 2013/08/17 02:50:53
    Zella
    +1
    Sometimes that is a good thing.
  • MisterO... Zella 2013/08/17 02:56:00
    MisterOriginal
    That's how ladies win all of the arguments!
  • Zella MisterO... 2013/08/17 02:58:39
    Zella
    +1
    Well ladies that bring up the past in an argument like that are being cheap. lol Some men do it as well. Every so often it can be necessary to bring up the past as an example but every time in an argument is ridiculous.
  • Keith 2013/08/09 21:43:51
    No
    Keith
    +1
    I don't get mad at her often but a cooling off period helps me see clearly.
  • 1wickedwitch 2013/08/04 18:09:37
    Undecided
    1wickedwitch
    +3
    If I did that I would NOT have slept ALL weekend.....
  • John 2013/08/04 18:08:33
    Yes
    John
    +2
    its from the bible. Should be so, but turns out not to work always like that. Some arguments can take a while longer to cool down, but its still the target.
    Makes a better sleep to know that all is fine with the other half
  • Zella John 2013/08/05 21:39:29
    Zella
    Agreed. I remember when my husband and I had a decently large disagreement we stayed up til 1 am when it was about 9 or 10 pm trying to settling it and 1 am is when it was finally settled. (the time is estimated)
  • RobHom 2013/08/04 16:28:26
    Yes
    RobHom
    +3
    I've been married for 32 years....we've had that rule since day 1. Its paid off.
  • Zella RobHom 2013/08/05 21:40:02
    Zella
    +1
    Same here. Once we moved in with each other I told him that and he agreed.
  • RobHom Zella 2013/08/06 00:59:24
    RobHom
    +1
    Good deal!!
  • Midnite12 2013/08/04 16:27:23
    Depends
    Midnite12
    +1
    I actually end up feeling better in the morning, more calm so we can talk it over.
  • Danielle 2013/08/04 15:44:11
    Yes
    Danielle
    +2
    Everyone who loves anyone should follow this.
  • Miss Anthrope 2013/08/04 15:22:14
    Yes
    Miss Anthrope
    +3
    Or with anyone if I can help it. I hate being angry, it makes me feel sick and there's no way I can sleep if I've got that kind of negativity swirling around in my brain.
  • Dogzebra~PWCM~JLA 2013/08/04 14:56:42
    Depends
    Dogzebra~PWCM~JLA
    +3
    It's something to strive for, but sometimes I'm too tired to listen to the tirade.
  • Aliona 2013/08/04 14:04:27
    Yes
    Aliona
    +1
    lol I'm not going until I calm down, and I will not calm down until the matter is settled. But, of course, my partner can try to make peace with me in bed)))
  • DS in Oak Ridge NC 2013/08/04 13:59:32
    Depends
    DS in Oak Ridge NC
    +3
    Depending on how angry they are, keeping one eye open might be required...
  • Zella DS in O... 2013/08/05 21:40:31
  • Joe61 2013/08/04 13:54:53
    Yes
    Joe61
    +3
    I have firmly believed all my adult life, that we should never go to sleep in anger or fear. How well we sleep on a night will always determine how our lives pan out.
  • LADY LIBERTY SILLY WORDSMITH 2013/08/04 13:46:28
    Yes
    LADY LIBERTY SILLY WORDSMITH
    +1
    YES, BUT SOMETIMES I DIDN'T KEEP THE RULES.
  • Grabitz 2013/08/04 13:23:29
    No
    Grabitz
    +3
    Actually we always made up in bed and for some reason it made that much better .
  • Zella Grabitz 2013/08/05 21:41:23
    Zella
    +1
    Say no more! Understood :) lol Glad that works for you.
  • Lady Nemirstības 2013/08/04 13:17:50
    Yes
    Lady Nemirstības
    +2
    I'm single. But if I was angry with my husband/boyfriend, I wouldn't sleep in the same bed as he. I would either sleep on the couch. Or stay with my mom.
  • Zella Lady Ne... 2013/08/05 21:42:11
    Zella
    +1
    But you wouldn't try to resolve the issue so you didn't have to sleep in separate places?
  • Lady Ne... Zella 2013/08/05 21:46:24
    Lady Nemirstības
    +1
    I would. But being part German on my dad's side, a stubborn streak runs in the family. So I keep a stiff upper lip until I can speak calmly.

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