My boyfriend got very angry and cried last night, because the watch he wanted to buy got sold, he tried to make it my problem. He is manipulating me to buy him a watch I think! What should I do???

by Olive Oil Posted 2012/06/15 02:43:22

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Tunnel Vision 2012/06/16 00:40:07

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Walk away!

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Melizmatic 2012/06/15 16:36:04

He cried... over a watch?

What Shawna said.

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JanHopkins 2012/06/15 07:29:19

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Dump him. He should be buying for you.

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beach bum 2012/06/15 03:57:46

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get another bf

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Olive Oil to beach bum 2012/06/16 01:39:13

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This I have given a great deal of thought to already.

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666_Maggots~PassionForGlory... 2012/06/15 03:04:22

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Break up with his psychotic ass!!!

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Shawna 2012/06/15 02:51:16

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Is he three years old? Get rid of him.

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Olive Oil to Shawna 2012/06/15 02:55:03

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I felt at the moment that I was dealing with a 39 year old child. Kind of creepy! It seems that he values and cherishes "things" more than human beings. I have lost many things in my life and I just get over it, move on and find more things. Things are meaningless! I told him this and he treated me as if i could not understand his lose.

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Shawna to Olive Oil 2012/06/15 02:58:21

Some people attach themselves to things when they are very lonely and empty feeling. This is what leads to those hoarding disorders. I think this is a red flag. Don't marry the guy.

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Olive Oil to Shawna 2012/06/15 03:00:01

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He has proposed to me over ten times. I flat out told him that I will never marry again. He does not understand. He is a loner, not too many friends.

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Shawna to Olive Oil 2012/06/15 16:35:08

I am a loner myself, I have friends but don't like a crowd or a busy social life. Being a loner is not a sign of emotional deficiency but this guy does sound emotionally deficient. Why are you still with him?

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Olive Oil to Shawna 2012/06/16 01:36:41

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I ask myself that question daily.

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Shawna to Olive Oil 2012/06/16 01:40:16

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It's time to tell yourself that you deserve better and that being alone is better than being with the wrong guy. I wish you well.

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Olive Oil to Shawna 2012/06/19 01:56:29

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Thanks

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Muskoka to Olive Oil 2012/06/15 04:30:51

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He did not have any loss, he was having a temper tantrum just like a three year old. This man has lost his grip on reality.

Find yourself a real man with character and humanity.

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Olive Oil to Muskoka 2012/06/16 01:38:13

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Than you for your support.

It has been very hard for me to find a good man. It seems like a lot of men who seem very charismatic at first, turn out to be very self-centered and egotistical.

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Muskoka to Olive Oil 2012/06/16 04:32:13

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You simply have to be patient and wait for the right man to come alone. Be happy with who you are and you life. When you least expect it someone really great will be there for your. Desperate searching will never return good results.

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Aspect of B 2012/06/15 02:50:54 (edited)

Ask him why a watch is so important to him, maybe?

Of course, if he isn't outright asking you to buy him a watch, you could always, you know, feign ignorance on the subject. Not sure if that would help much, but it's always an option.

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HarleyCharley 2012/06/15 02:45:13

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cut him lose...

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