Most everything in life is a negotiation of some sort. Women flirt and tease... and men charm and (try to) impress. Personally, I love it when a woman works it! Now, that I'm older and wiser... it's cute!
Sure. I've seen it. LOL...I've call women on it too. Not directly, but by becoming very blunt, terse and direct about the issue being discussed. It is more fun than I can even describe.
So to any women who are going to try it, just understand there is a risk is can blow up very badly in your face.
My choice is OTHER or BOTH
Seeing that not everyone is exactly the same and people don't perceive things exactly the same, what one individual is doing and how the other person perceives it can be two different things. Just being nice can be perceived as flirting and someone "wanting" something from it when in fact the person perceiving it is WRONG, WRONG, WRONG and vice versa. Someone who is very distrustful will most likely agree that a woman flirting means they just want something and are not doing it just to be nice. And most times than not they usually got burnt/used because of it so it's understandable. So the real answer is, some use flirting to obtain their way or to get something and some aren't flirting at all and are just being nice. Not everything in life is black and white and limited to two answer choices, especially regarding human interrelations,.
I agreed because nine out of ten times works. However, that being said everytime I witness a female flirting or carrying on to get her way I want to dope slap the living crap out of her.....Stupid acts involving sexual innuendo or wiggly feminine wiles set the entire feminism movement back a notch with every display......JMHO
It only works for men with the their libido in their brain. For those of us that are not trusting of anyone, the only thing going through our minds is what do they want?
I have been accused of being gay by women because I did not react or behave in the manner that most would. If folks, women or men are honest and direct I am easy to get along with but put on phony charms only irritates me. Mostly because I have always been a male libber.
It doesn't always work with every women, I'm not doing any favors for you if I don't find you attractive and your hitting on me with charm. But I'd do it if I got to know you better and we were friends that's it. sorry but I can be charm resistant sometimes.. I'm a realist
We've all seen it or done it..I don't believe in flirting in business respecting me for my abilities as a capable colleague was of utmost importance to me.Flirting is more of a hobby or sport for me an enjoyable mix of saucy banter,verbal gymnastics never hurt anyone.
So to any women who are going to try it, just understand there is a risk is can blow up very badly in your face.
Seeing that not everyone is exactly the same and people don't perceive things exactly the same, what one individual is doing and how the other person perceives it can be two different things. Just being nice can be perceived as flirting and someone "wanting" something from it when in fact the person perceiving it is WRONG, WRONG, WRONG and vice versa. Someone who is very distrustful will most likely agree that a woman flirting means they just want something and are not doing it just to be nice. And most times than not they usually got burnt/used because of it so it's understandable. So the real answer is, some use flirting to obtain their way or to get something and some aren't flirting at all and are just being nice. Not everything in life is black and white and limited to two answer choices, especially regarding human interrelations,.
I have been accused of being gay by women because I did not react or behave in the manner that most would. If folks, women or men are honest and direct I am easy to get along with but put on phony charms only irritates me. Mostly because I have always been a male libber.
And men shouldn't fall for it and put up with it.