Military Moms Photographed Breastfeeding in Uniform: Inappropriate or Harmless?
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2012/05/31 16:47:13
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There's something about breastfeeding that seems to get people all riled up. Why? We're not sure. Doctors recommend breastfeeding as the best way to feed your baby for at least the first year of his or her life. But still ... there's something about military moms doing it in uniform that takes the "issue" to the next level.
A photo of two military moms breastfeeding their babies -- part of a local breastfeeding awareness campaign by Mom2Mom of Fairchild Air Force Base -- is supposedly causing an "outrage." We're not really sure who's outraged, but this is the photo in question:

A photo of two military moms breastfeeding their babies -- part of a local breastfeeding awareness campaign by Mom2Mom of Fairchild Air Force Base -- is supposedly causing an "outrage." We're not really sure who's outraged, but this is the photo in question:

"People are comparing breastfeeding in uniform to urinating and defecating in uniform. They're comparing it to the woman who posed in Playboy in uniform [in 2007]" Crystal Scott, a military spouse and mother of three who launched the group, told Yahoo! Shine. "We never expected it to be like this."
Terran Echegoyen-McCabe, a member of the Air National Guard who was photographed in uniform nursing her 10-month-old twin daughters, defended the pics on the "Today" show. "I'm proud to be wearing a uniform while breastfeeding. I'm proud of the photo and I hope it encourages other women to know they can breastfeed whether they're active duty, guard or civilian," she said. Do you have a problem with the pic?






















Answer me this: WHY take a picture? What does it serve? You don't need to take a picture to prove you're a good mother. Your child can do that. How do you think that baby will feel in ten years when it sees how its mother was publicly breastfeeding him/her? The child will be embarrassed plain and simple.
Like I originally posted, I have no issue with public breastfeeding. What I have issues with is when women decide to take pictures of it and make the world know they breastfeed in public.
To ask mothers to go to the restroom, to feed their baby, is just outright absurd. Who eats in the restroom? Mothers deserve...
To ask mothers to go to the restroom, to feed their baby, is just outright absurd. Who eats in the restroom? Mothers deserve nice cushy comfortable chairs, rocking chairs, or glider rockers for that, and not every place is some country club or Church, that has yet given much thought to such things, and has unlimited money for every possible need of the people who frequent it. Thus, we have mothers who think they have the right to breastfeed in most any public place. As a pro-life activist, I am inclined to agree, as I wish to welcome however many babies into the world, and so hungry babies, are just an understandable fact of life. There's nowhere to hide, for a breastfeeding mother on the crowded bus or airplane. She can't leave her place awaiting to board an airplane, or they may board without her and she miss her airplane. So people, please have a heart, and understand that breastfeeding in public, is common in developing countries with high birthrates, as breasts aren't even "sexual" there. Maybe in the Perverted States of America, breasts are sexual, but why can't we "overlook" it when there's a baby to explain for it?
"So people, please have a heart, and understand that breastfeeding in public, is common in developing countries with high birthrates, as breasts aren't even "sexual" there. "
And just where are these "developing" countries?
Other than those two statements I agree.
Use a blanket. Duh? Now why didn't I think of that? Problem solved? What blanket? "I knew I forgot to bring something?" Maybe you'd rather that the Mom forgot to get her baby out of the hot car, than to forget that precious blankie? Okay, I guess that isn't fair, so I take it back. Or let's say the air conditioner on the bus is broken, and it's 100 degrees F.? Yeah, cover up with a blanket, right. I don't know why that mother didn't simply cover up, but what do I care. Maybe the baby is tossing the blanket off? Do I need to be so judgmental? And don't think we men "like it" when mothers breastfeed. As usual, we get the short end of the stick, as while a glimpse may be no big deal, it's not worth being suspected of "staring."
Seriously? Breast pump at home? You are just begging for some wacko feminist to unload on you? Some babies won't take a bottle. They know what's good. Pumped milk is no longer fresh. And one can be running late, forgot to pump, or the baby's still hungry or cranky, and the bottle has run out. What then? Oh, but there's more, but we can't use that, because it might "offend" somebody. What a bunch of American crybabies, always on the lookout for how they can ...
Use a blanket. Duh? Now why didn't I think of that? Problem solved? What blanket? "I knew I forgot to bring something?" Maybe you'd rather that the Mom forgot to get her baby out of the hot car, than to forget that precious blankie? Okay, I guess that isn't fair, so I take it back. Or let's say the air conditioner on the bus is broken, and it's 100 degrees F.? Yeah, cover up with a blanket, right. I don't know why that mother didn't simply cover up, but what do I care. Maybe the baby is tossing the blanket off? Do I need to be so judgmental? And don't think we men "like it" when mothers breastfeed. As usual, we get the short end of the stick, as while a glimpse may be no big deal, it's not worth being suspected of "staring."
Seriously? Breast pump at home? You are just begging for some wacko feminist to unload on you? Some babies won't take a bottle. They know what's good. Pumped milk is no longer fresh. And one can be running late, forgot to pump, or the baby's still hungry or cranky, and the bottle has run out. What then? Oh, but there's more, but we can't use that, because it might "offend" somebody. What a bunch of American crybabies, always on the lookout for how they can feign to be "offended" as a way to shove their will onto other people?
So what exactly did you agree with? No need to "cover up" at home? Not even with company visiting? I recall my sister wasn't concerned about us company. I mean it's her living room. We could always leave I suppose, if we wanted to feign "offense," rather than politely look in some other direction? I even gave her a glider rocker, as is so popular for mothers with small children.
-_- If it's 100 degrees, you shouldn't be taking the baby outside. It's bad for its health. A baby that is young enough to feed off breast milk won't be able to kick a blanket off. For that matter, if your baby is able to kick it off, you're holding your baby wrong.
The only reason your pumped milk won't be fresh is if you forget to keep it in the refrigerator. And seriously lady, your baby is not going to die if you feed it from a bottle. If its hungry enough, it will take the bottle.
Personally, I find looking the other way a bit offensive. If you're at your own house, however, feel free to do whatever you want. If the company doesn't want you to, direct them to the door.
I agreed with your first paragraph.
All your arguing is that they should be allowed to do it in public, which I have no problems with. My issue is when they decide to photograph it and put it on the news.
Now, if you don't mind, I'd like to move on, seeing as this is clearly going nowhere with you.
If I don't mind? Ma'am, you're the one that initiated the talk. You can go at any time. I stand firm on my beliefs. I don't mind the breastfeeding in public. I just don't want to see it on the news and everywhere else that I go to escape from the real world for a little while!
The literal definition:
pornography (pɔːˈnɒɡrəfɪ)
— n
1. writings, pictures, films, etc, designed to stimulate sexual excitement
And before you pull the feeding a baby stuff, just the sight of a breast is enough to turn some people (both men and women) into a horny beast!
Somebody remarked, what's the difference between underwear and a bikini? The color, I think, was the answer.
So you still don't agree with allowing breastfeeding in public, but you agreed with every point in my comment?
You agree with the natural population expansion of humanity, encouraging people everywhere to shun use of any means of "birth control," and with that it's probably not such a good idea to show so much breast cleavage in certain social settings?
Do you think the skimpy bikinis are too revealing? I would have to say, that thongs do need to be thicker than dental floss, at least. I used to think that a bikini shouldn't be exposing an inch or a few inches of butt flesh, but I think I'm over that now. Not so sure why I need to care about that? And I don't like the ridiculously dark colors that tantalize, yet hide any curves, because you can't see shadows on black. Might as well wear something more modest anyway, in that case.
Holy crap how many times do I have to say it?! I COULDN'T CARE LESS IF WOMEN BREASTFEED IN PUBLIC!!!! WHAT IS SO HARD TO FREAKING UNDERSTAND ABOUT THAT?! I DON'T GIVE A CRAP! I'VE SAID IT 7 TIMES NOW!
"You agree with the natural population expansion of humanity, encouraging people everywhere to shun use of any means of "birth control," and with that it's probably not such a good idea to show so much breast cleavage in certain social settings?"
I'm not sure I agree with shunning birth control because it has other uses than it's initial advertised uses. I truly don't think cleavage is attractive and shouldn't be so "out there" in social settings.
Yes, I think that bikinis are too revealing nowadays.
I don't mind bikinis, as long as it's not some "competition" as to who can show off the most flesh.
And the wind makes nipples erect, so what? Ban the wind?
Please forward this list (women only) who are turning into horny beasts.
I have a slow weekend ahead and would like to meet some new friends.
hahahahaha, they are out there. Hardcore lesbians do exist dude.
If you think that is porn, then don't go to a public swimming pool or beach, where bikinis all over, are the norm. You are sure to see some cleavage there, and can almost make out the shape of the vagina, in some of those spandex bikini bottoms?
Think I saw a definition of porn once, saying that to be considered legally "obscene," something must meet all 3 requirements:
1. Designed to arouse prurient sexual interests.
2. Lacks serious literary merit.
3. Violates community standards.
Is that not a proper limited legal definition? The photos in question, violate none of these, and yet to be "obscene," they must violate all 3.
Don't forget, if you have problems controlling your urges, you can always choose not to buy that magazine, right? If you already subscribe to it, you could turn the page?
But I would consider the Sports Illustrated swimsuit editions, to be possibly "soft porn." Since an entire magazine of hot women in bikinis, is probably something to do with sexual interests, it probably does lack serious merit, although it might not really violate communit...
If you think that is porn, then don't go to a public swimming pool or beach, where bikinis all over, are the norm. You are sure to see some cleavage there, and can almost make out the shape of the vagina, in some of those spandex bikini bottoms?
Think I saw a definition of porn once, saying that to be considered legally "obscene," something must meet all 3 requirements:
1. Designed to arouse prurient sexual interests.
2. Lacks serious literary merit.
3. Violates community standards.
Is that not a proper limited legal definition? The photos in question, violate none of these, and yet to be "obscene," they must violate all 3.
Don't forget, if you have problems controlling your urges, you can always choose not to buy that magazine, right? If you already subscribe to it, you could turn the page?
But I would consider the Sports Illustrated swimsuit editions, to be possibly "soft porn." Since an entire magazine of hot women in bikinis, is probably something to do with sexual interests, it probably does lack serious merit, although it might not really violate community standards. It might be a reason not to subscribe to the magazine at all, since even if it passes the "legal" test, many men still have a problem with porn. I would NOT consider the old catalogs with an "underwear" section to be porn, as the old ones I remember, don't really seem to show much of anything anyway, and that's not the usual, or intended reason most people look at them? Presumably, they are just shopping for clothes?
Not only for that reason but the reason that a specifically placed hand to cover/protect that area from view is classified as soft porn.
That definition of porn is a community definition in what it has to cover to be defined as illegal for the community.
1.) Simply covering the baby/breast with a specifically designed cloth will reduce the chances of arousing sexual interests.
2.) How does breastfeeding pertain to literary merit? It doesn't. That's how.
3.) In most communities, doing this will have you thrown out of somewhere or asked to go to the back or to a restroom.
As for Sports Illustrated, it is designed to arouse sexual interests, in the purpose of later supplying a literary merit. Therefore by your definition can not be classified as porn. And by legal definition, it can not be classified as porn either since the models are covered up. However, if they had replaced their bikini with their own hand, it would be considered soft porn.
I'm not really sure what you're trying to get at with comparing breastfeeding to shopping in a catalogue. You've kinda lost me there.