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Men and Women Gossip Differently, Study Finds: Do You Gossip?

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You won't be shocked to hear that women gossip more than men do. But you might be surprised to learn that when guys gossip, they do it a bit differently than the ladies.

Study author Dr. David C. Watson, an assistant professor of psychology at Grant MacEwan University in Edmonton, Canada, found that women prefer to gossip about another person's physical appearance, the "Today" show reports. Sad, but true. They're also more likely than guys to partake in "social information gossip," such as who's dating whom.

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So what do the dudes dish about? They are slightly more likely to trade "achievement related gossip," involving things like grades, salaries and social status.

And believe it or not, gossip can be good... for the guys, at least. Dishing the dirt was shown to have a moderately strong effect on male friendships, but turns out, it does very little for female friendships. Time to find a few new topics, ladies?
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  • .: LiVi :. 2012/05/30 04:58:31
    No
    .: LiVi :.
    +8
    Small minds talk about people.
    Average minds talk about events.
    Great minds talk about ideas.

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  • LunarRain 2012/06/30 09:26:26
    Yes
    LunarRain
    I'm sure everyone does, some do more than others and some do in different ways but i think it's natural it lets steam out.
  • Selina 2012/06/19 02:50:28
    Sometimes
    Selina
    i feel that if you don't want people to talk about you then don't give them anything to talk about
  • His Love Selina 2013/03/14 01:53:23
  • babyleo 2012/06/14 01:10:20
    Yes
    babyleo
    Everyone gossips. Enough said...
  • Kaola 2012/06/12 05:34:43
    Yes
    Kaola
    Yes i do and it helps to know current News am not aware of but everyone gets update of any News from gossip.
  • Posha King 2012/06/08 16:39:11
    Yes
    Posha King
    I don't gossip often, because I am a private person and prefer to allow others their privacy. But I'm like everyone else, I can't say I don't do it. I probably should have chosen "sometimes" instead of "yes", but you can't undo your vote. :P
  • Jenina 2012/06/06 07:08:11
    Sometimes
    Jenina
    well, it's just the way you remove stress and to show that you trust your mate
  • KatherineKnight250 2012/06/05 18:53:37
    Sometimes
    KatherineKnight250
    I gossip sometimes but not about who's dating who, that is just ridiculous.
  • Tomboy110 2012/06/04 07:20:52
    No
    Tomboy110
    Its pretty much a waist of time. And its meaningless. And its BORING!!!! One of the reasons why I mostly hang out with boys instead. At least when they do it its interesting and funny. (^ - ^)
  • cLemon o.o 2012/06/03 20:24:48
    Yes
    cLemon o.o
    +2
    basically everyone gossips however if you do not gossip my question is why did you come to this website?
  • His Love 2012/06/03 04:47:57
    No
    His Love
    +2
    No not all women gossip, since I can remember, I never had the need to gossip or spread gossip. Gossip is usually an assumption started by one (as the top opinion lady put it one with a small mind) In women it is usually jealousy, that rears its ugly head gossiping with intent to slander another.

    I don't agree with the write up on this subject. As I know men gossip somewhat the same..based from personal insecurity within themselves (an ego thing) to make them feel like one of the boys. uggggggggggggggg how revolting and ignorant- (men and women that gossip) I say to all you women and men who like to spread gossip-Whether it be intent to destroy another for something they have done, or intent to simply slander another..get a grip.

    Slander is against the law! And all gossip always start or soon leads to slander.
    Deal with your lack of confidence in yourself! Hey Teacher.........Leaves those kids alone!

    The truth and nothing but.........................
  • Dave 007 2012/06/02 14:55:38
    No
    Dave 007
    +1
    Any women who say's they don't gossip is a big liar.
  • His Love Dave 007 2012/06/03 04:50:05
    His Love
    Never Lie! :D
  • Tomboy110 Dave 007 2012/06/04 07:24:04
    Tomboy110
    I'm not lieing. I'm serious!!! I don't do that kind of crap.
  • Michael 2012/06/02 11:32:43
    Yes
    Michael
    +1
    But I always feel bad afterwards. Gossip, to me, can be harmful if it is false, or exaggerated.
  • Alexis Pieri 2012/06/02 04:32:39
    Yes
    Alexis Pieri
    +1
    We All Do, And Those Of You That Say No, Try Watchinq What Your Sayinqq.
  • His Love Alexis ... 2012/06/03 04:51:13
    His Love
    you watch what I am saying and maybe you learn something!
  • wassup 2012/06/01 16:48:25
    Yes
    wassup
    +2
    Of course I do. Everybody does. But I'm also a 15 year old girl..
  • Raphy 2012/06/01 04:13:22
    Yes
    Raphy
    +1
    I was meaning to say sometimes. It's a bad habit for a lot of us.
  • Blueskys 2012/06/01 01:45:29 (edited)
    Sometimes
    Blueskys
    +1
    Top Opinion
    .: LiVi :. 1 day ago
    Small minds talk about people.
    Average minds talk about events.
    Great minds talk about ideas.
    ..................
    After that you reached the point you mostly just talk to yourself....
  • hasher 2012/06/01 01:23:32
    Sometimes
    hasher
    i hardly ever talk about someones appearance. i will talk about their behavior however. especially bad behavior that annoys me more than anything about co workers. how they behave and interact with someone. some coworkers have a bad attitude and i will vent with someone about it sometimes.
  • FPSRules 2012/06/01 00:19:57
    Sometimes
    FPSRules
    But, let's not talk here.........we can talk later when 'certain' people aren't around to overhear us....OK?
  • brittany 2012/06/01 00:00:16
    Sometimes
    brittany
    lol but i don't gossip about other women i usually gossip about the family.
  • Willski 2012/05/31 20:25:16
    Sometimes
    Willski
    I perform activities that may be regarded as gossip by accurately answering just about any question posed to me. (Assuming i consider the question appropriate.)
  • Smokey 2012/05/31 20:08:49
    Yes
    Smokey
    Men are human too... who do you think started the National Enquire? A Man!!!
  • His Love Smokey 2012/06/03 04:53:00
    His Love
    gossip is not being human, its being insecure, and lacking confidence in oneself!

    Bet that didn't go the way you thought huh? :D
  • Smokey His Love 2012/06/04 19:00:13
    Smokey
    I'm not sure about gossiping being insecure about oneself. I sometimes think that some people like spreading juicy news. The problem are also the people who give a lending ear to gossip.

    There are so many different forms of gossip. Vicious gossip (stories about someone that isn't true) is totally wrong.

    However, casual gossip is like, "Hey, did you hear about Nancy Sue? She slipped down her stairs because she got drunk last night!" Now, if that is the truth, then all that person is doing is being a newsreporter.

    Smokey
  • His Love Smokey 2012/06/05 14:42:27
    His Love
    +1
    nah, Gossip is from the mouths of the insecure! Its not hard to figure out!
    and most lacking confidence in themselves want to hurt someone!
    So tell me smokey what kind of Gossip is good? it all comes out in the end...someone getting hurt whether it is a reporter.....or or whomever..Gossip comes from the mouth of vindictive people. (Heres one ..for ya, if they gossiping to you about someone else, the next moment they gossiping about you to that someone else)

    pretty much common sense what gossip is! Only the self loathing persons will participate and spread gossip maybe true or not true at all..I say to all gossipers get a fu***** Life. And Remember Slander is a crime...

    I bet all you gossipers' are right into celebrity gossip too, I don't even pay attention. Imagine the bull they live under invading their personal lives and so forth. In alot of cases can be very harmful. (gossipers need to start gossiping about themselves maybe they might just learn something!)
  • Smokey His Love 2012/06/05 14:50:47
    Smokey
    I don't know about you, but when I was young, I was a victim of someone spreading gossip. Some of it were true... but I didn't sleep with my best friends sister!!!! :) lol lol
  • Mike J. Hirak 2012/05/31 19:43:45
    Yes
    Mike J. Hirak
    Man
  • ajracestables1 2012/05/31 18:58:23
    Sometimes
    ajracestables1
    I try not to but I am gulty as charged of doing that before.
  • dream-hair! 2012/05/31 18:47:04
    No
    dream-hair!
    we have no friends to gossip with
  • Margaret Jacobson 2012/05/31 18:34:03
    No
    Margaret Jacobson
    +1
    for years I found "she said, he said" boring..........I have other intetrests in life !!
  • His Love Margare... 2012/06/03 04:53:59
    His Love
    You said it! :)
  • Tomboy110 Margare... 2012/06/04 07:26:18
    Tomboy110
    IM SAYING!!!!
  • Anna E 2012/05/31 18:29:11
    Sometimes
    Anna E
    Not very often, though. I prefer news straight from whoever is involved in the news.
  • dobby123 2012/05/31 17:52:07
    Sometimes
    dobby123
    I don't know if you call "Telling someone else great news about someone else" gossiping, but if so, I do quite the gossiping.
  • Kozmo 2012/05/31 17:40:44
    Sometimes
    Kozmo
    "Don't Accept Hearsay As Truth" - Buddha. I try my best NOT to disseminate unreliable info, often pre-stating it as unreliable. But most folks perform 'selective listening' and only retain (or confabulate) only what their agenda permits. This a HUMAN trait.
  • David 2012/05/31 17:09:41
    Sometimes
    David
    +1
    I try not not speaking of anyone not present. Not always easy.
  • dream-h... David 2012/05/31 18:47:30
    dream-hair!
    we love cereal
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