Ladies, would you forgive a man who hit you and take him back?
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2012/06/13 01:52:38
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Jersey Roze ♥Jwon's Cyar'ika ♥ 2012/06/13 01:57:47
Have a nice day !
Women hit men all the time, and no one seems to think anything of it. But when men hit women, everyone get's all up in the rafters about it. Why?
There is only one RIGHT TIME for a man to hit a woman..
A real man will walk away when provoked to that point by a woman, Unless she is using deadly force..
outside of deadly force for a man to hit a woman and this sort of union or isolated situation never has a good ending. The key is to learn self control, avoid violence,
and don't condone this type of savage behavior.
should hit a woman. It is unacceptable and dangerous to say the least. It is a known
fact that a man who strikes a woman will do it again because more likely than not,
anger and violence is at the root of his nature. Once violence enters a relationship,
disrespect coupled with resentment sets in and the relationship is likely doomed.
There is no justifiable reason why anyone should tolerate physical abuse from either gender to the other but especially a women being manhandled by a coward in men's clothing.
A man who hits a woman is not half a man and is nothing but a coward who needs to own up to his inadequacies as a man and get serious psychological help.
In the meantime the woman who is the victim should quickly move on with her life and never look back.
Put another log on the fire,
Cook me up some bacon and some beans,
Go out to the car and change the tire,
Wash my socks and sew my old blue jeans.
Baby, fill my pipe and then go fetch my slippers,
Boil me up another pot of tea.
Put another log on the fire, girl,
Come and tell me why you're leaving me.
Don't I let you wash the car on sunday ?
Don't I warn you when you're getting fat ?
Hey, fatso!
Ain't I gonna take you fishing some day ?
Well, a man can't love a woman more than that.
Ain't I always nice to your kid sister,
Don't I take her driving every night ?
So sit here at my feet because I like you when you're sweet
And you know that it ain't feminine to fight.
Put another log on the fire,
Cook me up some bacon and some beans,
Go out to the car and change the tire,
Wash my socks and sew my old blue jeans.
Fill my pipe and then go fetch my slippers,
Boil me up another pot of tea.
Put another log on the fire, woman,
Come and tell me why you're leaving me.
Yeah, come and tell me why you're leaving me.
a woman to leave a man we'd all be lucky but unfortunately it isn't so.
Would one call this abuse ? Probably not in the truest sense of the word, more likely
taking a woman for granted which is a crime in itself but not of the dangerous kind. :)
Everyone is at least half responsible, and women are far crueler than men.I'd take a man openly showing his anger to my face (even literally) rather than a woman cutting me down behind a smile.
I'm sure statistics could back my opinion on this fragile topic that men are often more responsible, dangerous and likely to be the cause of physical assault than women.
see eye to eye on this widespread injustice of physical abuse on women and to any innocent human being. Say no to violence !
I would like to add you for your support on this delicate topic.
That's pure undiluted agony that causes those statistics.
But nobody ever thinks about that.
Random rape, I'll agree, can have an innocent victim. Or violence of that kind.
Domestic violence, in other words, violence between two people who know each other, cannot have an innocent victim. The women that are beat up by their boyfriends or husbands, are equally guilty. Period. And far more evil.
That, or they would find a way to leave. Women are intelligent creatures, we have to be to survive. So why don't they use it?
I'm not saying violence isn't out there. But just because it is, doesn't mean that there are "innocent victims".
I'm talking psychology here, not statistics.
I don't have a grudge against women, per se. But I don't trust them, whereas I do trust men. I'd rather see what's killing me, than not.
It's a matter of simple preference.
I gave my opinion on this topic at length and why I disagreed with you.
Your views are distorted and make no sense at all. You have trust issues and hostility with women for some reason that you should get counseling for.
Your views are abnormal and not ones that anyone would agree with.
Women that are beat up by boyfriends and husbands are equally guilty ?
LOL... You are so wrong about that ! No woman deserves to be BEAT UP and
an innocent victim to men who physically abuse them ! Women are innocent victims everyday at the hands of these cowardly beasts ! Domestic violence and assault & battery is a crime and a man should never lay a hand on a woman for any reason and you as a women should never make excuses for that because you are condoning such brutal behavior !
You shouldn't be rude to Bearish...he is not a coward because he speaks his mind as you so boldly so. Men who hit women are the cowards .
You don't like the fact that he spoke up to you and you defend yourself but it's ok that a man lay his hand on a woman because you think they are not innocent and they are guily and deserve it ? Your logic is totally ridiculous !
I'm done here talking to you about this. I disagree with you 100%.
When she was getting ready to leave his sorry butt, he shot her in her head, blowing half her brains away.
At her funeral they had a closed casket. I truly hope you never have this happen to anyone you love, because indirectly you, the one left becomes a victim of the abuser's abuse. It took me many years to get over the loss of my cousin. No, she was not cruel. Her name described her perfectly. Her name was Mercy.
She, unfortunately, was not. She knew what she was getting into, and she knew what the risks were. She gambled, and lost. That's what life's about.
I ride streets motorcycles, and I love it, I adore it. However it's one of the most dangerous things a person can do, simply because most car drivers don't see us. In a collision with a car, we die, end of story. Every time I get on my bike, I gamble my life, every time I come home and say hi to my family, I won. Someday I might not, it's very likely, I know that well. If than, the next time I go out, I'm suddenly hit by a car at an intersection that I didn't see, and who didn't see me, would you call me an idiot, or an innocent victim.
When I say that women are cruel, by the way, I don't mean cruel the way most people think the word. I mean that they are sharply, even coldly intelligent, and manipulative the vast majority of the time.
We are always aware of what will hurt someone the most, and usually willing to resort to it.
Men are simpler, what you see is what you get. That's all I meant.
I hope this doesn't come across as being insensitive, thou...
She, unfortunately, was not. She knew what she was getting into, and she knew what the risks were. She gambled, and lost. That's what life's about.
I ride streets motorcycles, and I love it, I adore it. However it's one of the most dangerous things a person can do, simply because most car drivers don't see us. In a collision with a car, we die, end of story. Every time I get on my bike, I gamble my life, every time I come home and say hi to my family, I won. Someday I might not, it's very likely, I know that well. If than, the next time I go out, I'm suddenly hit by a car at an intersection that I didn't see, and who didn't see me, would you call me an idiot, or an innocent victim.
When I say that women are cruel, by the way, I don't mean cruel the way most people think the word. I mean that they are sharply, even coldly intelligent, and manipulative the vast majority of the time.
We are always aware of what will hurt someone the most, and usually willing to resort to it.
Men are simpler, what you see is what you get. That's all I meant.
I hope this doesn't come across as being insensitive, though if it does than it only really reinforces my point. Someone with more grace would not have written a message like this.
I AM very sorry about what happened, but I feel more sorry for you than her. Of course I hope (every day) that something like that never happens in my family. But then, I doubt anyone in my family has the traumatic imprint that your cousin did.
If you want to lay the blame for what happened to her on the right shoulders, look no further than her mother and father, because those two people, and the circumstances of her birth, are what laid the foundations for what happened when she was 23
I lay no blame on her parents. They were the ones that showed me that forgiving my cousins bf was what was best for all concerned. Hate had begun to eat me alive, and I didn't like how I felt. But, I knew my cousin would be at peace.
As I stated before she was in the process of leaving when this happened. She had enough. Leaving is usually the most daangerous because once gone the abuser no longer has control of the situation.