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Ladies, would you forgive a man who hit you and take him back?

Assassin~ Badass Buzz Guru 2012/06/13 01:52:38
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  • art1ej 2012/07/16 14:12:33
    No
    art1ej
    No one should man or woman....
  • Death Faerie 2012/07/04 19:17:41
    No
    Death Faerie
    But I have in the past. Ladies..if he hits you once he will do again Maybe if YOU left him for hitting you, he may learn from it and not hit others.

    Now I tend to end relationships that show any sign, no matter how tiny of potential abuse, even emotional abuse.
  • Brosia 2012/07/04 14:56:22
    No
    Brosia
    +1
    The only reason he should be hitting me, is if I threw the first punch. And he should leave me if I and hitting him.

    Any other reason for him laying hands on me is completely unacceptable and unforgivable.
  • baxter 2012/07/03 15:11:55
    No
    baxter
    HE SAY HE WOULDONT DO IT BUT YOU DONT NO THAT
  • ajracestables1 2012/06/17 17:36:36
    No
    ajracestables1
    I would hit him back.
  • Barefoot Peace and Love∞ijm... 2012/06/16 23:23:09
    No
    Barefoot Peace and Love∞ijm♥☮♥∞
    +1
    Not now, but I have before..... but, no more......;)
  • justnotsaying (: 2012/06/16 05:18:23
    No
    justnotsaying (:
  • syl 2012/06/16 00:51:51
    No
    syl
    +1
    I may later try to forgive him, but never, ever take him back.
  • Gooky 2012/06/15 12:12:01
    No
    Gooky
    +2
    Never...unless i hit him first,which would never happen!
  • Yankee Traveler 2012/06/15 09:24:18
    No
    Yankee Traveler
    +4
    Only a fool would do that!

    stop domestic abuse
  • Sir ZaB... Yankee ... 2012/06/15 13:53:07
    Sir ZaBooMaFoo
    +2
    Tell Rihanna that!
  • Yankee ... Sir ZaB... 2012/06/15 20:10:49
    Yankee Traveler
    But some people enjoy it!! Or they must because they keep repeating the same thing over, and over again!!!
  • bags th... Yankee ... 2012/06/16 15:55:12
    bags the Indigenous Guru
    +4
    No. It's easy to make that assumption, but it's not true. They tolerate it because they've become convinced that they deserve it, and that there is no way to get away from their abuser. And, in truth, most women killed by BF's/Husbands are killed when they are trying to escape them.
  • Yankee ... bags th... 2012/06/16 19:02:00
    Yankee Traveler
    That all may be true. But what I have also found out through my own experience
    ( yes and guys have also been abused as well ) is that in some cases we seem to be attracted to a certain type of person. Some women are attracted to "bad boys." Well what makes them think that they're not going to be bad to them? I was [for some reason] attracted to control freaks. And when a control freak can no longer control you they freak way out, I mean like unglued type freak out, I mean like someone needs some really heavy meds type freak out.
  • bags th... Yankee ... 2012/06/16 19:24:43
    bags the Indigenous Guru
    +2
    You can be attracted to bad boys all you want, my DH is a perfect example of a very bad boy but he's still a damn good man. I've never for one moment worried about my personal safety at his hands...no matter HOW pi$$ed off I've gotten him.

    Being addicted to control freaks, didn't think you were capable of making your own decisions and decided that if you placed your life in someone else's hands than it would be all their fault? That's codependency 101.
  • Yankee ... bags th... 2012/06/16 19:52:29
    Yankee Traveler
    If I were married to an account why would I be the one to control the money? One someone can take a penny and make it into dollars, that is beyond my realm of expertise. However when that some person is trying to tell my things that are well beyond their realm of expertise, totally clueless like what my particular business is, and they are not able to control the situation, they freak. Being attracted to a control freak doesn't necessarily mean that I am dependent totally on that person. And what did I say that would give you the impression that I would place my life in the hands of someone else? A "Bad Boy" isn't just a persona, it is the real deal. A "bad boy" is really and truly a bad person and not some weird poser that wants people to believe that they are bad, that is just a joke. Like the weekend warrior type.
  • bags th... Yankee ... 2012/06/16 20:07:28
    bags the Indigenous Guru
    +2
    Well then, dear. Lie down with dogs, get up with fleas. Have a nice day.
  • Barefoo... bags th... 2012/06/16 23:24:04
    Barefoot Peace and Love∞ijm♥☮♥∞
    +1
    that's what my moma' always told me....;)
  • Death F... Yankee ... 2012/07/04 19:26:09
    Death Faerie
    I hope you are joking or being ironic. I put up with it for years..not because I liked it but because I hoped he would change, I felt all alone, I wanted a father for my kids, a part of me thought I was worthless and that I deserved it...and then when it was getting to where I couldn't take it anymore, he said if I left him he would take away our daughter.
  • Death F... Sir ZaB... 2012/07/04 19:19:19
    Death Faerie
    She is such a bad role model. I told my 13 year old daughter she's not allowed to listen to her anymore.
  • Sir ZaB... Death F... 2012/07/05 22:43:39
    Sir ZaBooMaFoo
    She really is... Her songs are catchy though so I don't think there's any harm in allowing your children to listen to them!
  • Death F... Sir ZaB... 2012/07/07 19:10:10
    Death Faerie
    I don't want her to be a fan, sorry. I went through abuse..that's bad influence enough, I don't need some stranger influencing her into believing that staying with abusive men is ok.
  • Centurion~PWCM~JLA 2012/06/15 06:35:24
    No
    Centurion~PWCM~JLA
    +3
    I saw this poll and had to step into it.

    Real men do not hit on women.

    I've been with some women who were abusive and I'm glad to be free of them. The lady I'm married to now is far better than I ever thought that I'd find. Thirteen years together and she has NEVER tried to hurt me, hitting or otherwise. I'm happy to say that I've done just as well.

    Don't put up with guys who beat on you. They don't deserve it.

    Good men are out there but you are not going to find them living with a creep.
  • Gracie ~Gun Totin' Gracie~ 2012/06/15 05:42:07
    No
    Gracie ~Gun Totin' Gracie~
    +5
    I wouldn't want him after I got through with him.
    teeth missing baseball bat woman
  • JAKE~PWCM~JLA 2012/06/15 05:35:57
    No
    JAKE~PWCM~JLA
    +2
    I hope you all say no. I wouldn't hit a woman.
  • Oaces_boss_yo® 2012/06/15 05:27:16
  • justnot... Oaces_b... 2012/06/16 05:20:19
    justnotsaying (:
    +4
    It's good you found the courage to leave.
    hugz
  • Oaces_b... justnot... 2012/06/16 13:22:21
  • justnot... Oaces_b... 2012/06/16 23:14:14
    justnotsaying (:
    +2
    It is. o_o
  • Oaces_b... justnot... 2012/06/16 23:16:24
  • justnot... Oaces_b... 2012/06/16 23:44:14
    justnotsaying (:
    +1
    Oh wow, he's that crazy. A machine gun perhaps.
  • Oaces_b... justnot... 2012/06/16 23:46:04
  • justnot... Oaces_b... 2012/06/16 23:57:59
    justnotsaying (:
    +1
    LOL - I always thought they were better because they shoot a lot of bullets at one time.
  • Oaces_b... justnot... 2012/06/17 00:00:47
  • justnot... Oaces_b... 2012/06/17 00:28:34
    justnotsaying (:
    ;)
  • •Sora•Knightwalker• 2012/06/15 03:26:43
    No
    •Sora•Knightwalker•
    +2
    He shouldn't have hit me in the first place...
  • JesusIsMyGod 2012/06/15 02:20:25
    No
    JesusIsMyGod
    +1
    I would forgive him, but I would not trust him.
  • Call me Mark willya? 2012/06/15 01:22:57
    No
    Call me Mark willya?
    +2
    I'm not a lady, but I wouldn't expect to be forgiven for such behavior, and in fact would never forgive myself.
  • YOMOMMA 2012/06/14 22:34:40
    Yes
    YOMOMMA
    Maybe. NOT anymoRE.
  • Rosie 2012/06/14 11:37:59
    Yes
    Rosie
    depends on the situation. If he smacks you in the butt while having fun, then it's not abuse. Slapping or punching would be a totally different story.
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