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Ladies: Do You Have Penis Envy?

Axl Snaks 2010/05/12 03:14:10
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"Penis envy". in Freudian psychoanalysis. refers to the theorized reaction of a girl during her psychosexual development to the realization that she does not have a penis.

Freud considered this realization a defining moment in the development of gender and sexual identity for women. According to Freud, the parallel reaction in boys to the realization that girls do not have a penis is castration anxiety.
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  • Psykhê 2010/05/12 03:35:56 (edited)
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    I wish I could write my name in flowing, yellow cursive in the snow. :o(

    ::bitter envy::

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  • kaτo gaτo 2010/05/28 06:55:26
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    doesn't freud's theory also include envy directed towards the parents??
    my psychology teacher said something about that; our class made a big deal about it haha
  • jb 2010/05/18 01:42:34
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    Wish I could take a leak by some bush rather than having to frantically search for a public toilet.. which cost and are never pleasant to use.

    *sigh* Guys have it so easy, hey
  • Just Missy 2010/05/15 00:05:17
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    That way I don't have to worry about boners!
  • Steford... Just Missy 2010/05/27 17:50:47
    Steford doesn't follow
    WHO'S?
  • Chelle G 2010/05/14 20:30:03
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    i used to be but not anymore
  • viola 2010/05/14 00:52:51
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    emm,, i guess i used to hate that guys could pee while standing, but we, girls, couldn't!
  • Steford... viola 2010/05/27 17:51:12
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    YES YOU CAN!
  • viola Steford... 2010/05/28 04:50:57
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    dudem i have tried, nothing good came of that! LOL
  • Steford... viola 2010/05/28 10:05:50
    Steford doesn't follow
    I HAD a girlfriend who COULD and DID! (EVEN in the urinal.)
  • viola Steford... 2010/05/28 10:53:40
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    oh, that must not have been very pleasant! .
  • Steford... viola 2010/05/28 18:14:56
    Steford doesn't follow
    She WON a lot of bets!
  • viola Steford... 2010/05/29 06:48:16
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    so u had ur own little business? xD
  • Steford... viola 2010/05/29 21:13:47
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    Yep , on the side!
  • viola Steford... 2010/06/05 02:20:47
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    that's pretty cool!!! how did that go?
  • BY viola 2010/06/01 02:31:17
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    You have this option:
  • viola BY 2010/06/05 02:20:23
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    loll , y yeah! xD
  • Steford... BY 2010/06/05 10:25:20
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    The NEXT $1,000,000 IDEA? PRETTY COOL?
  • Fingon Celebrindal 2010/05/13 23:35:35
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  • αℓεx von slαughtεя™ 2010/05/13 22:53:49
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    αℓεx von slαughtεя™
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    Ohh yeahh! I'm definitely jealous. I'm just curious to know what it feels like, if it's heavy xD or how it feels while getting "pleasured" :p I do love my vagina, but i'd like to know what a penis is like. lol. And I'd stick it in everybody's mouth! (:
  • LeifEriksson 2010/05/13 09:41:33
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    Sometimes wife envy. The desire to have someone lovely to enjoy each other's body with....
  • Sallana 2010/05/13 05:34:35
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    I have much less of a case of it now than I did when I was at that psychologically defining gender moment. I remember as a kid around ages 7 - 8 I used to really want a penis. It was generally just the idea of being able to pee standing up. I think that's where all penis envy comes from.

    Also men have a much easier time camping. I don't think men know how hard it is to squat.
  • Axl Snaks Sallana 2010/05/13 21:58:04
  • Sallana Axl Snaks 2010/05/13 23:29:34
  • Axl Snaks Sallana 2010/05/14 01:00:37
  • Pl Sallana 2010/05/13 22:10:34
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    It's called P-mate.... p-mate
  • Jenamarial 2010/05/13 05:32:17
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    But I do wonder what it would be like to be in a guy's head... I've heard it's mostly sex about every 5 minutes ^_^ it's a wonder they are able to think at all, that must be difficult.

    There is another term called Womb envy coined by Karen Horney(hehehe horny) which claims the opposite. That men are envious of women's ability to have children and create life. Hm. We all need to just be happy.
  • Axl Snaks Jenamarial 2010/05/13 05:34:42
  • Jenamarial Axl Snaks 2010/05/13 05:51:30
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    Won't argue with you there ;-)
  • Pl Axl Snaks 2010/05/13 22:13:05
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    I just wish the short pecker guys would sit down when they use the bathroom. they always pee on the seat.
  • Pl Jenamarial 2010/05/13 22:11:46
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    Actually, that's a MYTH. Go check out healthguru.com Women think more about sex than men..... a lot more.
  • Jenamarial Pl 2010/05/14 01:49:57 (edited)
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    I searched healthguru.com and didn't see any information to that effect(mostly it was just a "how to book" that I don't really care to read ^_^)

    Huh? Then why is it generally the guy that approaches the girl? Why are 80%(and believe me that's a under-exaggerated number, even though men are less likely to report) of rapist, guys? Why are 70% of slaves, women who mostly to become sex-slaves in brothels? Why is it always women in the least clothing(we get cold more easily and we don't check ourself out that much)? Why is it mostly men with multiple wives?

    It's amazing how many anti-feminist(which is not a derogatory term at all if you look it up in dictionary, I'm proud to be a feminist)sites have popped up lately.

    Sorry if I seem to over-react, this is one issue I get really mad about. It's one thing to deny a genetic trait and another thing entirely to flip it completely because it makes you uncomfortable. I know men are more sexually-driven then women from past-experiences(one with a knife until I proved to fierce) and the textbooks(look somewhere else besides the internet and magazines!)
  • DustinW... Jenamarial 2010/05/14 20:36:21
  • Matthew... Jenamarial 2010/10/13 20:50:24
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    Hmm thats fascinating. I might have that... although I'm sure glad I don't have to give birth! Maybe its more the breastfeeding/nurturer side that i'm envious of.
  • clock 2010/05/12 23:36:18
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    based on the answers women are giving, I don't think they understand what penis envy is.

    for women, penis envy is about wishing/demanding the power, opportunities, and lifestyle of a man, and have distain for feminine traditions.

    it can also refer to an obsession for men, which stems from desiring your father, which stems from desiring your mother...but can't have her because you weren't born iwth a penis.
  • Sallana clock 2010/05/13 05:37:17
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    What you describe is indeed penis envy.. However the more simplified and basic form of it IS the case of a woman (usually a younger girl) wanting a penis. Your approach is much deeper than the surface value of what is being asked.
  • Melizmatic 2010/05/12 22:12:14
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    Nope.

    I think men got the short end of the proverbial stick by having their reproductive organs on the exterior of their bodies; harder to protect & easier to damage.

    And IDGAF if they can pee standing up.
  • Axl Snaks Melizmatic 2010/05/13 04:47:17
  • Melizmatic Axl Snaks 2010/05/13 16:02:08
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    *lol
    Such a potty mouth!

    Hardly. You men just like to THINK we women are jealous. :P

    Please believe it, hon; I MUCH prefer being able to have multiple orgasms all at once, as opposed to "one per pop"...

    lol potty mouth women jealous hon multiple orgasms opposed pop
  • Axl Snaks Melizmatic 2010/05/13 21:58:45
  • Melizmatic Axl Snaks 2010/05/13 22:45:18
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    If that's what you want to believe, more power to you, Axl.

    Without going into too much detail, I KNOW better.

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