Jealousy, good or bad in a relationship?
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2012/06/09 02:58:57
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Crimson 2012/06/09 04:24:05Bad
+4Jealousy is never good in relationship, it destroys it. You become suspicious of your spouse or mate which leads to invasion of space. Even in a relationship, the couples need space. Questioning begins and there goes disaster. Jealousy is not a show of love because love brings no sadness.
Unconditional love, unconditional trust and unconditional respect...
If you trust somebody then where is the need for jealousy?
I know several people who were in realtionships where jealousy actually drove the partner away in a heartbreaking "self fufilling prophecy" sort of way...
Song of Solomon 8:5-7
5 “ Who is this coming up from the wilderness
Leaning on her beloved?”
Beneath the apple tree I awakened you;
There your mother was in labor with you,
There she was in labor and gave you birth.
6 “Put me like a seal over your heart,
Like a seal on your arm.
For love is as strong as death,
Jealousy is as severe as Sheol;
Its flashes are flashes of fire,
The very flame of the Lord.
7 “Many waters cannot quench love,
Nor will rivers overflow it;
If a man were to give all the riches of his house for love,
It would be utterly despised.”