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Is your kindness ever mistaken for weakness?

♒ßεllεchεvεllε®♒ 2012/04/28 02:12:12
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Yesh.
Nope.
I am an imp.  No kindness here.
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  • conservyT 2012/04/29 21:59:02
    Nope.
    conservyT
    +1
    Those that know me, know.
    Those that just met me will soon know.
  • Hirnungah Mancandy 2012/04/29 19:47:26
    Yesh.
    Hirnungah Mancandy
    +1
    OF COURSE I'M ALSO AN EMOTIONAL CRIPPLE BUT I CAN TURN INTO A WERE-BITCH
  • Stella Blue 2012/04/29 01:59:17
    Nope.
    Stella Blue
    +1
    what kindness?
  • darlene 2012/04/29 01:38:42 (edited)
    Yesh.
    darlene
    +2
    It's better to give than receive anyway. lol
  • unclepat 2012/04/28 23:15:03
    Yesh.
    unclepat
    +3
    I have twin 8 year old GIRLS and a WIFE....of course my kindness is mistaken for weakness. They call it being soft though. My sons call me sucker! lol
  • METALheadMom 2012/04/28 22:56:15
    Nope.
    METALheadMom
    +2
    It takes a lot to get through my exterior and let you see my kind side. I never make myself vulnerable to anyone I do not know I can trust, or to anyone I'm not sure I can slap down if I need to.

    My daughter recently ran into the street and caught a young boy from getting hit by an oncoming car. As she walked back, the boys "Mother" came at her calling her all kinds of names for touching her son. I would have knocked that idiot right off her feet, my daughter felt horrible and upset by it. I would rather not get involved and keep myself from going to jail. I'm sorry, but most people are just far too stupid for me to get involved with anymore.
  • ♒ßεllεc... METALhe... 2012/04/28 23:36:56
    ♒ßεllεchεvεllε®♒
    +1
    Dang that makes me sick. Mostly because I've seen stuff like that happen with my own two eyes. It's hard for me NOT to be completely jaded, bitter, hardassed, etc. when ungrateful idiots like that are running rampant in the world. You're daughter sounds like a topnotch person.
  • Vision of Verve 2012/04/28 22:08:54
  • Party of One 2012/04/28 16:37:01
    Yesh.
    Party of One
    +2
    it's definitely a mistake
  • mrdog 2012/04/28 15:30:27
    Yesh.
    mrdog
    +2
    Also,,,,naive...bark
  • **StarzAbove** 2012/04/28 15:29:44 (edited)
    Yesh.
    **StarzAbove**
    +2
    Yes it is, people seem to think because I'm nice they can manipulate, bully and attack me. They sure find out how very wrong they are. Mean people don't know how to deal with someone that is nice and kind. I guess their miserable life is an indicator of how they act toward others.
  • METALhe... **Starz... 2012/04/28 23:04:44
    METALheadMom
    +1
    Odd statement. How do these "mean" people find out how wrong they are, if you are such a nice and kind woman? I've never met a nice and kind person who could take me on when I'm being "mean". I never go out and look for nice people to harass, but I do have a temper I admit. So, I'm in your face being "mean" - would you teach me a lesson by being nice and kind to me? Would that be your way of showing me how wrong I am? Yikes!!! I pray we never get into that situation......
  • lm1b2 2012/04/28 12:50:37
    Yesh.
    lm1b2
    +4
    Many times have I tried to avoid confrontation,and it was taken as a sign of weakness to the point i would then have to get in their face.People are truly ignorant.
  • aahhhhhhh 2012/04/28 10:34:34
    Yesh.
    aahhhhhhh
    +3
    Yep! But then there's an opportunity to be even kinder and show em how weak it was to act in such a way.
  • Xerxes 2012/04/28 10:08:35
  • Freeranger 2012/04/28 04:30:19
    Nope.
    Freeranger
    +5
    Hopefully not. I'm kind, yet I'm far from weak
  • Woman of many faces~ijm 2012/04/28 04:20:10
    Nope.
    Woman of many faces~ijm
    +3
    Don't see how it could be..I'm pretty much straight forward.
  • blissful 2012/04/28 03:32:53 (edited)
    Yesh.
    blissful
    +4
    All the time! I have a babyish voice so people mistake it as a weakness. Til I prove them different!..
  • ✞Knight of Honor 2012/04/28 03:29:18
    Yesh.
    ✞Knight of Honor
    +4
    Unfortunately, most people view kindness as weakness.
  • sockpuppet 2012/04/28 03:28:39
    Nope.
    sockpuppet
    +4
    People know where they stand with me and what I'll put up with. I'm not that deep or soft-spoken.
  • abubincrazy 2012/04/28 03:25:58
    Yesh.
    abubincrazy
    +7
    Some predatory people mistake decency for weakness.
  • Crime Time 2012/04/28 03:20:33
  • Paige 2012/04/28 03:03:55
    Yesh.
    Paige
    +3
    I think probably so
  • wtxwoman 2012/04/28 03:03:50
    Yesh.
    wtxwoman
    +4
    But, those who make that mistake soon live to regret it.
  • Treasure ♥ijm♥ 2012/04/28 03:02:31
    Yesh.
    Treasure ♥ijm♥
    +4
    I think at times it has been mistaken for weakness....
  • ✞Knight... Treasur... 2012/04/28 03:29:45
    ✞Knight of Honor
    +4
    Just remember that it isn't a weakness.
  • Treasur... ✞Knight... 2012/04/28 14:19:42
    Treasure ♥ijm♥
    +4
    That's right...it isn't. :) Thanks my friend....

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