Is this too harsh?
Dark Angel
2012/07/17 07:18:40
Conversation between me and a guy, a lot of you can prob guess who but im still not gonna give his name. I think i might have been too mean. Idk...but i do feel kinda bad cuz i feel like i didnt show enough compassion or something
Him
Okay, sorry I was wrong. We just decided to go our different ways.:"(
Okay, sorry I was wrong. We just decided to go our different ways.:"(
me
sigh... cheer up. It happens. Nothing you can do about it, you cant change it. Theres no magic solution to it and theres no way to go back and change our paths from splitting.
Im destined to go one way and be what i was meant to be and youre destined to stay where you are the way you have for years. Please dont dwell on it, theres no point. No amount of tears or sleepless nights will redirect my path down south to you. Besides we're worlds appart on beliefs and needs.
You need someone who will settle down and be content with a normal domestic life and who wont worry about your salvation and i need someone who will move around and be as wild and unpredictable as i am and who wont find my beliefs impossible and unrealistic.
Maybe i can settle down and stay put one day but not until all my dreams are fullfilled and all my degrees are earned. Im bound for college after college until ive had the best schooling in each one of my degrees. All we'd do is hold eachother back and waste eachothers time. Life is too short for wasted time. I have too many dreams and ambitions to waste a single second.
Find someone more compatable with you and your lifestyle and fall in love with her instead of me. You deserve someone who can be with you now instead of 10yrs from now and you need someone ready to settle down and live with you. I am not her. I am not your soul mate or your "perfect woman" but she is out there. so dont waste your time crying over a girl like me and FIND her! I wish you the best and i am sorry i am not the right woman for you.
Im destined to go one way and be what i was meant to be and youre destined to stay where you are the way you have for years. Please dont dwell on it, theres no point. No amount of tears or sleepless nights will redirect my path down south to you. Besides we're worlds appart on beliefs and needs.
You need someone who will settle down and be content with a normal domestic life and who wont worry about your salvation and i need someone who will move around and be as wild and unpredictable as i am and who wont find my beliefs impossible and unrealistic.
Maybe i can settle down and stay put one day but not until all my dreams are fullfilled and all my degrees are earned. Im bound for college after college until ive had the best schooling in each one of my degrees. All we'd do is hold eachother back and waste eachothers time. Life is too short for wasted time. I have too many dreams and ambitions to waste a single second.
Find someone more compatable with you and your lifestyle and fall in love with her instead of me. You deserve someone who can be with you now instead of 10yrs from now and you need someone ready to settle down and live with you. I am not her. I am not your soul mate or your "perfect woman" but she is out there. so dont waste your time crying over a girl like me and FIND her! I wish you the best and i am sorry i am not the right woman for you.
him
I know you are right, Ariell. Turning loose is just hard when you are in love. I wish you great success.
me
Well its time to let go of your love for me. All its doing is holding you back and making you miserable. if you want to find the one meant for you then you have to let go of your feelings for me. act like i never happened, i never came into your life. I was never your "angel" or your "mermaid" im just another girl in a sea of people. Sorry to say it but its time to forget, for both of us.
How will you ever be happy again or find love again if youre holding on to my memory and your love for me. Thats like trying to swim without moving your arms or legs! It doesnt happen!
him
~ sigh ~
me
you once told me sighing doesnt fix anything :p
I'm serious, Tom. What good is this doing? How is this helping in ANY way?
you once told me sighing doesnt fix anything :p
I'm serious, Tom. What good is this doing? How is this helping in ANY way?
Top Opinion
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The River Rat 2012/07/17 07:51:12Undecided+3He won't be miserable. He knows what a really special girl you are and has always appreciated that. He still does. He has nothing but respect and love for you. He wishes you the best in everything you do. How do I know? I'm Tom.




















I agree. I think being blunt and honest is the best and most effective way of ending things properly. I believe you managed it well :)