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Is sexual pleasure a sin?

classic 2012/06/07 19:29:24
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It's hard to say what is weirder:


A Sister of Mercy writing about the Kama Sutra, sexual desire and "our yearnings for pleasure."


Or the Vatican getting so hot and bothered about the academic treatise on sexuality that the pope censures it, causing it to shoot from obscurity to the top tier of Amazon.com's bestseller list six years after it was published.


Just the latest chapter in the Vatican's thuggish crusade to push U.S. nuns — and all Catholic women — back into moldy subservience.


Even for a church that moves glacially, this was classic. Just Love: A Framework for Christian Sexual Ethics, by Sister Margaret Farley — a 77-year-old professor emeritus at Yale's Divinity School, a past president of the Catholic Theological Society of America and an award-winning scholar — came out in 2006.


Sister Margaret Farley, 77, who taught Christian ethics at the Yale Divinity School, is the author of Just Love: A Framework for Christian Sexual Ethics. The Vatican responded to the book by proclaiming that “the deliberate use of the sexual facility” outside of marriage or procreation, or on one’s own, is wrong.







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  • The Elitist Libtard SodaJerk 2012/06/07 19:38:57
    Sex without marriage is normal and fun....
    The Elitist Libtard SodaJerk
    +3
    Personally I think Not having sex before marriage could be damaging to a relationship. If someone isn't satisfied sexually in a relationship, they cheat, and that ruins marriages. I think it's foolish to cross your fingers and hope your desires will be filled.

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  • TheEbonyAphrodite 2012/09/12 01:06:18
    Is sexual pleasure outside of marriage a sin?
    TheEbonyAphrodite
    Well, I never slept with anyone, but I'd probably wait until marriage....
    I won't even get married probably because i'm not....desirable. Nothing special about me. So I'll stick with fantasies, that'll never happen.
    "Loner"
  • mas 2012/06/09 11:31:37
    Sex without marriage is normal and fun....
    mas
    do ya buy a car without a test drive?
  • Charmaine 2012/06/08 23:26:23
    Is sexual pleasure outside of marriage a sin?
    Charmaine
    +1
    Sex before marriage is a sin, sexual pleasure within a loving marriage is fine!!! Casual sex when not married is a sin, sexual pleasure outside of a married relatioonship is a sin!!!

    WHAT IS YOUR POINT WIHT THIS BIASED QUESTION AND BIASED ANSWER CHOICES???
  • classic Charmaine 2012/09/12 12:04:31
    classic
    It is a sin, because some old dude that couldnt get it up said so , and then wrote it in a book... LMAO......
  • mandyinabox 2012/06/08 10:52:11
    Is the Catholic Church sexually repressive?
    mandyinabox
    The Catholic Church is sexually repressive. If it is wrong to experience sexual pleasure unless you're married/about to have kids, many may be desperate enough to go through this that they make a quick decision on these matters and later regret the impulse. Feeling inhibited in this way seems like a choice between torture, guilt or the worst midlife crisis imaginable.
    regret impulse feeling inhibited choice torture guilt midlife crisis imaginable
  • Charmaine mandyin... 2012/06/08 23:27:45
    Charmaine
    The Catholic Church is not sexually reppressive, you are just a slut!!! The CAtholic Church as well a any functioning Christina church follows the bibles teachings which states tha sex before marriage is A SIN no matter how much you decide to stretch your vagina before tha happens!!!
  • classic Charmaine 2012/06/09 13:09:28
    classic
    Hey! ding dong, you have no clue what I am,., you are a typical religious Jerk.. The article is about a NUN that agrees with Sex....I bet you never had any...and you are frustrated......
  • Charmaine classic 2012/06/09 15:18:20
    Charmaine
    Yeah that Nun does agree with sex, but not outside of marriage and you should know that out of all things the church holds dear to their beliefs. Priests, Nuns, Monks (if they still exist) see sex as a beautiful bond that brings a married couple closer together; but they themselves are not and should not be having sex. So the Nun was in her authority to write the book, she wrote it from a religious point of view so it counts you out from reading it!!! And I know what I am talking about so much for your religious jerk argument because it is illogical to the point!!!
  • classic Charmaine 2012/06/09 16:22:13 (edited)
    classic
    The sexually repressed,, Nuns, Priests, and other religious nuts, dont want anyone to do something they cant.....This lady is saying it is a natural act... So much for your reading skills..
  • Charmaine classic 2012/06/09 16:58:15
    Charmaine
    It is a natural act and I never said it was not, so STOP THROWING WORDS IN MY ARGUMENTS THAT I NEVER SAID TO MAKE YOUR LIES LOOK BETTER!!! It is an act meant to be performed between two married persons!!! THAT IS IT!!! Now you goand do what you want and I do as I please...kay??? OKAY!!!
  • classic Charmaine 2012/06/09 17:17:09
    classic
    Who said sex should be an act between Married people.. What did people do before the religous zealots got ahold of things????

    Get some logic... and get your nose out of the bible and face reality....
  • Charmaine classic 2012/06/09 17:25:23
    Charmaine
    Logic is individually determined and reality is not always living for truth it is called doing what you want out of free will and just because the majority of America is a slutland does not mean I have to participate. And God said that sex should be an act shared between married people (the scriptures I posted above, you can interpret them the way you want to to not that you can anyway since you fail to understand anything about the bible and its content) not two STUPID hopeless romantic zealots who have the possibility of conceiving illegitimate children. Snce you are so hung up on the issue why don't go to a whore house or better yet go get laid by your girlfriend, wief, neighbor, or stranger!!! JEEZ!!!
  • Bingo's Faddah 2012/06/07 21:57:47 (edited)
    Sex without marriage is normal and fun....
    Bingo's Faddah
    +1
    Sexual pleasure is part of God's plan. That's why "lower" life forms like it too.

  • Charmaine Bingo's... 2012/06/08 23:28:18
    Charmaine
    If is within marriage it is God's plan, outside of marriaeg it is not Godly and it is unclean!!!
  • classic Charmaine 2012/06/09 13:10:53
    classic
    Who said so??? Some fairy tale book written by savage superstitious goatherders 2600 years ago,, Just because they were unable to get a woman ... LMAO
  • TheEbon... classic 2012/09/12 01:02:04
    TheEbonyAphrodite
    No need to diss anyones belief.
  • Bingo's... Charmaine 2012/06/09 15:44:21
    Bingo's Faddah
    Sorry, but the institution of marriage is anything but divine. It was created to "legitimatize" keeping women as possessions.
  • classic Bingo's... 2012/06/09 17:19:18
    classic
    The religious zealots will not have it anyother way,,, Marriage or Unions that bound a woman to a man was a little bit of insurance that his heirs were his..Nothing about religion or what some imaginary god thought....Marriage was a sign of ownership....Period
  • Bingo's... classic 2012/06/10 11:47:09
    Bingo's Faddah
    Oh; we agree. But Charmaine doesn't understand the way things were!

    the way we were
  • classic Bingo's... 2012/06/09 17:29:18
  • Darth Vader.BN-0 2012/06/07 21:13:54
    Is sexual pleasure outside of marriage a sin?
    Darth Vader.BN-0
    +1
    In my opinion, yes.
  • Charmaine Darth V... 2012/06/08 23:28:39
    Charmaine
    +1
    nice that you see things the way I do
  • tatiana. 2012/06/07 20:55:17
    Sex without marriage is normal and fun....
    tatiana.
    +1
    I am still a virgin but I do believe that it doesn't matter if your married or not. What if you love eachother and are not married? Or what if you just love the connection and attraction you get during sex?
  • mandyin... tatiana. 2012/06/08 10:44:21
    mandyinabox
    I agree. In my opinion, marriage is really just ceremonial, it doesn't "magically" glue two lovers together but is a way to officially recognize their love and commitment to eachother.
  • classic mandyin... 2012/06/08 14:20:23
    classic
    Marriage was started as a way of "Sort of " insurance for a man that would garentee his heirs were really his......Kinda like,..,"I own her, and her kids are mine......

    For example, if it was the norm within the group that men and women were responsible for feeding and caring for their own children. Then laws were created that gave men some assurance that the children they were raising were their own and women some assurance that their husband would not leave them all destitute.
  • mandyin... classic 2012/06/08 14:26:23
    mandyinabox
    Ok, cool. Thanx :)
  • Charmaine mandyin... 2012/06/08 23:29:42
    Charmaine
    Marriage is a glue that makes two people one, the same way sex connects two people into one form!!! God designed it therefore whatever he says is law to me. No way I am gonna invite some loser into my bed who has been with loads of women, VERY SICK!!!
  • Charmaine tatiana. 2012/06/08 23:30:40
    Charmaine
    I am a virgin too and it does whter you are married or not!!! Your sexula connection without marriage is not recognized by God and is unclean!!! Within a marriaeg it is beautiful and unsluttified!!!
  • classic Charmaine 2012/06/09 17:20:23
    classic
    Whats the mater cant you get a man????
  • rand 2012/06/07 20:40:46
    Is the Catholic Church sexually repressive?
    rand
    +1
    Yes, they're repressive. Sin is doing pointless harm to self or others, a legal definition of insanity. Sexual pleasure is just another of God's gifts.
  • Charmaine rand 2012/06/08 23:31:09
    Charmaine
    Sexual pleasure is another of God's gifts meant to be shared with MARRIED COUPLES ONLY!!!
  • Charmaine Charmaine 2012/06/08 23:31:31
    Charmaine
    my bible says that!!! And no I AM NOT PERFECT!!!
  • classic Charmaine 2012/06/09 13:13:17 (edited)
    classic
    And you believe what a bunch of supersttitious men wrote?? The Bible was written by MEN.. Not some ficticious god....
  • Charmaine classic 2012/06/09 15:19:31
    Charmaine
    You are right!!! That is the only truth you can recall about the Church. Yoou should also know that what was put in the Bible was told to the by God, who in my heart is very real to me...so BUMP BUMP!!!
  • classic Charmaine 2012/06/09 17:21:28
    classic
    OH! Jeeez,, God actually spoke to people,, how freaking gullibe can one get.....???You need help
  • classic classic 2012/06/09 17:31:20
    classic
    Damn this one is whupped and super Delusional... She needs to get laid....But I doubt she can find someon to do the job.....LMAO
  • rand Charmaine 2012/06/08 23:46:03
    rand
    I'm a philosophic Christian; do you have a quote from the Bible by Jesus that agrees with your stance? I've no interest in the Old Testament since it's irreconcilable with the New.
  • Charmaine rand 2012/06/09 01:16:03 (edited)
    Charmaine
    It's ireconcilabe by the New??? I am pretty sure the Bible is flawless given that God, the omnipotent, created its content, the fact you would mention that it has flaws it UNCHRISTIAN!!! But I will gladly find a scriptures for you!!!

    What people fail to realize is that you can't be a Christian and bend God's law as you see fit so that they fit your standards of living!!!

    1st Corinthians 7:2- But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband.

    2nd Corinthians 12:21-I fear that when I come again my God may humble me before you, and I may have to mourn over many of those who sinned earlier and have not repented of the impurity, sexual immorality, and sensuality that they have practiced.

    1st Corinthians 7:8-9 – Now to the unmarried and the widows I say: It is good for them to stay unmarried, as I am. But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with passion.

    1 Thessalonians 4:3-6 – It is God’s will that you should avoid sexual immorality; that each of you should learn to control his own body in a way that is holy and honorable, not in passionate lust like the heathen, who do not know God; and that in this matter no one should wrong his brother or take advantage of him.

    H...

    It's ireconcilabe by the New??? I am pretty sure the Bible is flawless given that God, the omnipotent, created its content, the fact you would mention that it has flaws it UNCHRISTIAN!!! But I will gladly find a scriptures for you!!!

    What people fail to realize is that you can't be a Christian and bend God's law as you see fit so that they fit your standards of living!!!

    1st Corinthians 7:2- But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband.

    2nd Corinthians 12:21-I fear that when I come again my God may humble me before you, and I may have to mourn over many of those who sinned earlier and have not repented of the impurity, sexual immorality, and sensuality that they have practiced.

    1st Corinthians 7:8-9 – Now to the unmarried and the widows I say: It is good for them to stay unmarried, as I am. But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with passion.

    1 Thessalonians 4:3-6 – It is God’s will that you should avoid sexual immorality; that each of you should learn to control his own body in a way that is holy and honorable, not in passionate lust like the heathen, who do not know God; and that in this matter no one should wrong his brother or take advantage of him.

    Hebrews 13:4 – Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral.

    THERE YOU GO!!! My point proven!!!
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  • Radical Ed Charmaine 2012/06/09 07:06:44
    Radical Ed
    my penis disagrees with your statement.
  • Charmaine Radical Ed 2012/06/09 08:05:33
    Charmaine
    I could care less!!! Your penis also disagrees with that mesh within your skull called a brain!!! There is a reason this is an OPINION section!!!

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