Is Love Nothing More Than Sex, Pain And Misery?

It always depends on the person :)

Love can suffer misery, never cause it.

Love can endure pain, never inflict it.

Love can be even where sex isn't.


If you will want to know what love is, then know that "Love is patient and kind; love is not jealous or boastful; it is not arrogant or rude. Love does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrong, but rejoices in the right. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends..." for love is of God, for God is love, eternal. (Incidently, love is not God.)


And, of love are the most beautiful of emotions, the strongest of bonds, the profoundest of sentiments. Love brings commitment to relationships. Love will honour the loved one. Love will respect the absolutes of the order of things as ordainied of God. Love will have sex only in the right context—marriage, never outside of it. Love will not marry for sex: sex happens when love celebrates the marriage, for sex brings two people in love into deep communion with each other and deepens their love.


If there is pain in a marriage, love will seek to remove the cause of it. Where love is misery cannot be. Love creates happiness. God bless you all.

It's sharing everything, not only the good stuff.

if it's real it's unconditional and forever

love is about appreciating one another (between boys and girls....parents and children)

WELL IT'S USUALLY EQUAL PAIN AND PLEASURE BUT THE ORGASM OF EMOTION FROM BEING IN LOVE OUTWEIGHS BOTH AND MAKES YOU SLAM THE BUTTON OVER AND OVER WHETHER IT KILLS YA OR NOT I GUESS DEPENDS ON YOU SEXUAL ENDURANCE.

your caps lock is on, numbnuts.

Only with a liberal.

sex and pain go hand in hand with pleasure.

as for misery? well, i've only had one relationship where i was miserable

and my current relationship is as perfect as a relationship can get.

If it's only that to you then you are not with the right person. Pain comes with love you will always have your ups and downs. But if it's always down then your not in the right relationship and it's unrealistic to always be up. You should also be happy and feel like you can tell that person anything. Sex isn't love its only an action that people do when they are in love, but alot of people do it without the love so it isn't an act of love, love just can cause the act.

You are absolutely right, but very few people realise or appreciate this. May God bless you.

maybe ... maybe it is just lust undercovered .

Nope. The problem is that what people consider to be "love" is really "lust." Love is what a woman has for her child. Love is sacrifice. Love is selflessness. Love is commitment and loyalty. Love is riding out the storm with someone even when times are tough. Love is being there for someone when no else will be. Most people think they're in love, but they're really only with that person for what they can receive. If the person makes them feel good, they say, "I'm in love." However, when things get rough, they're ready to quit the relationship. That's not love if you ask me. There's no compromise at all.

My thoughts EXACT!

you left out exstacey which is why we take a chance on love in the first place

well it can be

Only for those that make it that way and are full of drama.I am happily married so have no concept on that.

Sounds like it's not something you need to attempt at this time. Love is the exact opposite of what you think it is. Until you know how to, don't try it.

but its not a piece of cake like all else you have to work at it

I dont know any of those yet