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Is it wrong to look at other women,men if you are in a relationship?

meatpuppet 2009/07/09 04:56:12
Yes,it is hella wrong,here's why!
No,it's groovy,here's why!
I don't know!
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Like just checkin em out,not like purvy leering.
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  • brittany edwards 2011/07/27 16:59:49
    Yes,it is hella wrong,here's why!
    brittany edwards
    Okay, i'll be the only one to say it i suppose, and for that matter, one of the rare percentage who disagrees with these comments. First, it is wrong because if you are with that person, you are withhh that person. Looking is a form of curiousity, i get that. However, if you are with someone you shouldn't belong to anyone else. I also want to say that if a guy or girl masterbates to someone else while in a relationship is bad alos because you are sexually thinking about that person, while you are with someone else, which is a form of cheating. Me and my boyfrien both agree to this. He doesn't look at other girls, i know you must think this is crap, but after having been with him for over a year, it is true. He is totally opposite of your typical guy. He doesn't even look at other girls like that at all, or fantasize. He never even looked at any girls like that until i came along. Trust me, it was very hard for me to believe this, sometimes even still toay. But, it is true. And, i believe all guys and girls should be like this. (:
  • brittan... brittan... 2011/07/27 17:01:40
    brittany edwards
    +3
    Yeah, and sorry about a few "d's" missing from my sentences, it's my computerr. :P
  • Mr. Penguin•the guy you've ... 2009/08/13 12:37:16
    No,it's groovy,here's why!
    Mr. Penguin•the guy you've been waiting for•
    +1
    this is in quotes of my gf "you can look all you want. Just don't touch," I go " thankss," don't despise me she said it
  • meatpuppet Mr. Pen... 2009/08/13 12:48:30
    meatpuppet
    nuthin wrong with that,why would i despise you dude?I'm so sprung offa my broad i seldom bother lookin!Totaly whipped i kno!lol thatwhy despise dudeim sprung offa broad bother lookintotaly whipped knolol
  • Mr. Pen... meatpuppet 2009/08/13 18:58:28
  • concerned 2009/08/06 00:42:35
    No,it's groovy,here's why!
    concerned
    +1
    The lord did not remove his eyes .. just because he got into a realationship ..
  • meatpuppet concerned 2009/08/14 10:57:59
  • BlondieBrownEyes 2009/08/06 00:37:57
  • meatpuppet Blondie... 2009/08/14 10:57:49
    meatpuppet
    +1
    I agree
  • deleted 404 2009/08/04 18:43:19
    I don't know!
    deleted 404
    +2
    Appreciating 'parts' from afar isn't too terrible as long as it's within reason... (no outright ogling)

    Up close and personal?? yeah, it's DEFINATELY a problem.. There is no excuse or forgiveness for straying- *period!!* (my opinion-- don't know if that helps)
  • meatpuppet deleted... 2009/08/05 08:53:34
    meatpuppet
    i think your right,we can't help but look a little,but bein a jerky perv,is bein a jerky perv. rightwe littlebut bein jerky pervis bein jerky perv
  • America... deleted... 2009/08/05 12:26:58
    American Cowgirl @ Heart
    +1
    LQQking is just what the Doctor Ordered ,,LOL It cures the Pain!!!
    I love lQQking at them Texas Cowboys wooohooo!!! BFF!!!
    ordered lol cures pain love lqqking texas cowboys wooohooo bff
  • meatpuppet America... 2009/08/14 10:58:44
    meatpuppet
    Allrighty
  • karamel 2009/07/10 02:38:19
    No,it's groovy,here's why!
    karamel
    +1
    my motto is "look but don't touch" hell i know I'm gonna look if a hot guy walks by.
  • America... karamel 2009/08/05 12:21:55
    American Cowgirl @ Heart
    +2
    Its healthy to LQQk when it is there walking by ya or in a picture!!
    healthy lqqk walking ya picture
  • karamel America... 2009/08/06 00:22:36
    karamel
    LOL
  • meatpuppet America... 2009/08/14 10:59:56
    meatpuppet
    I guess you are correct madam! guess correct madam
  • Lee The Hybrid Snowflake 2009/07/10 02:27:40
    No,it's groovy,here's why!
    Lee The Hybrid Snowflake
    +1
    I'm married, not dead!
  • KissKiss 2009/07/09 22:21:51
    No,it's groovy,here's why!
    KissKiss
    +1
    if his going to look then so am i plus its fun to look noits groovyheres fun
  • Arowolf 2009/07/09 20:21:29
    No,it's groovy,here's why!
    Arowolf
    as long as it does not go past that when Im there I dont mind... my husband and I look at girls together all of the time...
    I have given him the OK to have sex with any women ASLONG as he does not get into a relation ship with her or get her pregante of get an STD but I dont want to hear or meet her either... Its a secret. and its to be kept that way.
    I have also given him the ok for a three some

    both options he has turned down and said NO to... weird huh?

    but just looking is not cheating. unless you act on it.
  • medarlin~xanax goddess~ 2009/07/09 20:04:55
    No,it's groovy,here's why!
    medarlin~xanax goddess~
    +1
    If he wasn't checking out the boobs, I'd have to check him for a pulse! But he still loves mine the most!
  • Marlow ~ Let There Be Light 2009/07/09 20:02:20
    No,it's groovy,here's why!
    Marlow ~ Let There Be Light
    No way. I may prohibit myself from other than my wife, but i can't stop myself from looking. What's the harm?

    Now how could i not look at those breasts? :)

    noits groovyheres prohibit wife harm breasts
  • Nick~believe ^MOTOOP^ 2009/07/09 18:52:33
    I don't know!
    Nick~believe ^MOTOOP^
    +1
    I don't think there's any harm in enjoying the scenery as long as you don't linger too long in any one place... and look but don't touch...
  • Dave**Gay for Girls** 2009/07/09 18:46:03
  • alonnastorm 2009/07/09 18:37:47
    No,it's groovy,here's why!
    alonnastorm
    +1
    I think its pretty normal.. as long as you don't act!
  • American Cowgirl @ Heart 2009/07/09 18:29:08
    I don't know!
    American Cowgirl @ Heart
    +2
    Honestly it depends alot on the relatonship you are in that you would consider looking,,,with this day an time and the ecomomy it can make it hard on a relationship so then you think that you have a need to look at someone else,,,its ok!! as long as you are not married,but if you have a longtime relationship and it is getting boring then you need to look for comfort that you dont get at home!!
    I hope this can be of some help...have a good day!!!
  • foxytia1 America... 2009/08/04 16:38:11
    foxytia1
    +3
    You must be single.. they "need" to look for comfort they don't get at home?
  • America... foxytia1 2009/08/04 18:31:34 (edited)
    American Cowgirl @ Heart
    +1
    No im not single my friend,, i have a life and lots of love with my husband ,,
    <-------Im a Spoiled Wife !!! There is No law against Looking!! friend life lots love husband spoiled wife law
  • meatpuppet America... 2009/08/05 08:56:33
    meatpuppet
    +1
    You tell em sister,i love my wife,i tell her to look if she wants,but she only wants me,am i lucky or what? em sisteri love wifei wantsbut meam lucky
  • Eddie 2009/07/09 18:14:11
    Yes,it is hella wrong,here's why!
    Eddie
    +1
    But only if your girl catches you doing it. Otherwise no problems.
  • Tex 2009/07/09 17:46:03
    No,it's groovy,here's why!
    Tex
    +2
    You can look, just dont touch. lol
  • CeeCee47 2009/07/09 17:33:08
    No,it's groovy,here's why!
    CeeCee47
    +2
    They can

    noits groovyheres
  • Catlover 2009/07/09 15:34:18
    I don't know!
    Catlover
    +3
    My husband looks occasionally, as do I - so what! there are gorgeous people in this world and they are to be admired
  • Nikki 2009/07/09 12:54:45
    No,it's groovy,here's why!
    Nikki
    its not wrong as long as your not being obvious in front of your significant other! try not to stare unless you are alone or with friends not with him/her otherwise the other will get jelous almost 90% of the time noits groovyheres wrong obvious significant stare friends himher jelous 90
  • 1019803 2009/07/09 06:58:55 (edited)
    I don't know!
    1019803
    +5
    Look but don't ogle. Don't be a creep about it.
  • ShutUpAndThink 2009/07/09 06:56:24
    No,it's groovy,here's why!
    ShutUpAndThink
    +3
    hmmmm......lets say this......if you say that you don't....you lying.....I think it is rude to look at other women in front of your wife/ gf.......I think it makes them feel bad......but not wrong under the blanket relationship clause

    Hormones don't turn off because you have a significant other.....just don't be a D!ck about it
  • Eddie Rae 2009/07/09 06:44:25
    I don't know!
    Eddie Rae
    +3
    I don't honestly check anyone out. I am happy in my relationship but I can appreciate a woman or man's attractiveness. It's everywhere, hard not to notice.
  • ShutUpA... Eddie Rae 2009/07/09 06:58:23
  • meatpuppet Eddie Rae 2009/07/10 09:30:19
    meatpuppet
    +1
    Thank you bubbie,i'm so stuck on my wife,i honestly hardly notice anyone else,and thats tha truth. bubbieim stuck wifei honestly notice elseand tha truth
  • foxytia1 meatpuppet 2009/08/04 16:40:35
    foxytia1
    +2
    @ Eddie and Meatpuppet..best answer iv'e read

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