Is it wrong to dislike/hate your siblings?

Faariha 2011/01/11 22:37:10
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  • FreeDumb 2011/01/12 02:03:33
    I guess it depends on their actions/attitude, if somebody is impossible to deal with it might be best to keep your distance, at least for awhile I don't hate any of my siblings, but there are many things that I dislike about them...and I'm sure the feeling is mutual...no big deal.

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  • Etherian9 2014/05/03 19:00:33
    Lots of people say I'm a monster but if you have good reason not to then there's definitely nothing wrong about it.
  • whogivesA 2013/04/18 23:36:04
    I really DO NOT like my older brother. he has a temper, and I feel that he can be abusive one day; he's 25 years old and still lives with mom like wtf grow up- i swear she babies him -.- I'm 19 . sometimes i wish he was either in the hospital or some place else.
  • Bothergirl 2011/02/24 22:25:30
    I can't stand my selfish sister. I feel guilty about it but she consistently give excuses for doing hurtful things to me. I've traveled thousands of miles to visit her when she has asked and when I ask her to do the same for me she says no. She uses her kids and husband as an excuse but her kids are 19 and 21 yrs old. I finally broke it off with her. and I am very happy. Just because a person is born to the same parents does not automatically make them you buddy. If she needs me I will be there but thats it.
  • Amen Bothergirl 2014/11/21 21:21:49
    I feel the same way about my two sisters. I am ready to cut them off as soon as my mother passes away. It's some what comforting to know there are other people that feel the same. Still it hurts to have my two sisters treat me like I don't count.
  • Dixienc 2011/01/21 16:41:05
    I love my brother beyond measure.....I don't like him much at all though.
  • SkyGurl1 2011/01/13 17:59:42
    i think so.. unless your siblings are out to get you then keep an eye out siblings eye
  • ♥ chαmα (((G)))™ (IMPERIAL GANGSTER ckrαzє, 197 ♥) ♥
    that there always nosy and want to know who my man is.
    and there kkinda too protected him when it komes wit me going out wit a nikka.
  • Billie bear ~ Ƭɦɾɩɭɭ Ƙɾɘɰ ~
    Nope. I absolutely resent my brother and when he dies I'm going to wear red to his funeral and throw a party afterward.
  • Answeri... Billie ... 2011/01/14 19:36:14
    Answering ur questions
    is that not going a taad bit tooo far??
    i dont particualarily like my brother either like but i wouldnt throw a party if he died//....
  • Billie ... Answeri... 2011/01/14 21:50:34
    Billie bear ~ Ƭɦɾɩɭɭ Ƙɾɘɰ ~
    You don't know my situation with him. Thus it isn't going far at all. He's abusive and I absolutely hate him.
  • Etherian9 Billie ... 2014/05/03 18:44:15 (edited)
    It's the same with me and my sister, she is despicable and I'd be super happy to see here gone and outta my hair for the rest of my life :)
  • dragon warrior 2011/01/12 22:21:49
    dragon warrior
    You shouldn't hate anyone, but there's no law that says you have to like them.
  • FoxyLady 2011/01/12 20:09:55
    its ok to dislike...not hate
  • Damaris 2011/01/12 18:41:49
  • Tibby 2011/01/12 17:54:45
  • BK 2011/01/12 13:17:09
    Dislike is one thing, hate is another. You can very easily not get along with siblings, most of us have had times where we really didn't want to be around them for one reason or another, but unless there's a really compelling reason, some heinous wrong that can't be undone, I'd say it's wrong to hate your siblings.
  • Frank 2011/01/12 12:24:21
    I don't know if it is wrong- some people earn disdain. I do think hatred is unhealthy. But I have always driven home to my children that we are a family, and that there may be times in their lives where all they have are their siblings.

    I would feel terrible, like a failure as a parent if my kids hated each other. Because you love your children desperately and hatred between them would tear you apart.
  • Metalthatroxursox 2011/01/12 06:07:00
    I hope not cuz i do lol
  • FoxFairy 2011/01/12 05:53:31
    Hey, I have tried to get along with them...and my oldest brother is very nice, but well to be honest I am not sure why people feel it is required to get along with them...we didn't have any choice in the matter. Siblings are basically peers life throws at you, in my case when I was born the three of them were already there, and for the most part they spent my life judging me. Why do I HAVE TO like them, why not just try to get along with them for my parent's sake?
  • turtledove123 2011/01/12 05:22:56
    I think that you may not care for the things they do, but you need to still care for them as people. In other words, you can love someone and not like them very much. Just because they are your sibling, does not mean that you have to enable behavior that you do not agree with. Tell them about it.
  • Mark 2011/01/12 03:57:34
  • leahboo! 2011/01/12 03:21:33
    No one truely hates their sibling. They always love them even if they aren't very fond of the at that moment.
  • Etherian9 leahboo! 2014/05/03 18:48:36 (edited)
    Well, that's what I used to think 7 years ago but having a pest as a sister ever since you were 2 can take it's total. I don't care how wrong it is I hate my sister.
  • littlebuffalo55TBA 2011/01/12 02:06:22
    Depends on what they have done? Does not bode well for the story & message of the prodigal son. I am lucky as I love my Bro very much! He's a very good man by my standards!

    But there has to be situations where siblings have abused or destroyed the love of family!
  • FreeDumb 2011/01/12 02:03:33
    I guess it depends on their actions/attitude, if somebody is impossible to deal with it might be best to keep your distance, at least for awhile I don't hate any of my siblings, but there are many things that I dislike about them...and I'm sure the feeling is mutual...no big deal.
  • Melizmatic 2011/01/12 00:57:14
    If it is, then I'm guilty...

    I can't stand my older sister, and neither can my brother.
  • littleb... Melizmatic 2011/01/12 02:03:49
    Is she cute? ;-P
  • Melizmatic littleb... 2011/01/12 03:25:43
    She used to be quite attractive, once upon a time.

    Now after years of hard living, drinking, some drug usage and a total lack of a healthy lifestyle, she looks like someone rode her hard, and put her away wet.

    Why; looking for a date?
  • littleb... Melizmatic 2011/01/12 07:36:30
    It was a bad joke!It was silly of me!
  • Melizmatic littleb... 2011/01/12 16:28:23
  • Chelle G 2011/01/12 00:50:50
  • Fran-Halen 2011/01/12 00:27:32
  • wandering mystery aka Relch... 2011/01/11 23:42:25
    wandering mystery aka Relcho of Anid
    No, I dislike all my siblings
  • Zero Harte~King of Nothing~ 2011/01/11 23:37:34
    Zero Harte~King of Nothing~
    Not in the least.
  • Doreen 2011/01/11 23:05:14
    Dislike no. Hate yes.
  • ♥ Emily the "Cutie Banana P... 2011/01/11 22:40:46
    ♥ Emily the "Cutie Banana Pie" ♥
    You may dislike/hate them now, but wait until you're all adults.
  • Melizmatic ♥ Emily... 2011/01/12 00:58:06
    Not necessarily.

    I'm an adult, and I still cant stand my sister.
  • ♥ Emily... Melizmatic 2011/01/12 02:56:36
    ♥ Emily the "Cutie Banana Pie" ♥
    There's exceptions.
    Depends on how you grow up, and why you hate/dislike them.

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