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Is it racist or xenophobic to have a preference on what kind of women one enjoys looking at?

dyhorwitz 2012/07/12 05:02:14
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  • Vision of Verve 2012/07/14 17:06:41
  • Charmaine 2012/07/13 02:10:37
    nope
    Charmaine
    It is called preferences!!!
  • John Duffee 2012/07/12 20:14:06
    nope
    John Duffee
    Not in a way that could be frowned upon, anyway.
  • AndyBoy 2012/07/12 17:37:42
    nope
    AndyBoy
    It's human nature to have a preference.
  • Melizmatic 2012/07/12 16:07:07
    Undecided
    Melizmatic
    "Xenophobic?"

    Um....


    That's the irrational fear of strangers; I don't know what that has to do with anyone's personal preferences.

    As to rest of this dubious question;

    People all have their own ideas about what's attractive, and that's fine.

    "Racism" has nothing to do with what appeals to one sexually, and everything to with actively seeking to oppress, denigrate and exploit an entire group of people based solely on an erroneous belief in one's superiority to that group.
  • Mr.Steve 2012/07/12 12:12:20
  • Katherine 2012/07/12 08:02:55
    nope
    Katherine
    Oh please don't play into fearmongering. It's just personal taste.
  • aneed2know 2012/07/12 07:38:54
    nope
    aneed2know
    +2
    but to be honest i think men will look at anything and screw just about anything.
  • Scream 2012/07/12 07:13:02
    nope
    Scream
    +1
    It's just a preference. I'm more attracted to dark-haired people. Doesn't mean I'm blondephobic, if that's even the word for it.
  • Melizmatic Scream 2012/07/12 16:02:13
    Melizmatic
    *lolz @ "blondephobic"
  • L1 2012/07/12 07:00:36
    nope
    L1
    +1
    I don't think so. As a woman, I also have my own taste in men that I prefer too.
    I love handsome Asian men! handsome Asian man handsome Asian man handsome Asian man
  • sockpuppet 2012/07/12 05:14:13
    nope
    sockpuppet
    +2
    It's a matter of taste. Anybody who rails you for something like that has a screw loose.
  • lorenab. 2012/07/12 05:12:54
    explain xenophobic
    lorenab.
    +1
    haha!! yeah i dont know what that means but its not rascist! i mean you're gonna like who you like.... so what if you dont really care for a particular race of women. thats personal preference not rascism.:)
  • dyhorwitz lorenab. 2012/07/12 05:15:57
    dyhorwitz
    +1
    Xenophobic means hatred or fear of strangers, or "foreign" cultures or people
  • lorenab. dyhorwitz 2012/07/12 05:20:34
    lorenab.
    +1
    oh. then i would deffinitely say neither. i mean are you afraid of the women you dont like? haha :)
  • dyhorwitz lorenab. 2012/07/12 05:21:58
    dyhorwitz
    +1
    I never thought of it THAT way.
  • lorenab. dyhorwitz 2012/07/12 05:23:22
    lorenab.
    +1
    haha!!:D oh well... :)
  • dyhorwitz 2012/07/12 05:04:30 (edited)
    Undecided
    dyhorwitz
    +1
    unless those are the only types of women he enjoys looking at, then it is not racist
  • Marlene Wilkins 2012/07/12 05:04:06
    nope
    Marlene Wilkins
    One likes what one likes.
  • dyhorwitz Marlene... 2012/07/12 05:11:14
    dyhorwitz
    +1
    very true Monique Moore Rika Aiuchi
  • Marlene... dyhorwitz 2012/07/12 05:15:44
    Marlene Wilkins
    It's pics like such that make me glad I'm Bisexual. :-D
  • sockpuppet Marlene... 2012/07/12 05:25:22
    sockpuppet
    +1
    ...like everyone else in your generation. XD
  • Marlene... sockpuppet 2012/07/12 05:34:44
    Marlene Wilkins
    +1
    Aside from Brianna, and a Lesbian girlbuddy, all the rest of my girlbuddies are straight. LOL
    Law of Inverse Averages I guess.
  • sockpuppet Marlene... 2012/07/12 05:48:32
    sockpuppet
    +1
    Yikes... Mathematics! :O -

    Seriously, though-- doesn't it seem like everyone under 30 says they're 'bi' on any online profile? I'd develop a theory about this if I weren't so darned apathetic. :O)
  • Marlene... sockpuppet 2012/07/12 06:02:42
    Marlene Wilkins
    +1
    Inverse mathematics. LOL :-D

    True, very true about the profile question. It seems to be 'trendy' I guess to be Bi.
    Me, I just am, no big deal any more than the fact that I'm brunette and wear glasses.

    I always kinda wondered about myself, and in high school there were some VERY minor incidents.
    Then Brianna insinuated her delightful self into our lives and one night it just--well, it was like something switched-on inside my head, and I went for it.
    I liked it, she loved it--she's been self-acceptingly Bisexual since 14--and I didn't look back.
    Husband's happy because it seems to have opened up a new level of confidence in me thet he likes seeing.
    I like it because now I KNOW, question answered, mystery solved and no more 'wondering'. :-D
  • sockpuppet Marlene... 2012/07/12 06:14:49
    sockpuppet
    +1
    I could never criticize something like that. Kind of interesting, how people experience such things differently, though. Never been curious, myself-- but I've apparently had a thing about serial monogamy. Never married or spawned, of course. Prolly just too self-centered to commit for more than a few months at a time.

    Maybe... some day. :O\
  • Marlene... sockpuppet 2012/07/12 06:21:21
    Marlene Wilkins
    +1
    Exactly, maybe, someday, when You decide it's right--it's your life and you have every right to live it Your way. :-)
    I suspect, like hubby, that I was 'latent' and it just took the right girl to bring it out fully, and the right situation.
    Well, sometimes Life just throws thing and people/situations at you and it's no-time-to-think, and you end up learning about yourself. :-D
    That's how it was that night for me and Brianna.

    Ty for being non-critical!! :-D
  • sockpuppet Marlene... 2012/07/12 06:26:39
    sockpuppet
    +1
    Hope it all works out for you! :O)
  • Marlene... sockpuppet 2012/07/12 06:49:37
    Marlene Wilkins
    TY! (HUG)
    Brianna is the puzzle-piece we didn't even know was missing. :-)
    Husband and I love her more than I know how to put into words, John absolutely adores her.
    He's non-sexual due to his health and he experiences pain on Human contact like most people as cursed with ill health as he is.
    Brianna's sister Laurie has noted that she sounds much happier since she moved in, more confident and 'calmer'.
    THAT is a relative term--she's 'bouncy' like a kitten on catnip. LOL

    Husband got her a new job with a sign-making company and out of the casino--she loves her new job, and it's right up her alley as she's pretty good with drawing and designs and such.

    Perfect?
    No.
    But it's good for us all, and she's happy and safe...also getting a better diet now too.
    Georgina, our cat, has her totally wrapped around her paw. ;-)
  • sockpuppet dyhorwitz 2012/07/12 05:16:05
    sockpuppet
    Dude... the first one's a man. :O)
  • Jerry (... sockpuppet 2012/07/12 05:18:37
    Jerry (Iron Priest)☮ R ☮ P ☮ 201
    With tits? Maybe a shemale but not a man.
  • sockpuppet Jerry (... 2012/07/12 05:24:44
    sockpuppet
    I was just messing with him. XD
  • dyhorwitz sockpuppet 2012/07/12 05:35:59
    dyhorwitz
    +1
    If that is a shemale, I compliment the surgeon!
  • sockpuppet dyhorwitz 2012/07/12 05:49:54
    sockpuppet
    +1
    Looks like she could break a guy's back with those legs, though.
  • dyhorwitz sockpuppet 2012/07/12 05:52:48
    dyhorwitz
    +1
    Possibility, her name is Monique Moore, she is a Playboy model Monique Moore
  • dyhorwitz dyhorwitz 2012/07/12 06:07:16
    dyhorwitz
    +1
    she has a beautiful smile
  • sockpuppet dyhorwitz 2012/07/12 06:27:36
    sockpuppet
    Ah... I see it now. :O)
  • dyhorwitz sockpuppet 2012/07/12 20:40:41
    dyhorwitz
    Nonami Takizawa Nonami Takizawa
  • sockpuppet dyhorwitz 2012/07/12 20:49:39
    sockpuppet
    Hey...! I don't think you're looking at smiles, at all, here... you're looking at swimwear, aren't you! :O)
  • dyhorwitz sockpuppet 2012/07/12 20:53:24
    dyhorwitz
    +1
    you caught me!

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