Is it racist or xenophobic to have a preference on what kind of women one enjoys looking at?
dyhorwitz
2012/07/12 05:02:14
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Um....
That's the irrational fear of strangers; I don't know what that has to do with anyone's personal preferences.
As to rest of this dubious question;
People all have their own ideas about what's attractive, and that's fine.
"Racism" has nothing to do with what appeals to one sexually, and everything to with actively seeking to oppress, denigrate and exploit an entire group of people based solely on an erroneous belief in one's superiority to that group.
I love handsome Asian men!
Law of Inverse Averages I guess.
Seriously, though-- doesn't it seem like everyone under 30 says they're 'bi' on any online profile? I'd develop a theory about this if I weren't so darned apathetic. :O)
True, very true about the profile question. It seems to be 'trendy' I guess to be Bi.
Me, I just am, no big deal any more than the fact that I'm brunette and wear glasses.
I always kinda wondered about myself, and in high school there were some VERY minor incidents.
Then Brianna insinuated her delightful self into our lives and one night it just--well, it was like something switched-on inside my head, and I went for it.
I liked it, she loved it--she's been self-acceptingly Bisexual since 14--and I didn't look back.
Husband's happy because it seems to have opened up a new level of confidence in me thet he likes seeing.
I like it because now I KNOW, question answered, mystery solved and no more 'wondering'. :-D
Maybe... some day. :O\
I suspect, like hubby, that I was 'latent' and it just took the right girl to bring it out fully, and the right situation.
Well, sometimes Life just throws thing and people/situations at you and it's no-time-to-think, and you end up learning about yourself. :-D
That's how it was that night for me and Brianna.
Ty for being non-critical!! :-D
Brianna is the puzzle-piece we didn't even know was missing. :-)
Husband and I love her more than I know how to put into words, John absolutely adores her.
He's non-sexual due to his health and he experiences pain on Human contact like most people as cursed with ill health as he is.
Brianna's sister Laurie has noted that she sounds much happier since she moved in, more confident and 'calmer'.
THAT is a relative term--she's 'bouncy' like a kitten on catnip. LOL
Husband got her a new job with a sign-making company and out of the casino--she loves her new job, and it's right up her alley as she's pretty good with drawing and designs and such.
Perfect?
No.
But it's good for us all, and she's happy and safe...also getting a better diet now too.
Georgina, our cat, has her totally wrapped around her paw. ;-)