Is it ok to dump someone by text message?

by MissingTheO.C. Posted 2012/06/20 10:11:47

Related Topics: Text, Dump, Text Message, Message

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waternymphxD 2012/06/20 16:58:32

No

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Of course not its cowardly and cruel:-[
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Lyla Hearts 2012/06/20 20:00:32

No

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happened to me before... :"(

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TheWildOne 2012/06/20 19:05:40

No

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but its much easier on the internet but face to face shows tht u appreciate tht someone and tht ur takin it more serious

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bamabelle13✝❤ 2012/06/20 17:36:04

No

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I mean face to face is best, but that sucksss, if you must not face the person I suppose it's best to call them. Not a text though.

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susan BN-0 2012/06/20 17:10:15

No

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No

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waternymphxD 2012/06/20 16:58:32

No

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Of course not its cowardly and cruel:-[

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☂cinderella.dress.in.yellow☂ 2012/06/20 16:46:56 (edited)

No

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I think that's very lazy and dishonest thing to do think about it
text fourm: I aM BrEaKInG Up WiT U
what ?

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BOOGIE-WOOGIE-MUSIC-MAN-ROC... 2012/06/20 16:05:43

No

However, there are abusive situations that a text break up would be in order. four example, I had to break up with someone who was a danger to themselves and to others. it was best to make a complicated situation very very simple. that I had a supportive family to love me, and I was in hopes that she would be happy and that her family would be supportive and love her.

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Solomonster 2012/06/20 15:45:16

No

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Or atleast, that doesn't work for me. I wouldn't take that as a real break up. You want to dump me, you'll have to do it to my face.

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jaydenvdv to Solomon... 2012/06/20 17:06:34

+4
Honey, we need to talk :/

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Solomon... to jaydenvdv 2012/06/22 23:17:27

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Gloria 2012/06/20 15:42:52

Yes

Anyone can use any media to communicate anything. Text break up is heartless & cold. Breaking up in person is sometimes just as bad.

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I AM A TROUBLEMAKER 2012/06/20 15:40:10

No

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the person on the other side would be terrible hurt.......it shows that u don't care anymore..............why get into such relationship at first place

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flyingseaturtle BN 2012/06/20 14:56:48

No

Most of the time is not but I can see a few occasions when it can be overlooked ;-)

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Queen B 2012/06/20 14:21:14

No

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What a douchebag move that is.

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rolanda ;D 2012/06/20 14:08:21

No

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Grow some balls and do it to her face -___-

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Vision of Verve 2012/06/20 13:19:25
Vicereine Killbride 2012/06/20 13:17:36

Yes

Its okay. But its pathetic and pretty rude.

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~[Rachel Mariee]~ 2012/06/20 13:17:17

No

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I think it's a stupid way....
If you have the guts to break up with the person..
Why can't you do it personally...

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jana drew. ☮ ◄ 2012/06/20 13:16:23

No

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That really was a bad one .

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HelmetGirl 2012/06/20 13:12:56

No

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Not acceptable. If you ever had any love for the person, give him or her the respect of a face-to-face breakup.

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Dream_the _Timelord 2012/06/20 12:59:18

No

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You must tell them by person. Own up to what you want to do.

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Revolution 2012 2012/06/20 12:49:56

No

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It`s a harsh, impersonal, and cold way of dumping someone. Dumping through text message basically says "We had a relationship, now we don`t, and I don`t care about you enough to give you the basic respect to tell you that I never liked you in person". Show some class and end a relationship the right way if it can't be saved.

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Back_woods_boy 2012/06/20 12:31:05

No

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Grow a pair, and do it the right way!

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Changeling 2012/06/20 12:25:12

No

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But I've been dumped that way, via email, via written letter.

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Bill 2012/06/20 12:15:30

No

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If they think that little of you to do that, you're better off without them.
Only a gutless, callous ,low life scum bag would do that.

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.: LiVi :. 2012/06/20 12:02:43

No

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It's cowardly and disrespectful. Just say it to their face, give them at least that dignity

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Bill to .: LiVi :. 2012/06/20 12:11:53

+2
Well said.

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Linnster 2012/06/20 11:30:23

No

+3
NO, it's not!

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mrdog 2012/06/20 11:18:29

Yes

+1
Fax is good way too...bark

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All American 2012/06/20 11:13:43

No

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Kinda chicken s**t.

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kitkat of katfish and just kat 2012/06/20 10:40:25

No

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they should do it face to face

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Aksana 2012/06/20 10:22:30

No

+2
Unless if you fell in love through a text message

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lorenab. 2012/06/20 10:20:24

No

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hell nah!!! thats just being a coward. if you want to break up with someone al least have the dignity to do it to their face!!

one of my friends was dating a guy for 3 years and he broke up with her over a text that read:
welcome to dumpsville population you!

thats it!! it was pathetic! 3 years wasted!

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Missing... to lorenab. 2012/06/20 10:22:00

+1
thats harsh.

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lorenab. to Missing... 2012/06/20 12:14:15

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i know right!! she cried forever.... they havent talked since....

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Missile 2012/06/20 10:12:36

No

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Never

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