Is it ok to dump someone by text message?

by MissingTheO.C. Posted 2012/06/20 10:11:47

Related Topics: Text, Dump, Text Message, Message

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waternymphxD 2012/06/20 16:58:32

No

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Of course not its cowardly and cruel:-[
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Sunshine 2012/07/07 15:03:46

No

It's pathetic and immature to break up with someone over text. If you need to break up with someone, you should get up the balls to do it in person. I've been dumped by text a few times, and every time it sucked.

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krunchatize~me 2012/06/26 04:24:51

No

Just do it face to face, you can't tell what someone is feeling through a freaking text message.

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jere.chievres 2012/06/25 18:01:14

No

I don't "text" I only dump in Person face to face.

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pops 2012/06/25 17:33:36

Yes

+1
For safety puposes i say yes.

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Bronar 2012/06/23 12:47:26

No

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I have gotten and given that way so I am guilty though.

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RasHooD 2012/06/22 19:48:19

No

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facE tO facE to be offical dumping

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Margaret Jacobson 2012/06/22 17:01:06

Yes

+1
if they are violent IT MIGHT BE A GREAT IDEA !! CRYBABY the same!! WEIRD the same !! othwerwise face to face will worki

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John Hall 2012/06/22 12:29:08
Sebastianchocolatebeargiles 2012/06/22 08:41:06

No

+2
that is something that should always be done face to face.

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juicebox07 2012/06/22 03:26:11 (edited)

No

+1
My ex-boyfriend ended our 5 year relationship via text message. I haven't seen or talked to him since then nor do I want to.

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kruncha... to juicebox07 2012/06/26 04:25:48

+1
wow what a douche.

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juicebox07 to kruncha... 2012/06/26 16:58:20

Yeah, it was the final straw. He had the nerve to try to talk to me and be friends after that. I just ignored all his messages. I've been much better without him in my life.

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kruncha... to juicebox07 2012/06/27 01:36:13

good for you :)

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Melody 2012/06/22 03:06:10

No

+1
Well it's already pretty lame communicating solely by txt which is what youngins do these days

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Chaoskingsxz 2012/06/22 02:15:30

No

+1
have enough cojones to tell them face to face.....

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BBCoach 2012/06/22 02:04:11

No

+2
it is one word: WEAK!

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AM 2012/06/22 01:41:03

No

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A resounding NO.I was once ditched via an email at the eleventh hour no less.In all honesty it was the rudest most insulting thing I've ever experienced.

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TheAvengers#1Fan 2012/06/22 01:04:52

No

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that just proves that person is too less of a girlfriend/boyfriend to face their partner face to face and tell them they want a break up. sending it in a text is just lame.

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anna.stinson.39 2012/06/22 00:17:31

No

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I think a guy or a girl should tell the person face to face or atleast over the phone, and by that I don't mean voicemail. I think it is very coward of someone to break up with someone in a text.

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AngryGabby 2012/06/21 23:54:18

No

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That's a cowardly move! At the very least respect your partner enough to tell them face-to-face!

I don't like this band much, but the lyrics are perfect for this situation.

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sammie 2012/06/21 23:48:36

No

+3
If someone is goin to break up with anyone they should at least have the balls to tell u face to face
To me the guys are just pussys if they don't tell me face to face

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cm 2012/06/21 23:45:33

Yes

+1
okay for cowards

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Jackie G - Poker Playing Pa... 2012/06/21 23:42:50

No

+2
How ugly - if you cared at all, then they deserve the respect of face to face

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Fighting4U 2012/06/21 23:38:49

Yes

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That way you don't have to see that look on their face, and feel so guilty about breaking up with them. Usally if you break up with someone, it is for a good reason.

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Arel 2012/06/21 23:38:01

No

+1
Cowardly.

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Dark Angel 2012/06/21 23:37:16

No

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i think it's a whimpy way out cuz then you dont have to look them in the eye when you know youre hurting them. I have only broken up with someone over msging twice and that was cuz there was no way i could see them in person any time soon.

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nana 2012/06/21 23:36:31

No

+2
got dumped one time by letter ( you know before texting there was letters) what a chicken sh&* thing to do

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Anne 2012/06/21 23:33:44

No

+3
So pathetic.

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MAZ142 2012/06/21 18:55:11

No

+2
There's nothing worse then not having the balls to face it face to face.

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Gordon 2012/06/21 17:42:20

No

+2
That would be cold and heartless.

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Drew 2012/06/21 14:45:46

No

It all depends... If it's your boy/girlfriend, with whom you've been with for the past months or more, then no, it's not, but if its someone you just met, and that he/she is kind of delusional about the relationship between you both... then it's better to do it by text... saves some time and energy

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SAM4B 2012/06/21 09:31:31

Yes

I Never Did & I Never Got ... But It's okay for me.

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The_Infidel_Atheist 2012/06/21 08:50:47

No

+2
If you're going to break up with someone say it to their face.

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psiEnergos 2012/06/21 06:55:04

No

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Unless of course your entire relationship was based on texts only. Otherwise you're a complete douche bag who just gave someone some real evidence of the fact!

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penguins in the night 2012/06/20 22:40:16

No

+4
That's kind of a douchbag move.

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Freeranger 2012/06/20 21:59:04

No

+1
Is it okay? No. But, in this generation of perpetual shallow pools........expected.

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venus 2012/06/20 21:47:38

No

+3
its rude

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Xerxes,Phantom of PHAET 2012/06/20 20:36:37

No

+3
Very rude, must be done in person

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Moonbeams 2012/06/20 20:27:45 (edited)

Yes

+1
It's okay to do whatever you choose; but it will make you look like a certified douche. Choose wisely. ;-)

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Reggie☮ 2012/06/20 20:26:15

No

+2
IMO that is really very weak.

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