Is it fair to say once a cheater always a cheater ? Yay or Nay ?

im not sure because i was a cheater and now i am super faithful and will never cheat again! but i know not everyone can be committed to a person and i think that usually "once a cheater, always a cheater" is usually true but i guess there are exceptions...

Thanks aidet !

I would have to say that it depends on each individual’s situation, every one is not the same. I’m sure there isn’t anyone that can honestly say they are perfect. We all have our faults. If a person cheats I’m not saying it is right, it’s just that there is something they are lacking at or they are unhappy in their current relationship. If a person does decided to cheat on their significant other you should first think hard before doing something that you will regret later. Nine times out of ten when a person does end up cheating afterwards they realize what the impact that they have done and what they have lost and it wasn’t really worth it, that’s if they have feelings at all. Once it is to that point that is something you will have to live with the rest of your life

Thanks Mustang Girl !

I don't plan on finding out, if he cheats he's out of my life.

Thanks cnsharp !

Not sure. But I'm guessing there is a lot of truth to it.
You know what they say, 'once a con, always a con'.

Thanks Nick !

I don't know. I suspect no, though.

Thanks FortunaVeritas !

Like most "blanket statements", it's probably 50% true and 50% untrue.

Thanks Dawn !

i haven't had a woman in ages.

Thanks bigbadboy23 !

While this may often be true it won't always be true.

Thanks ehrhornp !

I can honestly say that I used to cheat on people but I've had a steady relationship for 2 years and haven't once cheated on him. If you love someone, truly love them, then other people won't matter. Sure, you like people but that doesnt mean that once you've cheated that will never change.

Thansk angel face !

I really think that is a false hurtful thing to think. There are some people you may be able to say that for, but many others who would never hurt someone like that again. Who had no bad intentions in the first place.

Thanks pearl !

No, it's not fair. It's like saying, once a liar, always a liar. Or once a drinker, always a drinker, once a bad footballer player; always a bad footballer player.

It makes no sense whatsoever. Mistakes happen, people have moments where they forget who they are, people don't always act according to how they think or understand where their behavior comes from. The idea to say that one cannot learn or adapt makes the whole of humanity seem one-dimensional and rather sad. Often a "cheater" will feel such guilt after their behavior that the idea of doing it again would be simply impossible.

Very sensible answer!

Thanks Rave !

Thanks B !

I know..sad to say I've done that..never again..Hopefully, one learns form their mistakes

Thanks Hotcho !

The cheater can prove me wrong with someone else, this is a deal breaker'

Thanks EDWARD G !

I think people can change....if they know they made a mistake and really love the person they are with .... I would say that they may not cheat. At least I hope not.

Thanksd Treasure !

I've observed myself and numerous others become more honest with age and experience.

Thanks rand !

people can learn from their mistakes

Thanks mikeeonly !

This should be a two part poll: Naysayers questioned as to whether or not they have ever been the cheating party.

Thanks jeremy !

People can change......

Thanks firebird !

It does not change the fact that you did what you did. I say that reputation will always be with you, you should have used better judgement!!!