Is it ever acceptable for a man to hit a woman?

☆ElenaDiamond☆ 2013/02/25 14:11:17
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  • justaguy 2013/06/18 20:40:48
    First. i dont know where hitting a woman came from, the correct term is hitting a lady. to be a "lady", you cant hit anyone first or last because you are more refined than that. Second, andy woman who hits first gets hit back. equality does not matter. if you want a fight bad enough to start one you should be hit back no matter who you are. with that said, if nobody throws the first punch, or slap, there sould never be a first one.
  • Brit 2013/03/26 23:28:16
    As long as it's in an abusive way, then HELL NO! But what about in the bedroom? I mean, I like bondage.
  • Spyro 2013/03/25 21:57:39
  • Transquesta 2013/03/25 21:31:16 (edited)
    When a woman hits a man. That's about it.

    When we first got married, my ex wife liked to test my boundaries/limits. One of the ways she did it was by slapping or punching me. Being the good southern gentleman that I am, I put up with this progressively worsening abuse for a while, and then, one day, as we were leaving to go to a family function, she punched me in the arm for something I said--hard. I responded by backhanding her in the chest with about 75 percent of my full strength. After that she never hit me again. Nothing but her pride was injured, but it took her a full five minutes to get her breath back. (We remained married for another ten years after this occurrence if you were curious. :-))
  • Jesterz 2013/03/25 21:23:07
    in self-defense...
  • flyingseaturtle BN 2013/03/25 03:40:31
    flyingseaturtle BN
    People should not hit each other.
  • Max7 2013/03/25 03:07:53
    Really I think that you should have had another option, because all women have not been innocent in starting altercations. In my opinion, this is not a yes or no answwer.
  • taylordoesntdeserve 2013/03/25 02:53:24
    sometimes you just gotta punch a bitch.

    Too far?
  • No One 2013/03/25 02:32:57
    No One
    Only if it's self defense just as a woman should not hit a man unless in self defense.
  • Brit No One 2013/03/26 23:29:52
    SH only said yes. I see your point. What about BDSM?
  • JDLogan 2013/03/24 22:55:10
    Any person is justified in using force to ward off a physical attack. Gender doesn't entitle anyone to a free pass.
  • Brosia - KarmaRaven 2013/03/24 22:44:33
    Brosia - KarmaRaven
    First of all, I am a woman.

    If I pissed you off by nagging you, or yelling at you, or cheating on you, or whatever, there is no excuse to hit me.

    But, if I hit you first, I give up the rights given to me by boobs and deserve to get hit. However, if I slap you and you round-house kick me, you have crossed that line again.
  • Britney Dunbar 2013/03/16 20:58:09
    Britney Dunbar
    a womans hit is not like a man's hit! men are stronger than women! a punk who isnt a real man hits women!!!
    and this "equality" crap is disgusting to use!
    women are not equal to men u idiots
  • Monica 2013/03/02 10:29:07
    mens are stronger bit thery have no right to hit us. if they do i will hit them back
  • Joe Blow Monica 2013/03/06 17:32:45 (edited)
    Joe Blow
    I agree; however, a lot of women press thier luck by initiating physical attacks on men - banking on the fact that it's "politically incorrect" for a man to physically retaliate. That's why a lot of women wind up in the hospital. They can't assume that a guy will adhere to such moral standards. If they pick the wrong guy to get physical with, they can only blame themselves for their injuries. The women who initiate physical confrontations with men are usually not very classy, and more than likely, have an alcohol and/or drug habit to even try something that stupid.
  • Monica Joe Blow 2013/03/06 23:11:04
    yeah i mean they should be careful n all
  • JDLogan Monica 2013/03/24 22:56:22
    If a woman hits a man, he shouldn't hit back?!? I call BS.
  • Monica JDLogan 2013/03/25 00:02:23
    well yeah but not just coz he is angry n all
  • eleonora.gozzini 2013/03/02 01:55:21
    No violence is acceptable. Men are way stronger than women, so there is never a case of self defense, if she hits you because she is crazy, walk out to show her violence is NOT acceptable.
  • JDLogan eleonor... 2013/03/24 22:57:18
    So a woman with a bat is no threat? And women shouldn't be held responsible for their actions? I call BS.
  • eleonor... JDLogan 2013/04/08 17:21:22
    What was not clear about 'no violence is acceptable'? And if a woman crosses the non acceptable line, should a man reply in kind considering as well the kind of strength he has vs the strength of a woman? When ever have 2 wrongs made a right?
  • JDLogan eleonor... 2013/04/08 20:42:59
    So a man should lay down and die before an armed woman, or a stronger woman? I'm sorry but once a person (any person, race, creed, color, religion or sexual orientation not withstanding) crosses the "no violence is acceptable" line, they have forfeited their right to a peaceful existance; to believe otherwise simply encourages violence, for without consequences there are those that would run roughshod over others. The consequences may not stop everyone from starting violence the first time, but correctly applied, they will stop a second occurance.
  • eleonor... JDLogan 2013/05/08 03:26:44
    So, hit a woman back is your solution? Enlightening indeed.
  • JDLogan eleonor... 2013/05/08 04:12:22
    I will defend myself from any violence, from any source at whatever level necessary. Having two X chromosomes doesn't give someone a free pass to commit violence.
  • Red Rose 2013/02/28 22:18:01
    Red Rose
    If women can hit men, men can hit women.
  • SW 2013/02/28 19:44:00 (edited)
    If they're sparing, with the proper safety gear.... or if they're uh... unconventional in the bedroom...

    .. with the proper safety gear. Or safe word at least.... My safe word is "Hey ow what the hell are you doing?" uh unconventional bedroom proper safety gear safe safe hey ow
  • Brad 2013/02/28 19:38:31
    In self defense. That's about the only time.
  • JustMe 2013/02/28 19:33:55
    The only time I can see it being excusable is it it is in self defense and he has no other option. Kinky play with consent excluded of course
  • nicki marie 2013/02/28 19:21:19
    nicki marie
    I say HELL NO! I was in a very abusive relationship several months ago and I am still trying to get over it. My self-esteem is wayy low. It is also not acceptable for females to hit males.
  • Joe Blow nicki m... 2013/03/06 17:51:12 (edited)
    Joe Blow
    "It is also not acceptable for females to hit males."

    Given the fact that they can get killed or permanently injured as a result of it, I would say not :)
  • flame 2013/02/28 05:00:32
  • StEwPiD MoNkEy 2013/02/27 19:56:50
    StEwPiD MoNkEy
    This, "you can't hit a woman" crap is overrated. Raise you hand to another human and you deserve retaliation. Point blank.
  • Jesse 2013/02/27 19:25:44
    It depends.
  • Dave In Cali 2013/02/27 14:30:13
    Dave In Cali
    Absolutely. Women hit men all the time, and they thin that because we have a wang, it somehow doesn't hurt, physically or emotionally. Let me tell ya something:

    The right to be treated equally means that if a woman hits a man, she should expect a man to treat her as an equal. If you don't want to be hit, don't hit.

    Now, if a guy is beating a woman just because he wants to be like Chris Brown or Ike Turner, he should have his head kicked in.

    A woman who attacks me like a man, will be treated like a man.
  • Flip-182 2013/02/27 14:01:06
    It is never acceptable.
  • sneekyfoot 2013/02/27 12:46:50
    yes but with mashed potatoes
  • sait10 2013/02/27 11:16:46
    Not at all. I know some women can give as well as they get but I still think no.
  • always ... sait10 2013/03/11 20:30:19
    always in trouble
    So I shouldn't protect myself? I am not a sadistic
  • caroline† 2013/02/27 09:35:18
    Have you met some of these girls? They are crazy as a bedbug. He should have just as much right to defend himself as a girl would. In other cases it's not acceptable for either sex to lay a harmful hand on the other.
  • Boo<3 2013/02/27 06:31:41
    Never. Same goes for girls hitting men. Unless they cheat then that mans a punching bag. (:
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