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Is having lunch every day with an opposite-sex work friend a breach of marital trust if you didn't tell your spouse?

Gramma Lil 2008/07/01 03:21:17
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  • Magzilla 2008/07/01 20:38:07
    No and this is why.....
    Magzilla
    +6
    Eating lunch is eating lunch. Don't make it into something it isn't.

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  • mac -Holding Fast 2008/07/08 05:29:48
    None of the above
    mac -Holding Fast
    +1
    It depends entirely what you are trying to get out of it. If you happen to be working in the same office and have no other interest in each other, you're clear. If you are trying to get in her pants? Yeah, big time cheating!
  • Lover101 2008/07/08 03:26:05
    Yes and this is why....
    Lover101
    +1
    Only if your havin sex which youprobly are ! hahahahahahahaha bitch !!!!LOL !!!!!
  • ,,:://LaZyBear;. 2008/07/06 22:10:39
    No and this is why.....
    ,,:://LaZyBear;.
    +1
    Since when were you not allowed to have friends of the opposite sex?
  • Pearlie Momi♥Patriot Warrior♥ 2008/07/06 19:23:25 (edited)
    No and this is why.....
    Pearlie Momi♥Patriot Warrior♥
    +1
    Just lunch with friends at work. It doesn't matter female or male. You don't go out with them on a date. Just at work. NO big deal, but tell your spouse is the way to go.
  • danielle 2008/07/06 12:14:46
    None of the above
    danielle
    +2
    i dont feel like its cheating, but i feel like if you arent telling your spouse, theres a reason for that, that you know what your doing, or how you are feeling would be considered wrong by them.
  • ..... 2008/07/05 06:31:46
    No and this is why.....
    .....
    +4
    The only breach of marital trust is breaching marital trust. If your coworker is female, but you know how to keep yourself acting like a cool dude, you should be fine. If you wanna stick the pickle in the hoohoo, you're no longer honoring marital trust.

    There should be no difference between two dudes eating, two chicks eating, and a dude and a chick - unless one or both wanna bang uglies.
  • Gramma Lil ..... 2008/07/05 18:26:33
    Gramma Lil
    +3
    Hahahahahahha....said with such finesse...I love it!
  • ..... Gramma Lil 2008/07/06 00:01:58
    .....
    +2
    That's what I'm known for.
  • Milk Maid ..... 2008/07/06 17:32:52
    Milk Maid
    +2
    LMAo....the pickle in the hoohoo....you just had to go there...lol~!!
  • ..... Milk Maid 2008/07/06 21:36:23
    .....
    +2
    Well, isn't that what it's called?
  • Milk Maid ..... 2008/07/07 06:09:37
    Milk Maid
    +2
    I prefer pickle tickle but whatever works....lmao *_*
  • ..... Milk Maid 2008/07/07 06:13:54
    .....
    +2
    Some call it hide the salami.
  • Milk Maid ..... 2008/07/07 06:15:39
    Milk Maid
    +2
    You say tomato, I say tomahto...*_*
  • Milk Maid 2008/07/05 01:01:41
    Undecided
    Milk Maid
    +2
    I can't control who my husband has lunch with or who he is paying for...it would be nice to know since I have to take the receipts and account for them....I mean lunch at $24 or more means more than one person.
  • ..... Milk Maid 2008/07/05 06:32:48
    .....
    +2
    See my answer and see how it fits yours. It's not just he "eating" involved.
  • dyash 2008/07/04 00:38:53
    Undecided
    dyash
    +2
    Some spouses immediately assume there is an interest, For example my friend's wife is the jealous kind, if he mention this she would assume and start asking questions like is she cute, is she married and also ask if she likes men. So he does not tell her anything to avoid those ridiculous questions.
  • emme425 2008/07/03 19:30:15
    Undecided
    emme425
    +2
    the question I have is why wouldn't you tell your spouse?
  • Leethal 2008/07/03 06:51:05
    Yes and this is why....
    Leethal
    +3
    If it is innocent there is no need to lie
  • aace 2008/07/02 10:48:20
  • Marcos 2008/07/02 03:19:52
    No and this is why.....
    Marcos
    +2
    no... eating lunch is absolutely normal... and you don't have to hide anything like that, unles you have a secret agenda.. hehehe
  • Good-bye-Bush 2008/07/02 03:14:10
    No and this is why.....
    Good-bye-Bush
    +2
    Lunch should not be a big deal. Jealousy can kill a relationship and people react differently so maybe it would be best to keep quite. Now a dinner date would be a different story.
  • Daisy 2008/07/02 02:34:56
    Undecided
    Daisy
    +5
    There's something odd in the 'not telling' part....
  • Gramma Lil Daisy 2008/07/02 16:56:29
    Gramma Lil
    +4
    I agree!
  • eltonlover234 2008/07/02 02:32:55
    No and this is why.....
    eltonlover234
    +2
    you didnt do anything (if it was you). you didnt tell her probably because you wouldnt think she would care. that is, if it was just lunch which is what it sounds like.
  • SouthernB 2008/07/02 01:29:54
    Yes and this is why....
    SouthernB
    +1
    ...cause if you're intentionally not tellin' your spouse you KNOW in your head that you're doing something wrong. Just to split a hair on a technicality and say that you didn't cheat on her is just a way of rationalizing the guilt for the offense.
  • Steve 2008/07/02 01:24:15
    Undecided
    Steve
    +1
    If it was just Lunch and no more (not any attraction) and it wasn't everyday then I think it would be ok BUT! If it's everyday and there is any attraction at all then yes I believe it's a breach of trust!
  • Cheryl 2008/07/02 00:22:10
    Yes and this is why....
    Cheryl
    +3
    if there is any reason to hide it, then it is not innocent.
  • doctor dee 2008/07/01 23:50:30 (edited)
    No and this is why.....
    doctor dee
    +1
    your eating not sleeping if you make anything else out of it you don't love the one your with
  • DirtyMartiniOlive 2008/07/01 23:32:52
    Yes and this is why....
    DirtyMartiniOlive
    +2
    I couldn't live with the guilt, and I love and respect my spouse enough never to do this....its all about trust and if they aren't saying something, then they're hiding it for a reason. live guilt love respect spouse trust hiding reason
  • NexusKitten 2008/07/01 23:26:46
    Undecided
    NexusKitten
    +2
    Hmm, it depends on what you're eating. If it's a banana, and she takes 5 minutes to eat it while groaning with each bite, I'd say yes.
  • Cindy 2008/07/01 23:22:39
  • honeymonkey 2008/07/01 23:20:53
    No and this is why.....
    honeymonkey
    +2
    unless they are haing an affair then i dont see the problem sincemany men become extremely jelous if u jus talk to the opposite sex
  • SearchlightMasquerade 2008/07/01 22:53:54
    Yes and this is why....
    SearchlightMasquerade
    +2
    Shouldn't you tell your spouse? After all, it's just lunch. There's nothing to hide.
  • ASHA 2008/07/01 22:12:53
    No and this is why.....
    ASHA
    +1
    its just lunch unless it makes u feel like your hiding something from your spouse when doing it. or if u feel guilty after it then you know there is something wrong
  • ola 2008/07/01 22:06:57
    Yes and this is why....
    ola
    +1
    Everyday, well something is going there and if it is only a friendship then there is no reason to hide it from your spouse. I would make a big deal out of it if I caught my spouse going to lunch everyday with the same woman, I would get suspicious and If a person wants to prevent having any trouble, come out clean, if it is no big deal there is no reason to hide it from your spouse.
  • sam 2008/07/01 21:59:00
    Undecided
    sam
    +1
    It depends on the situation.. undecided depends situation
  • Chef 2008/07/01 21:54:49
    Yes and this is why....
    Chef
    +1
    If you don't tell your spouse about it, what are you hiding?
  • doctor dee Chef 2008/07/01 23:58:12 (edited)
    doctor dee
    +1
    i'd tell if asked . but people tent to make things out of nothing . I wouldn't be hiding anything just keeping the peace
  • Docstrich 2008/07/01 21:45:47
    Undecided
    Docstrich
    +1
    Depends on the motive of the person.
  • Irish 2008/07/01 21:19:41
    None of the above
    Irish
    +1
    Every day? Do you work in a two person office? Every day is way over the top. Invite your wife to join you and your co-worker for lunch one day. If you can't do that, then if you care about your marriage better stop it now. Many have considered the greener looking grass but when they actually get there,
    they find nothing but weeds. But then it's to late. Cut it off now.

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