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Tom R 007 2012/08/08 01:04:54No+12Not sure. If it is, women only have themselves to blame. The jerks get the girls and the gentlemen get ignored, so it's little wonder that many men choose to be jerks. I've lost count of how many times I've held a door open for a woman and she's turned and scowled at me like I just pissed on her kitten.






















Yes. Radical feminism killed it. Isn't that nice?
Reason: Because I love her
See I don't expect anyone to open the door for me, but if they do, I will always smile and thank them. And if someone is behind me, I will often hold the door open for them too. I don't think anyone means any disrespect towards me by showing nice manners. It shouldn't be a one way street were men should run around showing women special attention either though, I think a little respect goes both ways. Just treat people nicely, it'll make everyone feel a bit better.
What if someone only held the door for white people? It is NO different. Just a form of blatant bigotry thinly masked by societal acceptance.
It's a big, big dis-incentive to be chivalrous.
It's not worth the drama.