Is "bad sex" better than "no sex"?

by ♒ßεllεchεvεllε®♒ Posted 2012/06/08 13:24:45

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beach bum 2012/06/09 06:43:06

None of the above

depends if you had a orgasm or not

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caius madison 2012/06/09 06:16:47

Yesh.

I'm a guy, the only thing that could be bad about sex for me is if I got raped by another man (I am straight, so I wouldn't want that) or the woman is extremely ugly. Weight is no issue, unless sickly thin. I also require hair upon the head unless health/treatment reasons make it an acceptable loss.

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Bibliop... to caius m... 2012/06/09 06:52:15

+3
The hair part is weird, but apparently you don't have very many standards. Do you chose your romantic partners similarly? I'm just asking because you put it out there.

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caius m... to Bibliop... 2012/06/09 18:05:26 (edited)

No, the whole sex thing isn't really important to me at all. I do enjoy it, I need it occasionally but, the other measures of a person, such as are the funny, smart, do they follow politics, religious to a fault or no..... these are what I look at. However, this is all true, but that being said, none of those qualities arouse me persay.

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Deborah 2012/06/09 05:54:34

Nope.

+2
Bad sex can actually traumatize you (LOL)

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Constant Commenter 2012/06/09 05:31:53 (edited)

Nope.

+1
(Why do you spell it "Yesh"?) Anyway, bad sex can be detrimental to a person's health...

I don't think it's like "eating what food you had because you had nothing better" - at least you are not still hungry, but some seem to think it doesn't matter as long as their own needs have been met.

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taylordoesntdeserve 2012/06/09 05:15:17

None of the above

Is spoiled milk better than no milk? eew.

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Constan... to taylord... 2012/06/10 07:18:26

Seems that is what some think.. that at least if they themselves "got off", it's okay.

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Iliketoshow1 2012/06/09 04:11:10
Constan... to Iliketo... 2012/06/09 05:26:48

+4
Sure ya would..

And what will she get?

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Iliketo... to Constan... 2012/06/11 12:04:22
GeminiWolf 2012/06/09 04:01:46

Nope.

+2
I love sex, but if it's bad, I follow the "if you want something done right, do it yourself" rule.

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overseanancy 2012/06/09 03:56:35

None of the above

Not even a bf but I guess if you define bad sex as sex with someone inexperienced it can't be that bad... right?

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Muskoka to oversea... 2012/06/09 04:38:32

For someone with no talent or experience, yes it can.

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oversea... to Muskoka 2012/06/09 05:29:19

Lol ok

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ajracestables1 2012/06/09 03:40:32

Yesh.

Bad sex needs to be defined, if it is rape, I want no part of it. If your talking about something else then bad sex to one person may be great sex to another and when you are horney then any sex is great.

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Constan... to ajraces... 2012/06/09 05:36:31

+3

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Mark In Irvine 2012/06/09 03:09:20

None of the above

the only bad sex is sex that is forced on you against your will ...

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Melizmatic to Mark In... 2012/06/09 04:31:36

+4
Not true.

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Mark In... to Melizmatic 2012/06/09 18:49:06

yikes!

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Muskoka to Mark In... 2012/06/09 04:39:02
Mark In... to Muskoka 2012/06/09 18:49:14

yikes!

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Constan... to Mark In... 2012/06/09 05:01:33 (edited)

+2
That is not considered to be "sexual relations".

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Mark In... to Constan... 2012/06/09 18:49:25

yikes!

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caius m... to Mark In... 2012/06/09 06:23:07

What part of being a dude don't people undertand? We have a flesh rod that makes it great pretty much an easy 80% of the way. Even a really.... eeheemmm...... "spacious" partner doesn't really kill it for me either buddy. Idk how it could be really bad for a dude except for rape. Also, if bad meant it smelled funny or is unshaven, well, have some self respect and don't touch what doesn't meet your standards regardless of how much you need it right then.

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Bibliop... to caius m... 2012/06/09 06:53:38 (edited)

+3
Don't make the assumption that all (straight) men are the exact same as you. Not every guy wants a woman to lie there and 'take it'- sex can be mutual and not one-sided.

Sex can be more than just standard piv sex to many.

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caius m... to Bibliop... 2012/06/09 07:53:17

I don't assume that, but I love when people say they understand your point, but don't agree. Obviouls that's a lie. You believe whatever you want. If you want it to be some magical field of dreams with cotton candy grass and light showers of stawberry/bannana nectar, with skittle trees and all the othe sweet tangerine dreams that it really isn't for me, then you sure can. I will encourage you. By all means, utilize your feelings.

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Melizmatic to caius m... 2012/06/09 19:04:51

+1
Um.... It's totally possible to understand someone's point and still not agree with them.

The assumption about lying is laughable though, on two counts; one that anyone cares enough to lie to people that they don't know, (and if they do, WOW).

Two, that its ever advisable to believe what strangers on the internet say, anyway.

That being said, the bottom line is that some people are easily satisfied with the 'bare minimum', while others are just not.

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Rocking... to Melizmatic 2012/06/27 19:48:22

Oh, wow. I'm out of this. It's boring - Later -

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Melizmatic to Rocking... 2012/06/27 19:50:56 (edited)

You must not be too damn bored; you still felt the need to reply to a two week old conversation that you werent even involved in.

Kick rocks, Biddy; you wont be missed.

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The Pot... to Mark In... 2012/06/09 12:22:03

+4
No.

And besides that, rape isn't sex.

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Mark In... to Mark In... 2012/06/09 18:53:03 (edited)

jeez!! boy did i annoy people with this one ... and people i normally get along with to boot!! set me straight people: explain how i'm clueless on this.

yes some lovemaking sessions are better than others; yes a mutually active partner is preferable to one who just lies there (but i'm sure i can't be the only guy whose partner has "given" him a quickie when Deadly Sperm Build-Up has caused his eyes to go crossed, and his brain to stop functioning until he achieved release) ... but the "happy ending" is always happy, no???

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Melizmatic to Mark In... 2012/06/09 19:13:47

+4
*sighs

Just take our word for it; there is sex that exists which is so bad, that you end up mad that you even wasted the time shaving your legs.

If you've never had a bad experience; then you should count yourself lucky.

For most women, its more than a need for than mere pressure release inside a wet hole.

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Mark In... to Melizmatic 2012/06/10 05:23:58

i've had some mediocre experiences ... mediocre enough that i chose not to repeat them ... maybe that was bad sex ... and in my case choosing "no sex" WAS better than choosing to go back and have the mediocre sex ...but the mediocrity was really about the relationship with the person, and not the genital play ...

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Melizmatic to Mark In... 2012/06/10 19:37:11

+1
Different strokes, for different folks.

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Mark In... to Melizmatic 2012/06/10 20:58:56

+1
don't get me started discussing "strokes" ....

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Melizmatic to Mark In... 2012/06/10 23:18:41

+1
You're right.

Some people have no stroke at all, unfortunately.

*lolz

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Mark In... to Melizmatic 2012/06/10 23:34:06

+1

mine is strong and hits the target

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Melizmatic to Mark In... 2012/06/11 15:35:37

+1
*lolz

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Constan... to Melizmatic 2012/06/10 06:49:39

+1
They just don't get it, Mel... apparently, bottom-o-the-barrel relations is better than nothing at all for some.. (I guess to them it's like when you can't buy good shoes and end up having to go to "Payless shoes" instead).

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