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Is a 17 year old dating a 14 year old bad?

Kai-Neko 2009/04/21 01:51:01
Yeah its horriable
Nope not bad =)
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You know what I noticed? its not the year difference its the ages. 17+14=no good 18+15= still no good 19+16=better 20+17=okay okay against the law still but acceptable to a point 21+18=totally legal and chill. I mean my mom is 37?? haha and she dated a guy who's 56. and is marrying a guy who just turned 50 I think. I thought about why.. and its the maturity level. if an 18 year old was dating a 12 a year old thats worrysome.. and wrong. but 22 and 16 is way better then that if you really think about it. hmmm

*DAMN TYP-O HORRIABLE= HORRIBLE
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  • darrick 2012/12/11 06:24:45
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    Well some one help me? Okay I am 17 gonna turn 18 next year but my girlfriend is 14 an I am 17. she is bout to turn 15 this year is this right or wrong

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  • Carolinaa 2011/09/26 17:12:44
    Nope not bad =)
    Carolinaa
    +1
    Jesus! That's My Case! My Bf Is 17 &' I'm 14. We been together for almost a year and we don't have an issue with it. I think that all that matters is how mature you are &' not be stupid enough &' do something wrong like getting pregnant. I'm young,&' yes i love my bf but that don't mean ima be with him forever,who knows! But all that matters is to be smart &' mature (:
  • madison Carolinaa 2011/09/27 19:14:19
    madison
    +1
    Oh good! Same case here!!!!
  • The heartless 2011/09/18 13:57:14
    Yeah its horriable
    The heartless
    The 14 year old is too young to be dating a 17 year old.
  • emmie The hea... 2013/03/16 18:28:51
    emmie
    +1
    And have you been in the situation to judge it??? I have,... It's not that bad
  • The hea... emmie 2013/03/17 12:48:10
    The heartless
    I've seen similar situations and they have never worked out. Simple as that.
  • emmie The hea... 2013/06/30 23:35:53
    emmie
    Similar not the same.... Plus iin reality most of the time the girl is younger and most of the time the girl tends to be more mature.... MOST OF THE TIME... like my situation:)
  • The hea... emmie 2013/07/01 06:47:44
    The heartless
    You would be the only mature one. Anywhoo...i still find the whole thing disturbing. But that's just my opinion. Good luck with your relationship.
  • emmie The hea... 2013/07/01 19:52:19
    emmie
    +1
    I understand and thanks:)
  • Pookie The hea... 2015/02/02 20:15:58
    Pookie
    +1
    I've had an extremely steady relationship with my man. We've dated for 4 years I started when I was 14 and he was 21 now I'm almost 18 and he is 25. I didn't plan on falling in love with him, it just happened. He didn't believe I was 14 and we were both crushing on each other 3 months after meeting each other when he found out my age. I had to convince him to stay with me and I'm the one that asked him out. Sure, sometimes we get the creep factor but, all in all it's a relationship that has worked better than a lot of others and there is no point breaking something unbroken.
  • ☆RogueofDoom☆ 2011/09/18 03:31:31
    Nope not bad =)
    ☆RogueofDoom☆
    My parents are 17 years apart.
  • smarts 2011/07/29 00:05:11
    Nope not bad =)
    smarts
    +1
    Same situation :o xx
  • Killa Kay smarts 2011/08/06 00:56:54
    Killa Kay
    Lol you guys daiting?
  • Killa Kay 2011/06/16 18:39:21
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    Killa Kay
    Hey I have an question im 14 years old and the boy i like is 17 years of age! When he turns 18 ill be 15 I just wanna know if its wrong or bad even though around me has already said so I just gotta know!
  • Simmone... Killa Kay 2011/07/17 14:03:57
    Simmone Rogers
    +3
    I can say no, I have the same excat problem. Peers tend to say yes because they just dont want you with him or want to be with him. But its fine follow your heart, dont listen to the negativity.! Good luck hunn!!
  • Killa Kay Simmone... 2011/07/22 03:35:07
    Killa Kay
    Thank you very much for your support!
  • kelly-wild Simmone... 2012/01/12 21:48:18
    kelly-wild
    +2
    i love this comment "listen to your hear" !!
  • Jay Killa Kay 2011/09/27 22:06:02
    Jay
    +3
    hey, iv been with my girlfriend fora little over 6 months now and were the exact same age difference, if you really like each other and think it could work out then dont let what other people think or say get in the way of that, you deserve to be happy:)
  • Daniel Jenkins 2011/05/26 15:30:40
  • marquis Daniel ... 2012/01/12 03:25:26
    marquis
    +4
    I am 16 dating a 13 year old. She is amazing. Mature. & everything. I don't use her 4 sex. She is ready. So I geuss since she is down I don't see me bein bad in doin it.
  • Poetic Ramblings 2011/05/22 14:14:23
    Yeah its horriable
    Poetic Ramblings
    Simply because 14 year olds shouldn't be dating.
  • Beccy Poetic ... 2012/03/18 08:38:04
    Beccy
    +2
    you cant say 14yr olds shouldnt be dating, because im 14, and have been dating my boyfriend for just under a year. and look at all these people commenting, they r 14, ao no offence, but dont be so freakin vain!!
  • Gingey345 Beccy 2012/10/30 21:04:50
    Gingey345
    +1
    14 year olds should not be dating in my opinion. I don't care how upset this might make you. You aren't mature enough. End of story. Your personality and mindset have not matured enough to be dating.
  • courtney Gingey345 2012/11/12 01:29:36
    courtney
    +3
    Reaally you think that. Im 14 right now and bout to date a 17 year i think its fine as long as their not having sex. i mean really no big deal
  • Gingey345 courtney 2012/11/13 22:37:57
    Gingey345
    You'll find that once you get out of high school that age difference doesn't matter as much, but when you are in high school it does.
  • Pookie Poetic ... 2012/06/26 00:53:52
    Pookie
    Ive had longer relationships then my mother and father put together. Im 14, the dating average depends on the level of maturity of the teen. Not because of other people who's opinion could be like "No-one can do anything unless they are this age." We have fully functional hearts and can reason usually without fault as long as we are mature enough to counter with things.
  • MellosGirlAndCheerleader<33 2011/05/17 21:11:28
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    +5
    It depends. It depends on the guy. Because most teenage boys want sex. But think about it this way; it's only 3 year age difference. That's nothing. It's a little weird at this age but who cares? Love is love. And age is just a number. A long as there's no pressure, I don't see the issue.
  • Fern Edgar MellosG... 2011/11/24 16:36:41
    Fern Edgar
    +1
    Tht is sooo true. Law is stupid because if affects alot of people's love life. And the law may change other people from being together to single but its not gonna change me and my boy. :)
  • ladywawa93 2011/04/28 14:23:24
  • samsamsa ladywawa93 2011/10/16 13:45:51
    samsamsa
    +1
    I don't know how long ago this was but itd be great if you replied! I'm an 18 year old girl and I'm falling for a 14 year old guy. he's nothing like the guys his age - he's just perfect in every why but I don't know what to do because it's a 4 year gap and I'm finishing year 12 and he is in year 9. I feel so comfortable and he makes me soo happy nothing like how my ex treated me who was the same age as me.. but I just want to know if this is bad or anything? thanks in advance xxx
  • julie ladywawa93 2012/04/17 12:18:42
    julie
    +1
    I am in the exact same situation. A guy I know from around my town came to my work a few days ago to see me and I just thought.. Whatever that's fine. He told me that he's liked me for a while... He's 14 and I'm 17... And when he told me that I just felt really happy and I asked him why he likes me and he said because you're beautiful, have amazing eyes and have a great personality and that made me even happier because he could tell me why he liked me me instead of just saying "i don't know, you're hot..." so I appreciate that, we are now dating :) he's also very mature, he doesn't grab my boobs or bum or tries to stick his hands up my shirt or down my pants, I dated a guy that was a bit older then me and he was always trying to do that and I was 15 and he was 17 turning 18, he was very immature and clearly just interested in getting in my pants, so I would have to say I agree that age doesn't matter, as long as its not a 20 year old and a 10 year old.. I think maybe people should accept things for what they are and stop being so darn judgmental!!
  • lovegur... ladywawa93 2012/08/16 12:49:26
    lovegurl123
    +1
    Do u think 14 an 24 are bad?
  • KitKatSweetStuff 2011/04/28 02:32:39
    Nope not bad =)
    KitKatSweetStuff
    I HAVE A 18 YEAR OLD BF AND IM 14 HES ONLY 4 YEARS OLDER THAN ME MY AUNT IS 29 AND HER BF IS 34 AND HES 5 YEARS OLDER THAN HER WATS TE DIFFERENCE!!! I LOVE AND CARE ABUT MY BF SO MUCH <3 BUT MY MOM WONT ACCEPT HIM MY BROTHER ON THE OTHER HAND CAN HAVE A GF TATS 15 HES 18 LIKE IM SO SAD MY BF AND I TRY 2 GET INTO CONTACT BUT NOW I HAVE NO PHONE NO HOUSE # AND NOW I GOT COPS MY MOMS SO GELIOUS ITS NOT FAIR IF I LOSE HIM IMA BE SO SAD CAUSE 4 SOME RESSION MY HEART GOES 2 HIM !!!!! E COMPELETS ME (YUPP)
  • KitKatS... KitKatS... 2011/04/28 02:35:16
    KitKatSweetStuff
    +2
    I WANT HELP 2 KEEP MY RELATIONSHIP GOOD
    I TRYED RUNNING AWAY
    BUT THEN I DONT KNOW WERE 2 GO
  • astrid ... KitKatS... 2011/07/14 07:43:23
    astrid ebarb
    +1
    girl dont do that , i did that too , but i was going to my bfs, withn in an hour i was found and had to go to jail. my mom called the cops. some mom huh?
  • kyl3b0t... KitKatS... 2011/05/24 14:46:37
    kyl3b0ttoml3y
    +2
    awhhhh poor u... im 14 and i am going out with an 11 year old, im fine with it its just my friends think that im a pedo but we both like each other im getting to the point where i hate myself cos i dont no what the right thing to do is :( hope you get what your after :)
  • marquis kyl3b0t... 2012/01/12 03:32:46
    marquis
    +3
    I was the same. But now I am 15 & she is 12. Just keep her. I mean I llove my girl truly. I don't care what people say.. I love her & I can't see me leavin her.
  • astrid ... KitKatS... 2011/07/14 07:41:21
    astrid ebarb
    +4
    girl i have the same problem, my bf is 16 though and im 14 , but one night he snook over to my house just to tell me goodnight and give me a goodnight kiss, well i wrote it down in my diary and MY MOM READ ALL OF IT , i was like oh my god, and then she pressed charges on my bf and we both had cops after us untill my sister told her how crazy in love we were, and she understood ,she dropped the charges, and now the love of my life is going to milatery nxt summer. i see him everyday when he passes up my house, he either yells out his window saying he loves me or blows me a kiss. i tlk to him with out my mom knowing thats y i get on my laptop everynight and get on to my yahoo account and txt him off of there.
  • Fern Edgar KitKatS... 2011/11/24 16:37:56
    Fern Edgar
    +3
    Same for me :( its sad. My mom wont accept my 17 year old boyfriend but my dad accept my 17 year old bf
  • kelly-wild KitKatS... 2012/01/12 21:51:17
    kelly-wild
    +2
    i have this big problem,its abit different to everyone elses..... im in love with a guy who is 17 and i am 14 so that leaves a 3 years difference. but it dosnt end there i meet him on a website hes from another country to me but i dont care about were he comes from because i love him and he says he loves me so i trust him he dosnt presure me to do stuff with him unless i wont to and im ready but sometimes the age difference and the different country thing put me off him but i do truly love him i havent told anyone about him because im scared they will judge me for being in love with someone of that age and from were he comes from what should i do any coments will be very helpfull :)
  • hollie kelly-wild 2015/02/01 16:27:23

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