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Is a 16 year girl dating a 19 year old guy equally viewed equally as a 16 year old guy dating a 19 year old girl?

venusblood 2008/10/14 00:09:05
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My friend is dating a 16 year old girl, and he asked me to put myself in his shoes.
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  • MZ.CH3$$ 2009/08/27 01:25:09
    I think its the same thing.
    MZ.CH3$$
    +3
    its ok either way you put it. imean age is just a number. rigth?

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  • Lizzeh 2012/05/28 15:26:14
    I think its the same thing.
    Lizzeh
    Age doesn't matter unless its a ten year age difference, in that case its just gross. But a three year age difference isn't anything to worry about. I'm 16 and dating a 19 year old, and nobody has ever given me crap about it. I've heard its illegal because he's considered an adult but that shouldn't keep you from being happy.
  • Mark 2012/02/01 07:12:33
    I think its the same thing.
    Mark
    Of course, according to the government it is illegal in most places. In some, there is up to a 5-year period where it is legal. It's also different according to the media. In TV shows, movies, and music, the guy is considered awesome if he has an older girlfriend, when he's under 18. The woman, at least until recently, was also highly praised as a "cougar" or some other term. On the other hand, if it's the other way around, the girl can either be considered awesome, or as a slut, and the guy is almost always considered a pedophile.

    The other big problem with these kinds of relationships is the parents of the younger person involved. If the parents want to, they can have the older person arrested, and charged with statutory rape, even if the couple had never had sex. According to our justice system, if a couple is dating, they are having sex. No other proof is required or even needed.
  • juangswagger 2010/08/09 14:56:57
    It depends and this is why...
    juangswagger
    +2
    What do you guys think about a 20 year old guy dating a 16 year old girl? & he truly loves & cares about her.
  • Keith juangsw... 2011/04/11 04:16:11
    Keith
    +3
    I think it is okay. I'm in that boat. I'm 20 year old and my girlfriend is 16. Yes, I truly love her with all my heart and I care about her. Her parents, her brother and sister in law don't like me talking to her. Right now, I can't talk to her and it hurts like hell not talking to her for the first time in my life a girl cares for me. She is my first girlfriend. Age is just a number. It just 4 years.
  • hEaRtSoUt2LiNdY 2009/10/02 15:53:07
    I think its the same thing.
    hEaRtSoUt2LiNdY
    +1
    age doesnt matter as long as you love eachother(hey! that rhymes)
  • venusblood hEaRtSo... 2009/11/18 16:59:21
    venusblood
    thanks =D
  • MZ.CH3$$ 2009/08/27 01:25:09
    I think its the same thing.
    MZ.CH3$$
    +3
    its ok either way you put it. imean age is just a number. rigth?
  • ♥TrUe G♥ 2009/07/18 18:00:32
    I think its the same thing.
    ♥TrUe G♥
    well to me it dosent matter. age is just a number!
    if they really like each other they should be together no questions asked. and if your parents think other wise or if u think they will think other wise then dont tell them. im 16 and my boyfriend is 17. my mom dosent care about that. its the fact that he is asian. i dont kno wat her deal is lol. but i really dont care cause i love him and he loves me so i jus say fuck it.
  • Morgan 2009/06/09 06:38:10
    I think its the same thing.
    Morgan
    Well, I don't really think age matters! [unless it's a big age difference] which this is only a 3 year difference!
  • Nika 2009/06/07 17:38:19
    It depends and this is why...
    Nika
    Girls muture faster then guys and thats a proven fact. So it tends to be girls dating older guys then the otherway around. Yet, if a girl dates a younger guy thats fine.
  • kristofer 2009/05/10 16:52:10
    I think its the same thing.
    kristofer
    i lov sexy girl olw boy like sexy girl
  • Just MEH....Piwan 2009/04/20 14:37:37
    None of the above
    Just MEH....Piwan
    +1
    In most views, which are a double standard, the younger girl would be considerd a slut, probably, but the younger guy would be viewed as a stud. I DON'T agree with this view, but it seems to be the case.
  • Jon 2009/04/15 16:28:14
    NO!! young guy dating old girl is bad, young girl dating old guy is ok.
    Jon
    But either is ok, long as the numbers don't include 20 or higher.
  • enkoi 2009/02/12 03:53:23
    I think its the same thing.
    enkoi
    I am a 19 yr old female dating a 16 year old guy. his mother is okay with it, but my man is much more mature for his age due to a hard life. I think its the same, but more people would view it as worse than if he were the guy. but its nice to say we will marry one day. Yes, i am in love with him.
  • kayaky92 2009/01/03 18:06:42
    It depends and this is why...
    kayaky92
    Most of the time girls are more mature than guys, so it's more natural for a younger girl to be dating an older guy, but there can be exceptions.
  • Shutterbug 2008/10/14 10:26:50
    I think its the same thing.
    Shutterbug
    I dont see any difference at all to be honest, its the same thing. It wouldnt be a big deal here in the UK age wise coz the age of consent is 16 years old.
  • HIMfanaticShannon *SHTB* 2008/10/14 03:02:30
    I think its the same thing.
    HIMfanaticShannon *SHTB*
    To me age is just a number.
  • sd *TROUBLE* 2008/10/14 02:58:36
    I think its the same thing.
    sd *TROUBLE*
    But a lot of people seem to look at the differently.
  • WannaBeRSC the Contrarian SOB 2008/10/14 02:30:03
    I think its the same thing.
    WannaBeRSC the Contrarian SOB
    I was 14 dating a 17 yr old. Big whoop.
  • i was lost n never found 2008/10/14 01:31:59
    I think its the same thing.
    i was lost n never found
    y should it be different my friend nick 16 daten a 18 year old girl
  • venusblood i was l... 2008/10/14 01:39:55
    venusblood
    I don't know, that's my question exactly. it shouldn't....
  • i was l... venusblood 2008/10/14 01:42:43
    i was lost n never found
    exactly
  • venusblood i was l... 2008/10/14 02:01:33
    venusblood
    thanks!! =D
  • i was l... venusblood 2008/10/14 02:19:07
    i was lost n never found
    your welcome
  • Amber V. (Bunny's *Kitten*) 2008/10/14 00:18:55
    I think its the same thing.
    Amber V. (Bunny's *Kitten*)
    It's the same, but people are more leniant with the 19 year old girl dating the 16 year old boy. I guess they figure the guy is tougher and he won't do anything. Were as they think the girl can fall for anything a guy says and it is not right.
  • venusblood Amber V... 2008/10/14 00:23:04
    venusblood
    why do you think that happens?
  • Amber V... venusblood 2008/10/14 00:25:30
    Amber V. (Bunny's *Kitten*)
    There are 2 different standards for both guys and girls. Girls are always figured to be the innocent ones who fall for anything. Where the guys are figured to try anything to get into a girls pants and they are figured to be the strong one who can stand up for themselves more then girls.
  • venusblood Amber V... 2008/10/14 00:33:51
    venusblood
    oh. so what happens when its a boy who falls for the older girl? what then?
  • Amber V... venusblood 2008/10/14 00:53:34
    Amber V. (Bunny's *Kitten*)
    +1
    Then no one really gets involved in that. They figure the boy can handle himself so there is nothing wrong with that. They think the girl will not try as hard as an older guy would on a younger girl.
  • venusblood Amber V... 2008/10/14 01:25:23
    venusblood
    oooo...ok. so no one ever really cares about older chicks with younger dudes?
  • Amber V... venusblood 2008/10/14 01:29:12
    Amber V. (Bunny's *Kitten*)
    No not really.
  • venusblood Amber V... 2008/10/14 01:40:34
    venusblood
    oh. so if that's the case then why should they care the other way around? have guys really become that vile?
  • Amber V... venusblood 2008/10/14 01:42:31
    Amber V. (Bunny's *Kitten*)
    +1
    They have it set in their mind that they are. It's all because of the double standard for guys and girls. I see nothing wrong with it aslong as they stay clean and the older person does nothing to the younger person.
  • venusblood Amber V... 2008/10/14 02:02:16
    venusblood
    very true!! thanks sos much!!! you've really helped us with our ordeal here...
  • Amber V... venusblood 2008/10/14 02:04:23
    Amber V. (Bunny's *Kitten*)
    No problem
  • Magzilla 2008/10/14 00:14:24
    I think its the same thing.
    Magzilla
    Legally it is the same thing. 19 year old female can get into as much trouble as a 19 year old male.
  • venusblood Magzilla 2008/10/14 00:23:27
    venusblood
    yes that's very true. thanks! =D

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