In your relationships are you the Alpha?

I let the woman lead.

Nope.

If I was in any kind of relationship I would want there to be equal team partnership between me and the other person.

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I'm not the kind of person who wants to control relationships or be in charge of things I'm more laid back, if the guy wants to be alpha then I let him believe he's in charge, but usually it's just a mutual respect and equal relationship. But yes I do tend to be with confident, head-strong guys usually so I guess they are more 'in charge' than me..

Since I do everything around the house include bring in the income I guess I would say I am the Alpha by default.

We are equal partners. This is the best way to have a workable and satisfying relationship based on mutual respect. I appreciate and respect my partner enough to share responsibilities with her.

I prefer a man to take charge.
Besides, I just don't have an Alpha personality, I've always been more on the passive and submissive side but please note this does not equal being a doormat, as I am not a doormat.

Although I will say in the few relationships I have been in they always expect me to be an Alpha... which is weird considering I have no idea how they get that impression of me. It's almost like because I'm a loner that they think I'm more dominating because I'm used to being alone and functioning alone (independent). Which is not the case at all I might add, seems kinda like a stereotype to me.

Yeah I really don't get it. But either way, I simply don't have the take-charge personality when it comes to relationships. Not that it's a bad thing, I'm quite happy with this fact, i just wish other people would either stop assuming I'm secretly a dominating bitch or assuming I'm actually a doormat. Passive and submissive doesn't make you a doormat, just ask every person whose ass I've ever kicked when they treated me like I was. =D

I've seen that image so many times it did not occure to that it was out of place.

nope! :P

and there's nothing wrong with that :)

My husband and I are on equal ground.

I like to think of us as equal but I let him think that he is. It's part of my game plan. :)

Smart girl :-)

I like to think so. ;-)

we are partners

I switch! More of a yin yang balance thing, some things I do better, some things they do.

perfect

Ah, if only I was :-)

I avoid one-sided relationships.

When she lets me be.

Perfect answer, old bean :-)

most of the time

Of course! I'm a boss! Hehehe >=}

No.

In my past ones, no.
But in this one it seems I have to always make the first move :O