In relationships who has it easiest?

Not paying for the meal? Cheapskate! Not opening the door? Cad! Will you fix the car? Loser! Don't have an education? Idiot! Why are your hands small? Eunuch! Not working 80 hours this week? Slacker! You won't do the dishes? Misogynist! Your car isn't new? White trash! Etc. etc. etc.

How is Your answer e ven ReleVant to the question? Are you an drugs? WtF are you on about?

thats a interesting take but i like it, by the way where do you find someone as manipulative as that?!!!?

As equals in a relationship, both partners have it equally hard. Relationships are not easy, neither are the people in them. :-)

good answer

Thank you.

I wish I was a man sometimes....lol but I would miss my glorious boots which I absolutely adore to death :



If I didn't have them.....I would lose my mind:

lol that is flippin awesome

everyone has his own hardships

If we had to deliver babies, the species would be extinct. If I had to clean house, we'd be ankle deep in dust bunnies. Nope, I appreciate it that God made me of His gender. (Joke)

lol well then your one of the lucky ones

Definitely a man. I worked all day, came home to hungry kids and a messy house, and went straight from working at a paying job to cooking supper and looking after children. I was just thinking the other day that I sure would like to have someone cook for me for a change. Men may worker harder, but women work continually.

i can completely agree with that

I wouldn't say men work harder. Think of the mental aspect.. based on that alone wouldn't you switch places with a man in a heartbeat for a day? I know I would.

It depends on their occupation. Construction worker in Texas in this sun---no way!! Office job, yes. I could go to work, come home to a meal on the table, watch a little TV. play with the kids a few minutes, and go to bed. Not Bad. lol

Hm, A relationship is not easy at all. You may have a few months or less of it being easy/good but then the rest of the time it is a struggle.

The person who cares the least has it easier...

yeah

The one who loves the other the least.

you have a good point

While doing the act of sex she watches the man struggle & controls the act.....

if thats the whole relationship then yes but otherwise i have to disagree

In what way does he struggle and who controls the act?

Till the time she enjoys it, all in his control,but if he comes without satisfying her, what dose the girl do? " dosent she kick the fellow on his bump" ? Can he do a thing about it then on ? But to keep mum & take all the beating. If the girl not for sex & the man dose sex with her she can say it was a RAPE. The man under the wrong perseption, that he the upper hand on sex but no it is the girl as per my view. Dear! Agree!Yes he is doing it all for both but the girls satisfaction the prime motto in the act, or all his efforts in the dustbin.

If you're saying a woman can scream rape, that's true...if she scum. Not all men have the mindset of having to please the woman, far too many are about getting their satisfaction in the few minutes they give & forget the rest. So I have to disagree that the woman has the upper hand when it comes to sex (minus the rape accusations).

Come on Dear don't disagree that when you have sex, you do it for pleaseures of the male & you just his tool! For him! Its not as easy for both, as a sex act is a mind ball game if both not involved in the act, all possibility of a bad sex act,a good mind set is a must or a act of animal behaviour.Frankly I try my best to satisfy my girl,in bed, & can eaisly get to know by my experiance if she is satisfied or not !I am talking all about normal people & not slut dear! What they show is all out of the world fantasies,that's why now a days you get to see a shift of orentation, from straight... To meny other as they prevail, obviously not naterual. What say ?

I could say something if you didn't lose me along the way. Who said anything about a slut?

Wait, what? When I have sex I do it for the pleasure of the male & I'm just his tool? Is that what you just said? If that's what you said & meant then no, that's not precise. Sex in & of itself is an animalistic act. Not a bad thing, mind you. Nor is having fantasies, that you can freely share with your partner.

Yes it can be a mind game thrown back & forth between both male & female. It's a cat & mouse game. This varies of course, base on the non-physical aspect between this male & female.

It's both men and women, they just have to work together to have a great relationship.

that is a very large factor

Yes it may seem hard, but it's not impossible to do.

depends on the relationship. Everyone's different.
(Take the everyone as referring to all people, or all relationships. Either apply.)

yes

I AM A man and my answer is ..............Man.....always and misuses the TRUST/ EMOTION .........that is what i have seen most of the time

well thats comforting

Women are biologically programmed to hold a relationship together. It must be
really frustrating, given that men are biologically programmed to impregnate as
many different females as we possibly can. :O\

lol thats a good answer

Once they start sniffing around another woman you can forget it.

true

Thanks again, Jasmine