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I'm seriously thinking of getting a tattoo on my wrist! I never would have thought I'd ever want to do it. Just not my thing. What do you think? Please read what I have to say first.

Jack's Pearl 2012/07/07 20:09:20
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As of recent I have had some major wakeup calls to my life. Many of you know I have bipolar because I am very open about it and try to help others. Many of you may have looked and and commented on this recent post of mine about addiction:

http://www.sodahead.com/living/have-you-ever-beaten-an-addict...

My addiction or habit over the past four years has been wine. I've always enjoyed it, being raised in the heart of wine country in CA. I never had a problem until I was diagnosed with bipolar and successfully treated with four different med's. But the wine was getting out of control. Slowly but surely I found myself drinking most every day and far too much. Truth of the matter is I couldn't feel the effects because the lexapro I take works on the same part of the brain as alcohol. My counselor told me my brain thought the wine was more lexapro and I didn't get the normal reactions when you can feel you've had too much. When I passed out people couldn't wake me and she told me that was more of a coma state, because the mix of alcohol and my med's actually lethal! Wholly cow! And I never ever even felt like I had an hangover, thanks to the med's again, so I wan't getting the regular effects and therefore I kept drinking to lethal levels.

I'm happy to say I'm done. Not even wanting to touch the stuff. I went to a Dr. apt yesterday for a physical and to have blood tests for my liver, kidneys and vitamin D level, as well as all the regular checks. I'm on my way to a better me.

Cutting to the tattoo chase: There are so many other things to enjoy in life and I'm so thrilled to get focused on other enjoyment. I recently bought a really cool leather band cuff bracelet that has the popular saying "Live Well Laugh Often Love Much." Common yes. But has such new great significance to me considering what I've been through. Here's a pic of the bracelet:


Live Laugh Love

I'm thinking of having, Live Laugh Love tattooed to the inside of my right wrist in a nice soft brown color. It means a lot to me. I love the bracelet, but it won't last forever and this is the best life lesson/behavior of mine that I have ever modified. It's critical. I don't need a reminder about Live Laugh Love but I may about this time in my life.
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  • Linnster 2012/07/07 21:54:14
    Don't do it!
    Linnster
    +5
    I would have that engraved on a gold bracelet - like an ID bracelet, rather than a tattoo, but that's me. I had a friend who passed away from cancer. She was told when she was diagnosed that she had two years, with treatment. Turned out, she lived four years and I have a charm that I carry on my keychain that says "Each day is a gift."

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  • brittany 2012/07/08 23:06:59
    Do it!
    brittany
    +1
    but do it if you only feel like you should get the tattoo and think about it first.
  • Alvin 2012/07/08 13:32:21 (edited)
    Don't do it!
    Alvin
    +1
    I honor you for your honesty and wish you well in your enddeavour to cleanse your body and mind. Do not get tattooed!. Wear the bracelet. It can be removed. Tattoos are permanent. And you may want to discuss your meds with your PCP, Lexapro is used for the depression side of the cycle, but you also need something for the manic side.
  • Jack's ... Alvin 2012/07/08 13:48:58
    Jack's Pearl
    +1
    I am on four medications that have balanced me out very well for the past four years. I've had no manic or depressive swings ever since. At least not major ones. :) Doing good there.
  • Marcus Clark 2012/07/08 07:33:09
    Don't do it!
    Marcus Clark
    +2
    It is your body. You will have to live with the decision. (Also consider your husband's opinion.) Personally, I wouldn't do it, particularly in that location.

    Also, congratulations on your progress and good luck with continuing in the right direction. I don't know what your current liver condition is but something that can really help with liver recovery and ongoing health is Hepasil DTX. Click the link and see the 3rd product on the page. I have a friend who had extensive liver damage and the docs were talking transplant. She started taking this and her liver condition improved immensely.
  • Jack's ... Marcus ... 2012/07/08 10:30:56
    Jack's Pearl
    +2
    TY! Hopefully my liver is ok, but we shall see. My Dr. will point me in the right direction if I need help. He's awesome! And I'll keep in mind your recommendation.

    I told my husband about it and he knows the significance of this and he didn't even scoff at the idea. He doesn't have any himself, but I think he know this as been a harrowing eyeopening experience. He's been through it right with me.

    At the same time, I'm not saying I will do it. I've always thought exactly as you. But somehow with this experience the idea seems to fit. But it's still not a reason to jump and do it.
  • Moonbeams 2012/07/08 05:39:08
    Do it!
    Moonbeams
    +1
    Good for you in taking the steps to beat addiction. I know from seeing its effects how damaging it can be for the person struggling, and for those surrounding them. The first step is admitting the problem, but it takes an even stronger person, to change it.

    As far as your tattoo concerns;

    I myself have tattoos. I'm not ashamed of them, nor am I wallowing in regret. That is because I spent many months (years even) sitting on a particular idea for a design. I didn't need it for vanity reasons. It needed to mean something to my life -- A branding of a memory, if you will.

    And that's what you need to do. Only you can know what it means to you, and only you can determine if it's the missing piece to aid in your recovery. If day in, and day out you are still compelled to etch it onto your wrist because it holds such astounding significance -- then do it.

    On a side note: Wrist tattoos can be easily concealed with jewelery, such as a bracelet; Should it be a problem with your work environment.

    Whichever you choose.. Good luck with everything.
  • Jack's ... Moonbeams 2012/07/08 10:33:15
    Jack's Pearl
    +1
    Thank you. I don't even want it to aid in recovery. For one I feel recovered after everything I've learned. I don't want to touch wine at all. That's all I drank. It's poison for me with my med's. But I wanted to signify this amazing new lease on life I feel. I want to be reminded the rest of my life of this time.
  • Moonbeams Jack's ... 2012/07/08 16:17:36
    Moonbeams
    +1
    That's wonderful. The best kind of tattoos, are the tattoos that mark new beginnings. They're there as constant reminders.

    You're doing a good thing. When you take the plunge; put up a picture. I'd love to see it!
  • Jack's ... Moonbeams 2012/07/08 18:38:40
    Jack's Pearl
    If I do I certainly well. I've already ordered a personalized bracelet (as some have recommended) and will share a pic here when I get it. :)
  • Patrick Jones 2012/07/08 04:05:17
    Do it!
    Patrick Jones
    +1
    i have one on my wrist that reads "Omnia Vincit Amor". It was sized to be completly covered by a mens watch for times when I dont need any of me 4 tattoos showing. And its black ink, the easiest of the inks to remove
  • Vision of Verve 2012/07/08 02:58:03
  • Flyaway 2012/07/08 02:22:17
    Do it!
    Flyaway
    +2
    You should if you want to.
  • Sodaz56 2012/07/08 01:24:47
    Don't do it!
    Sodaz56
    +2
    Tattoos are permanent and it will cost you A LOT to get it removed. And on top of that, you can still kinda see that tat. But hearing your story, you probably will keep it forever. I shoulda pick the do it button.....
  • Patrick... Sodaz56 2012/07/08 04:06:44
    Patrick Jones
    +2
    No. Thats a myth. Most tattoos are in the $100 range for removal.
  • Jack's ... Patrick... 2012/07/08 05:06:38
    Jack's Pearl
    +2
    I work at a Laser skin center and it's 100 per treatment for one square inch of a tattoo. The bigger the more expensive per treatment. And it takes up to 10 treatments to get it removed. Sometimes 12. So it's at least a thousand for a tiny tattoo. At least at our establishment.
  • Sodaz56 Jack's ... 2012/07/08 05:48:12
    Sodaz56
    +1
    Wow, so my cousin got ripped off. Nice. Thanks!
  • Jack's ... Sodaz56 2012/07/08 18:39:51
    Jack's Pearl
    Well, I don't know what the average rate is, but I'm happy to hear from you that our rate for a square inch is competitive. :)
  • Patrick... Jack's ... 2012/07/11 19:11:47
    Patrick Jones
    If your stupid enough to get a small tat removed with a laser, yeah its expensive. But thats about like getting stitches in an O.R. when all you needed was a band-aid.
  • Sodaz56 Patrick... 2012/07/08 05:46:23
    Sodaz56
    +1
    So you mean my cousin ripped off? Her tattoo was fairly small.
  • Patrick... Sodaz56 2012/07/11 19:12:04
    Patrick Jones
    Pretty much.
  • Man_Bear_Pig 2012/07/08 01:23:49
    Do it!
    Man_Bear_Pig
  • Man_Bea... Man_Bea... 2012/07/08 01:28:59
  • SebaTheSociallyAwkwardPenguin 2012/07/08 00:53:05
    Do it!
    SebaTheSociallyAwkwardPenguin
    +1
    all up to you.
  • yuddandi siva Subramanyam 2012/07/08 00:36:33
    Do it!
    yuddandi siva Subramanyam
    +1
    your choice, your decision
  • TiffanyBelle 2012/07/08 00:19:03
    Do it!
    TiffanyBelle
    +1
    i know from friends who are tat artists... that the wrist and anywhere there's no "meat" that it really hurts.
    I say - so what you want in this lifetime, as it's YOUR life to live.
    but really think about it.
    there are jobs you can't have or companies you can't work for if you have visible tattoos... if that matters to you.
    I approve of the tattoo and it's importance to you :-)
    be well
  • Maddog 2012/07/08 00:06:03
    Don't do it!
    Maddog
    +2
    If you're bipolar, just don't do it when you're in your manic phase and, by all means, don't do it after having consumed too much of that California wine. Think of how it'll look in 30 years. Your "buyers remorse" will last a long long time!
  • Jack's ... Maddog 2012/07/08 00:11:12
    Jack's Pearl
    +1
    I agree. Except I'm not in a manic swing. I'm treated and doing well. I have been for four years. And I'm in VA now, but the culture comes from the wine country in CA. Except I guess you missed where I don't drink anymore either. Not even tempted because of what it can do mixed with my med's. :)
  • Maddog Jack's ... 2012/07/08 00:15:54
    Maddog
    +2
    I still think you should avoid defacing your body with something as permanent as a tattoo.
  • Jack's ... Maddog 2012/07/08 03:07:31
    Jack's Pearl
    +1
    I'm amazed myself I've even thought of this. I've just been through a huge eyeopener. I will not do it for a while, because I may just feel more sentimental right now. But then this is what I DON'T want to forget. It's not about remembering why I don't want to drink, or that life laughter and love is important. It's this time in my life and how I feel coming out a more healthier person. But some have mentioned designing my own more permanent necklace or bracelet. That I will do. And I may or may not get this tattoo. But I will wait on it. Cause I have never even been tempted before.
  • Mark In Irvine 2012/07/08 00:01:30
    Do it!
    Mark In Irvine
    +1
    i'd say do it if you REALLY want to, but think long and hard about it first. what seems like a great idea today may not seem so great in the future, and tats are not so easily (or painlessly) removed. i like Linnster's idea: get a nice durable bracelet or a pendant to hang from a chain, or something like that, that has the sentiment you want on it (you can prob easily have something engraved or even made to order if you don't find exactly what you want). i've seen lots of people who are getting on in years who had tats when they were younger, and IMHO the ink doesn't look that great when you get old. a nice piece of simple jewelry will always be in good taste, and will remind you of the way you are feeling now, and maybe someday you'll be able to give it to one of your children or maybe even a grandchild to whom it will mean something special.
  • Jack's ... Mark In... 2012/07/08 00:07:31
    Jack's Pearl
    +1
    I think I agree with this. I'm just feeling extra sentimental...one of the most sentimental times in my life. To this point having my child was, but I didn't want a tattoo. LOL I feel like I just came inches to death and I'm lucky to still be here. I love my new leather bracelet, which looks so nice on. It's natural, neutral colors so you can wear it pretty much all the time. Anyway, I will definitely wait a while to do this, but then maybe designing a bracelet or necklace now, while I'm in this state, would be very meaningful. I think I'll start looking. I know where to look online. Thank you. I'm truly not a tattoo person, but I almost felt like going right out to get it. I even researched the best place to go in my neighborhood. LOL
  • Mark In... Jack's ... 2012/07/08 00:21:01
    Mark In Irvine
    +1
    [see message inbox for further thoughts and praise]

    you da shizzle

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  • Jack's ... Mark In... 2012/07/08 03:08:16
    Jack's Pearl
    +1
    you da shizzle too! :) Love it!
  • RobHom 2012/07/07 23:41:51
    Don't do it!
    RobHom
    +2
    I have never been able to come up with a single valid reason to have someone carve something in ink on my flesh, not a single one.

    You can always make a new bracelet....but getting rid of a tattoo is not easy...and if the dude with the needle does a lousy job......oh boy.....

    I've got a granddaughter with a "tramp stamp" and a tattoo on her wrist....and they are two of the greatest regrets she has...she has a 4.0 in college....and is worried about how the tattoos will affect her future....
  • mark 2012/07/07 23:23:02
    Don't do it!
    mark
    +2
    You don't need a tatoo , JP. But I think you'll make it just fine with or without it. I'm just personally not at all into tatoos.
  • Mechelle 2012/07/07 22:23:53
    Do it!
    Mechelle
    +1
    My friend has that tattooed on her stomach, hers is very big and looks stupid. In your case you have overcome so much and I say get it. It's a permanent bracelet to show what you have been through, overcame, and where you are going. Best of luck to you.
  • Mechelle Mechelle 2012/07/07 22:35:12
    Mechelle
    +1
    I would not be honest of I didn't tell you this. I got a tattoo on my leg, lower area, and I regret it every day. But it did not HAVE the meaning that yours would have. I was forced by my ex to get it. I was in a abusive relationship and felt I had no choice. I did, but at the time I was afraid of the ass whooping I would take if I didn't.
  • Linnster 2012/07/07 21:54:14
    Don't do it!
    Linnster
    +5
    I would have that engraved on a gold bracelet - like an ID bracelet, rather than a tattoo, but that's me. I had a friend who passed away from cancer. She was told when she was diagnosed that she had two years, with treatment. Turned out, she lived four years and I have a charm that I carry on my keychain that says "Each day is a gift."
  • Jack's ... Linnster 2012/07/07 21:55:28
    Jack's Pearl
    +3
    That is very beautiful.
  • Linnster Jack's ... 2012/07/07 22:09:05
    Linnster
    +3
    She was a very beautiful person and I hope to end my days with as much grace as she did.

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