I dunno, I think I remember seeing Hilary Swank all up in you in that movie The Reaping... you're doing ok for yourself.... if all else fails, try some Old Spice (in moderation).
shower wear cool cloths and get a hair cut(or make it look good). Be urself, smile, be around people. when u find a girl, get to know her and show ur intrested then ask her ona date. if she says no then try again.
Host a MEET UP.... or Attend one... There are so many different groups of people with a variety of themes, interests and settings to choose from, that you will have an enhanced opportunity to "Meet Up" with someone for your date! -- I do sell memberships to Sugar Daddy/ Sugar Mamma dating sites, but I think in your case, the more "organic ", the better-- and that's not just because of your username! LOL! :)
http://www.meetup.com/
dont b a fake
http://www.meetup.com/