I'm sorry to hear that you're alone and lonely. That doesn't mean that you'll be alone forever, there are a lot of people out there that can become your friends in the future. I understand that you'd like to have parents, siblings, relatives. I suppose that can't be changed (until you meet someone special, and eventually marry, get kids... have your own family)...(?) If it's any consolation, many people have, for various reasons, a closer relationship with their friends, than their family.
As long as you're in hospital, and don't have that many people around you, you always have us SH's to talk to. I hope you feel better soon.
Hmmm... well if you think about it...we are really all alone.. we can only hope to find friends and mentors in this life.. if you are feeling alone and don't want to feel that way?..I suggest that you do some sharing of yourself with others...maybe go to an animal shelter and ask if you can help socialize the animals..walk dogs ...pet cats.. go to a nursing home in your area and ask to visit someone who has no visitors..read to a blind patient..you will be surprised what you will learn and what a difference you can make in someone elses life ..just sayin... reach out...
I don't have a g/f either. I only have one friend I never see because he moved far away. My Dad died two years ago. My mom is probably going to die within the year and over these last two years I have had 13 deaths in my family. We are pretty much in the same boat you and I except I don't bitch about it. I have only cried once and that was after I found my Dad dead and that was it. Even then it was only for like half an hour.
I feel like that sometimes. Alone even amongst friends and family. It is more about what is missing in you than what is missing around you. Think about it.
A LOT of people have it WAY worse! I'd like to see you survive in MY shoes. But the point is to stay POSTIVE!!! Cheer up! You have many reasons to smile! I'm "alone" too, ya know.
Hun, there's this website caled: experienceproject.com
I suggest that you join, I joined a while a go. It's pretty much a site where people support each other with each other's problems. You share your experience, as much as you are comfortable with, and people who have gone through what you have will read your story and give you advice.
But if you are feelign horrible about being alone, there is nothing that is going to make you feel better (really better, not fake better) than actually starting to get comfortable with people and making new friends...face to face. It can be really hard at first, trust me, I had to do it too. It's one of those things, the more you practice..the easier it gets. You'll be surprised how many people there are out there.
Is gots in my mind ta take yo out back and woopin yer behind with a wooden spatula till yo buttocks is blacken en blue fo talkin trash likes dat.
Eveary won has some won to cares about er ta care for.I bet yo just want to be left alone en want sum one ta feels simpithetic.
Smatten up ya silly willy en show da world thet yous is a person that needs effertion like every body else doose.
right now im giving you strict advice so NO fighting with me, instead of sitting around on your computer moping to people trying to get sympathy, go out and find a friend, start a class, talk to people (offline) you'll get no where with attension seeking.
I'm sorry but again sometimes the best advice is the strictest.
also, you have the internet. . so.. . i guess thats something.
As long as you're in hospital, and don't have that many people around you, you always have us SH's to talk to. I hope you feel better soon.
You can talk to us.;-
I suggest that you join, I joined a while a go. It's pretty much a site where people support each other with each other's problems. You share your experience, as much as you are comfortable with, and people who have gone through what you have will read your story and give you advice.
But if you are feelign horrible about being alone, there is nothing that is going to make you feel better (really better, not fake better) than actually starting to get comfortable with people and making new friends...face to face. It can be really hard at first, trust me, I had to do it too. It's one of those things, the more you practice..the easier it gets. You'll be surprised how many people there are out there.
Eveary won has some won to cares about er ta care for.I bet yo just want to be left alone en want sum one ta feels simpithetic.
Smatten up ya silly willy en show da world thet yous is a person that needs effertion like every body else doose.
I'm sorry but again sometimes the best advice is the strictest.
also, you have the internet. . so.. . i guess thats something.