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If you're straight, ---would you be uncomfortable to go into a GAY NITE CLUB or Bar to hang out with gay friends?

True~Male 2007/09/12 12:14:12
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There are many people especially women where they know they probably won't get hit on , if they go to a gay club. Thus the reason they don't mind going-- If it's a LESBIAN BAR-- STRAIGHT MEN MIGHT NOT BE SO INCLINED TO GO IN . WHAT ARE YOUR THOUGHTS ?
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  • Daryl 2007/09/12 20:30:01
    No
    Daryl
    +22
    I don't drink and I don't frequent bars but I am less likely to go to a gay bar because I feel threatened by the large number of well-dressed men who are better dancers.

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  • Pet Rock Whisperer 2009/09/01 22:21:51 (edited)
    Yes
    Pet Rock Whisperer
    +1
    Because I just know the music would suck! I rarely go to bars at all. In fact in the last year or two I've been to a bar one time I can think of. And I think that was more than a year ago.
  • Beck∞♥☮♫♫♫∞ 2009/09/01 16:38:55
    Yes
    Beck∞♥☮♫♫♫∞
    +1
    Yes i would. Wouldnt bother me at all...Im strong and confident in who i am. And i love my daughter, friends unconditionally :) xoxoxoxooox
  • dreaminon 2009/09/01 00:23:15
    No
    dreaminon
    +1
    From my experiences, gay bars include both men and women who are gay, and I disagree with your statement that women probably won't get hit on - maybe not by men but the women hit on ya! LOL
  • True~Male dreaminon 2009/09/01 11:38:48
    True~Male
    +2
    Good for them-LOL
  • thebrownhaze 2009/08/03 15:52:00
    No
    thebrownhaze
    +1
    No problem at all. Although, I have been thrown out of a gay bar for being straight.
  • True~Male thebrow... 2009/09/01 11:39:18
    True~Male
    +1
    Really that is discrimation
  • thebrow... True~Male 2009/09/01 11:55:39
    thebrownhaze
    yeah, they said it was because my friend was too drunk, which he wasnt. it happened right after a couple came up to talk to us asking if we were stright (we must have stuck out like a sore thumb)

    havent been back there since
  • OceanAngel 2009/08/03 14:33:54
    Yes
    OceanAngel
    +1
    I go to gay bars because they can be nicer but i think it depends on the area, I've been to a gay bar near where i live and they were lovely, i've been to a couple in brighton and the gay guys seemed alot more bitchy which really surprised me.
  • Treecat47 2009/08/03 14:24:32 (edited)
    Undecided
    Treecat47
    +2
    I've hung out in a gay bar with straight freinds (and family). It was their choice to go, I just followed. But it wasn't bad really.

    I wouldn't go a lot as I don't see any point but I have a trans freind I'd go into one of those bars with now and then.

    Of course if I wanted to pull, I wouldn't go to a gay bar to do that.
  • Chris 2009/05/27 01:43:45 (edited)
    No
    Chris
    +1
    I have gay friends that I love to party with, a gay hair dresser and I have 2 gay nephews......not a problem here!
  • EastIndianFemme 2009/05/27 01:43:26
    No
    EastIndianFemme
    +1
    I can totally see straight womyn going to gay bars, so she wouldn't get hit on..even if she has a boyfriend or husband herself and/or is single and doesn't want to be bothered by boys overall!!

    I see it happen all the time..so she could feel safe too!!
  • Treecat47 EastInd... 2009/08/03 14:26:19
    Treecat47
    +1
    Erm depends on the bar, doesnt it? :P

    Some are mixed, some are more men and some are more women. I've had reports where a straight female freind of mine (when I was at uni) went to a lesbian bar and she got hit on a lot :P
  • MININA 2008/09/08 20:24:52
    No
    MININA
    +1
    well i dont visit any bars but i have friends that are gay and they never have tried to harm me in anyway...
  • True~Male MININA 2008/09/09 00:35:59
  • beatfreak 2008/09/08 08:16:42
    Yes
    beatfreak
    +2
    well Im gay but since I spend more time in straight clubs than gay clubs, and all the DJ's I know that work in gay clubs are straight I dont see any reason why someone would be. If I can do it and deal with chicks hitting on me all night then you should be able to handle it too. Im secure in my sexuality and Im not threatened by anyone else's
  • True~Male beatfreak 2008/09/08 13:19:09
    True~Male
    +2
    Great response
  • Treecat47 True~Male 2009/08/03 14:26:43
    Treecat47
    +1
    Agreed.
  • Warhorse ~ Sees stupid poeple 2008/09/07 01:52:03
    Yes
    Warhorse ~ Sees stupid poeple
    +1
    Gay bars are fun, My wife loves them and I found them to be actual relaxing, there no drama if your not part of the lifestyle
  • Anouser 2008/05/28 06:18:57
    No
    Anouser
    +1
    I don't attend clubs and I rarely drink, but I wouldn't mind going to a gay bar. As long as none of them attempt to harm me, I'm fine.
  • True~Male Anouser 2008/05/28 08:34:46
    True~Male
    +1
    no one would harm you-- I've been to plenty of them and I havn't seen any straight guys harmed yet. The gay's one may get their heart broken or fear of rejection when turned down for a dance.
  • csherm 2008/04/06 15:39:20
    No
    csherm
    +1
    I am secure and think it would be fun.
  • Carol Nobama 2008/04/06 08:35:06
    No
    Carol Nobama
    +1
    It would probably be a lot of fun.
  • True~Male Carol N... 2008/04/06 14:41:04
    True~Male
    +1
    your so right
  • Dogg ~ Ready for war 2008/03/30 08:57:38
    No
    Dogg ~ Ready for war
    +1
    by my understanding of the question, is would I feel uncomfortable going in a gay bar. and not at all. I am secure in myself to be able to handle to going in any pub to dance and enjoy myself with my wife.
  • Kaz 2008/03/30 05:38:10 (edited)
    Yes
    Kaz
    +1
    Just a few more years... :d
    I'm dying to go to one now. lulz.
    Crap. I thought that said would you feel COMFORTABLE.
    LMFAO. Sorry. I have no problem with those sort of things.
  • Lizowa 2008/03/30 02:45:24 (edited)
    Yes
    Lizowa
    +2
    I'd have no problem with it.
    [edit:I deffinetely meant to click "No" for this question XD whoops.]]
  • Kaz Lizowa 2008/03/30 05:40:18
    Kaz
    +1
    You're not alone. LOL.
  • asnoj 2008/03/24 02:06:03 (edited)
    Undecided
    asnoj
    +1
    um idk im straight and ive never been to one so idk
    im not aganist gays (i heard there very nice) its just id be scared that a girl would like start hitting on me and i would have no idea what to say--- i barely no what to say when rejecting a guy
  • Loreli 2008/03/08 05:06:02
    No
    Loreli
    +3
    I had a blast going to a gay bar in Florida with some friends. The bar was split in half with one side for men and the other for women. Had unisex bathroom too which I found to be weird at first. I would go back again, no problem.
  • DrTim 2008/03/02 02:25:16
    Undecided
    DrTim
    +2
    Iwent into a "Lesbian" bar once, It Was A Trip!!
    No problems had a "Good Time"!!
    The mens bar was different in that I had to show I wasn't Gay then It too was a BLAST!!
  • MsBlood 2008/02/29 01:40:16
    No
    MsBlood
    +2
    I've been to more gay bars than straight ones.
  • heaven ... MsBlood 2008/02/29 11:19:38
  • I'm Left, You're Wrong 2008/02/24 12:10:25
    No
    I'm Left, You're Wrong
    +1
    Of course not, used to do it all the time.
  • Cassidy 2008/02/13 19:42:04
    No
    Cassidy
    +1
    I have gay friends and I'm completely comfortable going to gay clubs with them.
  • True~Male Cassidy 2008/02/14 01:09:10 (edited)
    True~Male
    +1
    That's Great to hear !!
  • heaven ... True~Male 2008/02/29 11:19:54
    heaven cent
    +1
    ya it is
  • kcalle 2008/02/13 17:24:54
    No
    kcalle
    +1
    I went to gay clubs in Italy and they always had the best music*:D
  • Reverend Muerte 2008/01/08 22:59:51
    No
    Reverend Muerte
    +3
    While it wouldn't be at the top of my list of things to do, it wouldn't bother me at all I don't think. I have a couple homo friends and they're fun as hell to hangout with, they're like catty bitches, it cracks me up. Every gay I've ever met has been extremely nice and respectful, so I don't have a problem with it.
  • Honey 2008/01/08 07:45:51 (edited)
    Yes
    Honey
    +1
    im a girl, and totally straight.. hell i dont care.. i go into a gay bar to watch my best friend perform on stage ... he sings louie armstrong's its a wonderful life in a dress... and he can really sing to! sounds just like louie omg!
  • Janet V. 2008/01/07 20:33:53
    No
    Janet V.
    +3
    i go to gay clubs all the time. my brother is gay, my best friend is gay and he's also a bartender so i spent a lifetime at his bar...which was in a gay club in Miami. I have always felt comfortable, and i have straight guy friends that have gone and had fun...the drag shows are amazing and the energy is very positive. You have to be secure in ur sexuality in order to enjoy a gay club...otherwise you get turned on and start to freak out cause ur rainbow colors are peakin.lol. no but really it takes a very confident straight man to go into gar bars...which makes them sooo hot by the way. as for lesbians coming on to me...it's as simple as "im straight" and it's flattering, it's not really ever an issue cause they can read me...they usually never get mixed signals they know im straight.
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