If your wife denies you sex, are you justified in seeking your pleasure elsewhere?

You would be justified in leaving a partner who clearly does not understand your needs, and is not likely to attempt to ensure that those needs are being met.

Jenni You're Adopted!!

unless your 'pleasure elsewhere' involves food:

not without the wifes consent, as I know some relationships have that clause, but otherwise, there is a commitment to stand by and honor.

Justified? Is the action of cheating just in the first place?

hell no!!!!!!!!!!!1 if thats the case,then u dont need to be married!!!!!!!!

Not until after the big D!!!

it is a part of being a partner, use it or lose him

You may feel justified but in reality you're not.

What if your husband isn't pleasing you??? Is it OK to seek your pleasure elsewhere???

I don't agree with cheating. I'm just turning it around... lol.

men can b selfish...wham bam thank you mam! i hate that but that wouldnt give me the rite to cheat.ur rire..

if she dont want to he has to wait especially if they are having marrital problems

Can't I knock-off a piece at the saloon while she cools-off?

Oh Dude!

When you get married you vowed for better or for worse....No one that's married should seek outside that marriage for their sexual needs-thats what your hands and/or sex toys are for...Plus it's adultry when you're having sex with someone other than your spouse {unless they wanted you to which is weird but hey that's their choice!}.If you want to have sex with someone else,at least get a divorse before ya do it!

When you marry you take vows. If you can live by them vows then you should not be married. If a wife is denying sex there is something going on. Maybe the question should be is why she is not wanting sex. Finding pleasure else where will not solve any problems just cause more. If looking for pleasure else where is what someone thinks they should do then they are not committed to the relationship anyways. What would happen if it was the husband that was denying? Should she look else where? People are not always in the mood or maybe there is something going on that is causing problems. Cheating is never an answer it is just the easy way out.

That's why I keep a multiplicity o wives!

and first mates...Butch...I's going catch your slight hand when dealin cards...taken advantage of an ol one eye pirate...

1. You better start asking yourself why it is your significant other is denying you such intimacy in the first place? What real issues are going on that aren't being revealed? Women don't just stop making love with the man they love, NOT REAL WOMEN anyway, unless they are hurt, confused, upset, bewildered, abused, damaged, or all of the above.

2. Communication is the Key to a successful relationship without that you ain't got nothing, so if your little joey, stewie, spikey gonna go off and play first thing before you even going to try and attempt to find out what's going on with your girl well maybe you don't even deserve her in the first place! Love is not always an easy place to be in, and sometimes you have to work at it, and we don't always see eye to eye, I guess it depends on how much she mean to you in the first place.

3. Ask yourself this? If it was you feeling not up to par, cuz you were going through some shit, but you didn't want her to take it all personal, would you want her sleeping with someone else cuz she felt all abandoned and shit?

Probably not!
Talk it out, it actually does help.

discretely before the divorce!

As long as it's your right hand...or left hand for the lefties... ;)

On a more serious note, YES is not my answer. It is never right to cheat. If it's broke fix it, if you can't fix it, move on.

Wives, should never deny sex for any other reason besides illness or plain exhaustion. If you are using it as a form of punishment, then you become the problem.

Besides which, it sometimes makes me ashamed to be a woman, when I KNOW us GIRLS have a LOT more imagination than that! I mean c'mon!!!!

Get creative with your punishment...but don't use sex, besides which, if you are anything like me...withholding sex punishes me too, so it becomes redundant!

I have tons of ways of punishing him when he has pissed me off, and sex isn't one of them..actually...I have used sex as a form of punishment, but not by withholding it...LMAO!!!

Now that's the kind of punishment I deserve!

What if she just plain doesn't want to have sex?? lol. She has to??

Then she shouldn't have to, but to use it as punishment is bullshit...

Marriage is about commitment. If there's a problem, work it out. Patience is a very real part of marriage, for men AND women. There's nothing that brings more happiness than a good marriage. I wouldn't risk it for a moment of pleasure.

I got a real nice machine that works great so I dont need to look else where..

hey man, if she won't do it I'm not going to be miserable. Of course I don't think I'll ever be married... and I've never had that problem before... but yeah if it did happen my ass would be out bangin' somewhere else, no reason for both of us to be miserable!

It's good to know that you won't ever be getting married....let's hope you don't spawn anything either...LOL :P

i'll do my best.

ew.

When your woman doesn't want to have sex with you thats a sign that something is broken in your relationship.And if you dont fix it somebody else will.

Your right about that Vin...

men are never satisfied anyway, i don't know. it's not right to keep something from your man.

Cheating is still not acceptable. At least not to me anyways, but holing out on sex just to get your way is an evil and underhanded thing to do.

i agree... it's wrong. but no matter what you do for a guy its always more more more...

i'm just saying that if she can't/won't do something it's not fair to keep him from having it

But to send him somewhere else to get what he wants is not the thing to do, if she is unwilling to please her man, why is she with him, unless she's only unwilling in order to get what she wants, in which case, i say why is he with her, it's just no way to deal with a situation.