If your partner cheated on you, would you take them back?

never, why? So they can just cheat again? Once a cheater, always a cheater.

It would depend on the reasons.

Well, maybe. It depends on alot of things

Probably not - relationships are based on trust and the trust would be gone

i hope i dont

Nope. Once a cheater, always a cheater.

I think I would. It would be hard but I would hope we could work things out. The big thing would be to really forgive him and not hold it over his head later on.

Cheating is the one thing that I feel is unforgivable. I fidelity very seriously, which is partly why.

Once a cheater always a cheater. I wouldn't but my self through a buch of pain for some guy. There are plenty of other guys out there.

Simple as that.

If I'm not enough now for him to only want me, then I highly doubt that will be any different later when he gets tired of me again if I forgive him. It's simply. A leopard can't change his spots. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Hit the road, buddy. I'll find someone better.

maybe it depends

I did, one time for my kids sake but I told him up front you can't have it both ways and except your partner to stay faithful- so you do it your out. Out he went year later

Once a cheater always a cheater.

Absolutely not. Fidelity is the one aspect of a relationship that for me is non-negotiable.

Believe me....they would regret it if i took them back...best to move on!

I have zero tolerance for cheating

No. I take loyalty/honesty in relationships very seriously. If someone cheats on me once, I'd never be able to fully trust them again because in the back of my mind I'd always be suspicious. The relationship would be over. Once a cheater always a cheater.

No way.They will do it again.

More than sleeping with someone else, they've violated my trust! I have trust issues. If I were to take him back, I'd fear that I'd turn into one of those women who checks through her boyfriend's/husband's phone and all of his stuff after he cheated and I'd never forgive, forget, or trust him again. I don't have time to play "detective". If you don't want me, just move on, I'll respect you more.

i did several times
finally she stopped coming back?

i really cant say, ive never been in that situation

for those who read my answer it states like this

Evil bastards,thugs,criminals,assh... and relationships and everything else goes with relationships,gets dates faster/or gets dates,he get laid a lot faster he gets sex too

Nice guys,geeks,nerds and good guys=us Nice guys,geeks,nerds and good guys like me finish last,we never get respected from women and girls these days and age,we never get love,we never get laid/or at least virgins who wait till marriage like i am,we never get dates,we never get relationships,we get cheated on, and she have sex with other men(stupdly enough get knocked up by evil bastards),she kisses another dude,break our heart and get no nothing :) if you like to know what i meant

And one more thing they hating on us nice guys,geeks,nerds and good guys like me i know i might not share same knowledge as a regular nerd heck yes i admit I'm both a nerd and a geek you know I'm 50/50 and i collect stuff that i love and i collect stuff that i like and some girls and some women if not most girls and most women hate on us just because we played video games,watch anime and do other nerdy geeky things.

And some reason they don't like us if you wanted to know examples of why i think or from what I've seen why they hate us don't hesitate to ask :)

I'm a 24 year old virgin and I'm saving my virginity till marriage and I'm damn proud of it and i expect her to do the same and yes my dream wedding is we both married as virgins and we are virgins on our wedding night :).



And now honestly i don't know yet if i should just give up and look for one night stands,friends with benefits,escorts or prostitute since they don't wait like i am or heck i might try and date abroad. And yes I'm still looking at my options and don't worry I'm fine and yes I'm OK

im still young, ill find someone who is loyal

I said "yes" only because I did. I wouldnt do it again. The pain is just prolonged and moving on is the only thing to do. Once the trust is gone, everytime he walks out that door, you wonder what or who he will do next. It just isnt worth it.

Yes and no it kinda depends i guess

Hecks no!

I made that mistake once only to find 2 weeks later that someone else was in bed with her, it taught me a valuable lesson, if they get away with it once, they'll do it again

sorry