If your brother or sister moved in with his or her gay lover, would you have a problem sending your kids for a overnight stay?

by My name is Michael Posted 2012/09/18 12:33:37

Related Topics: Family, Gay, Kids, Kid, Spending, Parent, Night, Weekend, Sister, Spend, parents, Year

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	It would be okay with me	50 votes	74%
	I would not let my kids spend the night	14 votes	21%
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I wouldn't but I have family member who is gay, the entire family knew this, but last year he moved in with his lover.

Before the move in, the kids were always spending the weekend with their uncle, but after the move in, the parents no longer allow their children to spend the night.

I hope people take the time to read all of the above and not just make their comment on the question title.

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Cleaver62 2012/09/18 21:20:47

It would be okay with me

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Homosexuals are not child molesters. Child molesters are child molesters. And since you are born gay, seeing gay people together isn't going to turn anyone gay either.
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marty 2012/09/24 18:48:46

It would be okay with me

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As long as the family member was okay before. If his/her lover seemed decent enough, then I don't see a problem.

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☆Katharina☆ 2012/09/21 16:36:36

Undecided

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Depends on if I like my brother's or sister's gay lover. If I can trust them then yes. If I can't than no. Just like anyone else. Though I don't have any children yet I will in the further.

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mikeeonly 2012/09/21 16:33:33

I would not let my kids spend the night

no f'n way

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Iamfree 2012/09/19 15:44:28

I would not let my kids spend the night

My sister-in-law left her husband and moved in with a woman she met on the internet. I would not allow my daughter to spend the night there, not because I thought my sister-in-law or her lover would do harm to my daughter--I'm sure they would not--but because I believe their lifestyle to be wrong and I did not permit my daughter to stay overnight in the homes of people living in sin, whether they were hetero or homo.

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FortunaVeritas 2012/09/19 05:26:54 (edited)

Undecided

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I'm not really familiar with the idea of sending children to sleep overnight with an aunt or uncle. I'm not entirely comfortable with it, regardless of the sexuality of the aunt or uncle.

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Waiting in the Wings 2012/09/19 05:19:32

It would be okay with me

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A person being gay doesn't mean he or she will sexually abuse my children. This is coming from an adult who was sexually abused as a kid by straight men.

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My name... to Waiting... 2012/09/19 10:50:50

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It's very hard to get that fact across , sorry that happen to you

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Waiting... to My name... 2012/09/19 13:41:21

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Thanks. I wouldn't let my future kids sleep over at just anyone's house, gay or straight, but my sisters and my mom would be just as protective of them as I would be, just as I would go to hell and back for my niece and nephew. Adults assaulting kids has nothing to do with sexual orientation.

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Cameleon 2012/09/19 05:17:26

It would be okay with me

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I have absolutely no issues with any gay relationships. Kids need to understand the diversity of humanity and that is one way to show them the love between people. It is healthy and normal.

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Lizzy 2012/09/19 03:01:34

I would not let my kids spend the night

I would not let my kids spend the night with my straight siblings never mind gays. The majority of people are`nt responsible enough to trust with your kids safety.

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ryuu khan 2012/09/19 02:31:25
Cameleon to ryuu khan 2012/09/19 05:18:37

yup, if you can't trust your brother, you probably can't trust anyone.

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My name... to Cameleon 2012/09/19 10:52:03

+1
agree

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ryuu khan to Cameleon 2012/09/19 18:48:51

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yep and my sister was gay but met a guy that changed it

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GothicaVende††aSquiggles\(#... 2012/09/18 23:20:21

I would not let my kids spend the night

$GothicaVende††aSquiggles\(#_#)/$

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And it has nothing to do with the gay lover thing. My sister doesn't like kids, so I wouldn't leave mine with her. :3

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Cameleon to Gothica... 2012/09/19 05:18:53

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lol

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Ninja Cupcake 2012/09/18 23:17:43

It would be okay with me

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tht still my family!:P

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american patriot 2012/09/18 22:33:58

I would not let my kids spend the night

I would have a huge problem with it as I see this as matter for the adult mind. Please, don't bother to insult me. I get to raise my kids. Peace.

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My name... to america... 2012/09/18 22:45:11

I have no intentions of insulting you, raise your kids however you want..

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sue to america... 2012/09/18 23:18:35

what do you tell the children when they see gay couples on TV or Holding hands in the Mall?

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america... to sue 2012/09/18 23:46:10

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It hasn't happened yet. When I was a child my parents didn't bother me with this issue and I'm doing the same. I am not going to condone or endorse it. I don't believe it's the natural order of creation. Probably because I am not gay. However, all people are precious and important in the world.

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Cameleon to america... 2012/09/19 05:20:57

Homosexual behavior is found in all species of animals on this planet, that is the natural order and always has been.

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Cameleon to america... 2012/09/19 05:19:56

I have problems with people who would treat family members with that kind of disrespect.

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Ray the Dog! 2012/09/18 22:10:15

I would not let my kids spend the night

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My brother or sister would be entitled to their beliefs as regards their 'gay' lifestyles-just as I am entitled to disagree with those beliefs.No child of mine would ever be allowed to stay with them-overnight- or otherwise.

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Selene 2012/09/18 22:06:57

I would not let my kids spend the night

I'd have a problem with it now bc my older bro believes in polygamy and often has 2 girlfriends at once...try explaining that to a child!

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My name... to Selene 2012/09/18 22:17:15

It's hypothetical question for sodahead users, "what if your brother or sister were gay" your situation does not answer the question I posted

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Cameleon to Selene 2012/09/19 05:22:31

Having two girlfriends is not polygamy. Being married to two women is polygamy. Children are very accepting of many things, it is adults who are not.

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morris44 2012/09/18 21:26:48

It would be okay with me

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a night off!

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Cleaver62 2012/09/18 21:20:47

It would be okay with me

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Homosexuals are not child molesters. Child molesters are child molesters. And since you are born gay, seeing gay people together isn't going to turn anyone gay either.

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My name... to Cleaver62 2012/09/18 21:32:01

I know

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☆Kathar... to Cleaver62 2012/09/21 16:38:36

you are NOT born gay. You chose to be gay! look I have no problems with gay people but that is the one thing I know. You chose to be gay because God made a girl for every man. God created man.

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My name... to ☆Kathar... 2012/09/21 18:58:50 (edited)

Was it God's plan for conjoined twins, babies to be born with no limbs or blind, to have both male and female organs? If those things happen why is so hard to believe people could be born and when older be attracted to only members of their own sex just as a straight person is attracted to only the opposite sex?

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Cleaver62 to My name... 2012/09/21 20:42:12

Don't you know god has a reason for everything. He gets his jollies by torturing us. He is such a kind and wonderful god. He loves to see suffering,agony and pain.

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Cleaver62 to ☆Kathar... 2012/09/21 20:40:44

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You are born gay. And most of the research proves it. There is homosexuality in all animal species. If it was a choice, do you really think people would chose to be ostracized, and beaten and terrorized and made fun of all their lives. There is no god making anything so that part of your argument is just plain wrong. I think you need to look at the science of homosexuality before you make such a rash judgment.

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My name... to Cleaver62 2012/09/21 20:46:41 (edited)

I agree, in some places people are imprisoned or even executed for being gay, It was illegal in probably every country on earth at one time or another, how could anyone believe they would choose that.

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Cleaver62 to My name... 2012/09/21 20:57:17

I believe Katharina is very young and also list herself as Christian conservative. I think she may have already been brainwashed by the church into believing what they say about homosexuality. It is a shame that at such a young age she has already closed her mind to scientific reality and has instead put her faith in the mystical magical invisible man in the sky.

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My name... to Cleaver62 2012/09/21 21:01:44 (edited)

I know, that's the problem with religion,IMO "if it's written" it must be true for some people and almost impossible for them to consider, maybe it's not .

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~Here Comes The Sun~ 2012/09/18 21:13:28

It would be okay with me

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Pfffffft. Why not?

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My name... to ~Here C... 2012/09/18 21:15:54

I have no reason not allow

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~Here C... to My name... 2012/09/18 21:48:55

I hate people like you! Anyway, they'd probably look after your kids better than you. bigot!
And they wouldn't fill kids heads with hate towards people like you..

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