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If your boyfriend tells another girl she is cute, is that considered flirting and should it be forgiven???

Morgan Carwell 2012/06/22 00:34:07
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  • La 2012/06/22 03:57:24
    Yes you should forgive. It can be taken as flirting or just being nice.
    La
    +1
    Male friends sometimes call me cute. Doesn't mean they want to get into my pants. Puppies and babies are cute. I'd be more worried if you thought he was attracted to her.

    Compliments can make a girl's day or at least make her feel better/raise her self esteem. If only single guys were allowed to compliment other girls, that wouldn't make the world a better place. Sometimes it's nice to be complimented by someone who you know isn't just trying to get into your pants. They probably actually mean it.
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  • Nezkeys79 La 2012/06/22 07:52:08
  • La Nezkeys79 2012/06/23 00:54:04
    La
    I didn't say it never happens/shouldn't happen, I just said it would be more of a reason to worry than merely calling a girl "cute".
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  • Speedy 2012/06/22 03:56:53
    Yes you should forgive. It can be taken as flirting or just being nice.
    Speedy
    +1
    It's only a word...
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  • art1ej 2012/06/22 03:49:03
    Yes you should forgive. It can be taken as flirting or just being nice.
    art1ej
    +1
    really??..thats nothing really...i just thinks its a woman thing to find any faults or takes something the wrong way...
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  • Edensasp 2012/06/22 03:35:24
    Yes you should forgive. It can be taken as flirting or just being nice.
    Edensasp
    Not an issue at all, ever...I know where my boyfriend's true desire rest..

    lol.
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  • king david 2012/06/22 03:30:53
    Undecided
    king david
    i am a guy so i think you shoul hear it from our perspective
    1st there are many various definitions of cute
    like a cute dog
    realy you should be more worried if he said pretty or beautiful
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  • Neelo 2012/06/22 03:21:06 (edited)
    Undecided
    Neelo
    Depends on how they say it. If they say it like "damn girl you cute!" or "that girl is fiiiiiiiine.." then they're gonna have to deal with me. If they say it like "oh, she's cute" or "huh, she's pretty" I don't really care, it's not like I'm the only girl on the planet, and I know there are more attractive ones out there. I don't have to worry though, my boyfriend never talks about other girls around me, and I never had to ask him not to :)
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  • ❤Runaway❤ 2012/06/22 03:11:44
    Undecided
    ❤Runaway❤
    I'd be pretty pissed and very jealous but I think I'd forgive eventually.
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  • Dynasty Fighter 2012/06/22 03:04:12
    Undecided
    Dynasty Fighter
    if he does that and its just flirting its ok and look past it but if it goes past it back hand him
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  • ★earthbound_misfit★ 2012/06/22 03:00:23
    Undecided
    ★earthbound_misfit★
    It all depends on the surrounding circumstances. I agree with what RoseyRhod said. You have to look at the entire situation and factor in his normal behavior. If he doesn't normally hand out compliments and this is some new random chick, then yes, I'd be concerned. A guy in a relationship does not need to be calling random girls "cute." However, if this girl was a friend of you both who was feeling down in the dumps and he wanted to make her feel better, then it would be innocent.
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  • kelly 2012/06/22 02:51:57
    Undecided
    kelly
    +1
    Im leaning towards forgiveness because personally I drop compliments on everyone all the time. I enjoy it when people compliment me so I try to spread love around, especially if someone is feeling down. If my theoretical boyfriend was having a conversation with a girl and she was being all down on herself I understand if the guy would say something like "I think youre cute" or "why would you say that? You're totally cute". Now let me make it clear that is very different than someone hitting on another chick. If that was the case my boyfriend would no longer be my boyfriend
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  • RoseyRhod 2012/06/22 02:39:12
    Undecided
    RoseyRhod
    +1
    Depends. If she's someone like his sister, cousin, or longtime best bud and he's trying to boost her spirits, it's all good. If she's some chick that he keeps paying attention to when he should be paying attention to you, I'd be thinking I need to shop for a new man--one that knows how to treat me right.
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  • Freelancer 2012/06/22 02:27:42
    Yes you should forgive. It can be taken as flirting or just being nice.
    Freelancer
    flirting is harmless now hitting on girls yeah ummm back hand him for me sweetheart ;]
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  • peaches 2012/06/22 02:23:36
    Yes you should forgive. It can be taken as flirting or just being nice.
    peaches
    +1
    It may depend on the situation, people, and the way the statement was meant. My girlfriend tells other girls that they are cute quite often. Still, they are usually our friends, I'd agree, and I still know that she finds me the cutest lol
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  • Eania 2012/06/22 02:19:06
    Yes you should forgive. It can be taken as flirting or just being nice.
    Eania
    +2
    Really? Do we have to ask this now?
    Next thing I hear, women will be suspicious of, and leaving, their men for no other reason than his LOOKING at another woman.
    Wait a minute, never mind, I've already heard that one too.
    Why can't people just live.
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  • raine 2012/06/22 02:15:32
    Undecided
    raine
    I wouldn't tell a guy who or what he can talk about. One ex bf of mine always flirted with waitresses. I never minded.
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  • Chaoskingsxz 2012/06/22 02:14:04
    Yes you should forgive. It can be taken as flirting or just being nice.
    Chaoskingsxz
    it depends how he said it .....
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  • nverumind 2012/06/22 02:11:04
    Yes you should forgive. It can be taken as flirting or just being nice.
    nverumind
    Whats the difference between him telling her she's pretty and you telling her she's pretty?
    If she's pretty , shes pretty. End of story
    Jealousy isnt pretty.
    green eyed monster
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  • raine nverumind 2012/06/22 02:17:04
    raine
    +1
    I agree I often point out..Not point but mention pretty people to whomever I am with.
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  • Freedom Mom 2012/06/22 02:10:41 (edited)
    Undecided
    Freedom Mom
    +1
    It tells me he is looking, most guys heads are like a door knob, any pretty girl can turn it. The grass always looks greener on the otherside of the fence.

    Just be cool and see what happens, it may just be an innocent comment or if he acts on it that will tell you where you stand in your relationship. Time will tell. No one wants to be in a controling relationship, you can't make anyone love you they either do or they don't. Its simple as that.
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  • nverumind Freedom... 2012/06/22 02:12:38
    nverumind
    +1
    a thought popped into my head while reading this.. yeah guys look A LOT... but isnt it because there are sooo many pretty girls..
    Maybe we dont look as often because there are'nt as many "pretty" guys ???
    IDK..just a thought :)
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  • Freedom... nverumind 2012/06/22 03:37:40
    Freedom Mom
    +1
    LOL I never thought of it like that. LOL I don't look because Iam where I want to be, with who I want to be with. Works for me. :)
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  • ☮ Ron ☮ Paul ☮ 2012! ☮ 2012/06/22 02:08:57
    Yes you should forgive. It can be taken as flirting or just being nice.
    ☮ Ron ☮ Paul ☮ 2012! ☮
    You should always forgive. But a true man will respect his love by showering her with more compliments then the other girl, even if the other girl IS more beautiful. Women/girls love security guys, be sure you give it to them or you will lose their friendship.
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  • Anna 2012/06/22 02:08:43
    Undecided
    Anna
    +1
    It deepened how he said it. Personally, I wouldn't care, even if he was flirting a bit, so long as it didn't go past that. And if he was just being nice I'd be proud to have such a sweet boyfriend. So long as "You're cute" wasn't followed by "let's bang" I don't see the problem.
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  • Nam Era Vet #1 DNA TLC 2012/06/22 02:05:24
    Yes you should forgive. It can be taken as flirting or just being nice.
    Nam Era Vet #1 DNA TLC
    +1
    I personally have said that just to be nice. Not to flirt. And my wife understands.
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  • RoseyRhod Nam Era... 2012/06/22 02:42:17
    RoseyRhod
    +1
    Yeah, that instance is perfectly okay. There are some decent guys like you out there--I've just had such bad experiences that I tend to forget!
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  • Nam Era... RoseyRhod 2012/06/22 02:44:09
    Nam Era Vet #1 DNA TLC
    Thank you ma'am
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  • Elaine Magliacane 2012/06/22 02:04:24
    Yes you should forgive. It can be taken as flirting or just being nice.
    Elaine Magliacane
    +1
    I usually act as the 'bird dog'... pointing out the hot chicks to my man... men can't help looking... if the only reason he is with you is your looks, he won't be around very long anyway.
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  • ZB 2012/06/22 02:02:42
    Yes you should forgive. It can be taken as flirting or just being nice.
    ZB
    +2
    Nothing wrong with saying something nice about a person.
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  • ranferi.solorzano1 2012/06/22 02:00:20
  • gbudavid 2012/06/22 01:42:31
    Undecided
    gbudavid
    Who Cares???
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  • Changeling 2012/06/22 01:42:12
    Yes you should forgive. It can be taken as flirting or just being nice.
    Changeling
    +1
    If he said, "damn I'd hit that or You look smoking" then slap his *bleep* around
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  • sammie 2012/06/22 01:39:04 (edited)
    Yes you should forgive. It can be taken as flirting or just being nice.
    sammie
    +1
    Every guy single or not will tell a girl she is cute but if the girl looks like a slut don't forgive him
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  • Anna sammie 2012/06/22 02:09:53
    Anna
    And who gets to determine if she looks like a slut?
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  • nverumind Anna 2012/06/22 02:17:15
    nverumind
    LOL if she looks like prostitute
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  • Anna nverumind 2012/06/22 02:18:33
    Anna
    Even still, does dressing scantly stop a cute girl from being cute?
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  • nverumind Anna 2012/06/22 02:25:40
    nverumind
    Not having self respect? yeah that kinda nixes the cuteness factor a a little.
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  • Anna nverumind 2012/06/22 03:37:33
    Anna
    +2
    So a girl's self respect depends on the cloths she wears? I think anyone with that view has some very fragile respect. I can respect myself in a habit or mini skirt and tub top equally. I can also respect others equally regardless of what they wear. I find actions more important than looks.
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  • sammie nverumind 2012/06/22 02:31:31
    sammie
    Yea lol
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