If You Found Out That Someone You Loved 20 or 30 Years Ago Still Loved You, Would You Reconsider The Relationship?

I'm going through that right now...back when I was 18 I met a very handsome bad boy, I am now 54 (he looked like Jax from Sons of Anarchy, and now he looks like and older version) we dated for awhile, he got into trouble and got 5 years in jail, I went to see him as much as possible, but it got to much for me so I decided I needed to try to move on with my life, I never stopped loving him and never ever forgot about him either...over the years I married (twice) but I always went back and looked for him, I internet searched him as well, but to no avail....May of 2012 I found him FaceBook, we talked for some time and all the feelings that were buried so deep came rushing back for us both....We are now planning on getting together over the summer for a week or 2 and see where things go from there, the love never died for either of us.....I have butterflies in my stomach along with the fear knowing the life I'll be walking away from to be with him....Wayne,we stole one another's hearts back then, I'm glad were finally back together to put them back together as one, my love to you always.......

How romantic, just take it slow. Good luck.

rightnow im married so i would never consider it now. but in the future if i should suddenly end up single i might consider it. but i would want to remain single. i never want to be committed again.

It's hard, but we never know what's coming our way.

i would want to enjoy my independence and freedom for a while.

Understandable, completely

Got a facebook note like that from a girl I went out with in high school. I didn't follow up. By now we are two different people.

That's so true.

Probably not.

Thanks

Your welcome.

As of today, no. But that has more to do with my life circumstances than anything else.

Understandable

I never lost touch with the gang and we are all happy with who we are, i guess :)

It all depends. If I am happily married today, no action would be taken! If I am all alone, I would definitley consider giving the person a call provided that she is still single also!

Thank you

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Hmmmm?

I was far too young to be romantically in love with anyone twenty years ago.

LOL, not me..I got a few compliments from my 20 year high school reunion! A couple girls had me blushing..LOL..This one girl said, you were fine in high school and you still are fine, David" LMAO..

Oh you. ;)

Yes it had me blushing..I don't know why but it does..I miss those years!! Damn, why do we have to get older?

Yes I guess it might be hard you to imagine that scenario.

No what I wanted (or thought so) as a girl is eons away from what I know I need as a woman

Absolutely

Possibly...if they can find me. Having moved around a lot that would be practically impossible. Nice thought tho' there was a lovely New Zealander lady from that period of my life that I loved very much but she left me for another.

Ya never know. Stranger things have happened.

True dat...!! if anything strange happens I can guarantee it'll happen to me lol...

I suppose I would think on it. Not really sure what I would do though. That is a fairly long time to carry a torch for someone you're not with.

Different people impact our lives in different ways.

True enough.

It would have to be really special, like someone I was also in love with; but if I had no feelings for the person, I wouldn't.
In addition, we'd both have to be single at the time.

I agree.

That would be my ex and mother of my children. No thanks!

LOL

No........I am happily married and have been for 12 years now.

Good for you

Doubt that would ever happen but it would be awesome if it was someone I really loved before. Once I love someone...they stay in my heart forever anyway. That is just me.

Would be nice.

I'm in my early thirties but I'd consider it.