My heart can't take going though this again. I love this women like I have no one else in my life. I don't think I could handle it again. Nor would I want to try. I might have a GF or something on the side but nothing as serious.
When I was 20 I fell in love with a girl & we were going to get married.. A couple of years later she dided of stomach cancer. I've been with my wife now for going on six years, It took me sometime to get over her.
wow. i have more hope. time seems to be the healer, though. i wished so many bad things on the ex. lots of anger coming out everywhere. it's only been 4 months for me. i know some people can move on quickly. i'm not one of those.
Same here it would take me some time to get over my wife now. While I am not worried that she'll cheat on me I am worried about having that one bad day.
When we aruge neither one of us backs down. I keep waiting for the day she'll go off & tell me to leave, & because we're both so pigheaded I'll go. And she won't try to stop me that's going to be our downfall if we ever have one.
one thing i was proud of in my last relationship is that i may have been pigheaded but i was stubborn about trying to be fair and balanced. i had the same fear that it wouldn't last because of communication and i gave up on who i was. i say never give up on who you are but be willing to be open, understanding, compassionate, empathetic. I don't believe identity lies in being closed off to another person.
If my marriage failed or my Husband died I would definately look for love..BUT having said that I would NEVER marry again...We have made a good life financially and i would not want another man to take what my Husband worked so hard for....
I've said it many times to anyone that would listen, If I can't make this work with my current wife, I'm never doing it again. I'll have relationships for the obvious reasons, but I'm done with marriage and real love. This love thing is too hard and takes way too much work.
It's the best feeling.
When we aruge neither one of us backs down. I keep waiting for the day she'll go off & tell me to leave, & because we're both so pigheaded I'll go. And she won't try to stop me that's going to be our downfall if we ever have one.