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If this doesn't make you teary eyed you have never been in love.

Shawna 2012/06/13 19:48:51


It
was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly gentleman in his 80′s
arrived at the hospital to have stitches removed from his thumb. He said
he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am. The nurse took
his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an
hour before someone would to able to see him. I saw him looking at his
watch and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would
evaluate his wound. On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of
the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress
his wound.


While
taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor’s
appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry. The gentleman told
me no, that he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with
his wife. I inquired as to her health.


He
told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim
of Alzheimer’s Disease. As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if
he was a bit late.


He
replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized
him in five years now. I was surprised, and asked him, ‘And you still
go every morning, even though she doesn’t know who you are?’


He smiled As he patted my hand and said,

‘She doesn’t know me, but I still know who she is.’







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  • Jim 2012/06/14 20:45:24
    Jim
    +3
    I actually know a know a real-life situation just very much like this. It was just after his dear wife died that my wife and I went to visit him. He described in much the same way that latterly when he went to the nursing home to visit, she did not recognise him - and it when he uttered those words that he broke down. My wife was ever so strong and just held his hand and uttered words of comfort. I am glad that it was her and not me that was right beside him because the lump in my throat at that time overwhelmed me. I think it was because he was such a humble, polite, elderly gentleman. It is a humbling experience that I shall not forget.

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  • Pat 2012/06/15 01:19:46
    Pat
    +1
    Very touching story. Imagine being that old and together for all those years and still having that kind of love.
  • Shawna Pat 2012/06/15 01:26:29
    Shawna
    +1
    It's beautiful. My grandparents were like that.
  • Katherine the Renaissance W... 2012/06/15 00:45:34
    Katherine the Renaissance Woman
    +1
    D':

    These kind of stories always get me.
  • Shawna Katheri... 2012/06/15 00:48:39
    Shawna
    +1
    Me too.
  • Jim 2012/06/14 20:45:24
    Jim
    +3
    I actually know a know a real-life situation just very much like this. It was just after his dear wife died that my wife and I went to visit him. He described in much the same way that latterly when he went to the nursing home to visit, she did not recognise him - and it when he uttered those words that he broke down. My wife was ever so strong and just held his hand and uttered words of comfort. I am glad that it was her and not me that was right beside him because the lump in my throat at that time overwhelmed me. I think it was because he was such a humble, polite, elderly gentleman. It is a humbling experience that I shall not forget.
  • Shawna Jim 2012/06/14 20:50:48
    Shawna
    +3
    It makes me teary eyed just hearing your story. Poor man. It must be quite heartbreaking to lose your loved one and yet have them still there in body.
  • Jim Shawna 2012/06/14 20:58:13
    Jim
    +3
    Yes, in fact I think that you have just reminded me better of how the conversation went. I think my wife may have said that we were both very sorry about his loss and he said "I really lost her six months ago....." That was where I kinda crumbled. Although it is probably silly to dwell upon it, I think we would all benefit from a humbling experience.
  • Shawna Jim 2012/06/14 21:00:07
    Shawna
    +2
    How is the gentleman now? Is he still alive or was this long ago?
  • Jim Shawna 2012/06/14 21:13:39
    Jim
    +2
    Yes, he is long gone. Actually it is scary to think just how many years have elapsed since then. :-)
  • Shawna Jim 2012/06/14 21:27:44
    Shawna
    +2
    LOL-oh yes. I know that feeling!
  • Fun-Betty 2012/06/14 12:34:09
    Fun-Betty
    +2
    everyone should be so lucky as to have love like this.
  • Shawna Fun-Betty 2012/06/14 16:07:21
    Shawna
    +1
    I'd say so!
  • Kibbles 2012/06/14 11:58:19
    Kibbles
    +1
    Aww, that's sweet right there, makes my heart ache.
  • Shawna Kibbles 2012/06/14 16:07:30
    Shawna
    +1
    Mine too!
  • me being me 2012/06/14 01:07:12
    me being me
    +3
    Unconditional love is amazing;-)
  • Shawna me bein... 2012/06/14 16:07:58
    Shawna
    +3
    It really is. Like Erick said above-makes my heart ache.
  • me bein... Shawna 2012/06/14 19:08:13
    me being me
    +3
    Yeah, mine too;-(
  • Sammi </3 2012/06/14 00:41:01
    Sammi </3
    +1
    thats so cute i can't bileve he would do that...if someone i love so much forgot me i would be so sad i would never do anything again
  • Shawna Sammi </3 2012/06/14 16:09:06
    Shawna
    +1
    I'm sure he is very sad. But he also loves her enough to keep visiting her and make her happy. Perhaps seeing her makes him happy too.
  • Sammi </3 Shawna 2012/06/14 19:53:40
    Sammi </3
    +1
    that could be it...but it so sad to me
  • Changeling 2012/06/14 00:16:31
    Changeling
    +2
    This made me cry
  • Shawna Changeling 2012/06/14 16:09:24
    Shawna
    +2
    Me too.
  • La 2012/06/13 23:31:54
    La
    +1
    The Notebook....
  • Shawna La 2012/06/13 23:34:57
    Shawna
    Yes, it reminded me of that too.
  • Willie 2012/06/13 21:43:36
    Willie
    +3
    That was my grandfather, visiting my grandmother every day, even when he was in his late 80's and she had no idea who he was. He actually died right there while visiting her in the nursing home. He was about a month away from his 88th birthday, and he had a sudden stroke.

    My grandmother remained physically healthy, pleasant and alert for another eight years, but without any memory. Alzheimer's is a cruel one.
  • Shawna Willie 2012/06/13 21:49:27
    Shawna
    +2
    It is a cruel one, though I think one of the cruelest things is when it turns someone who was always pleasant into someone nasty. It must surely affect the type of care they get.

    Your grandparents' story is a very sweet one. Sometimes Alzheimers is cruelest to the loved ones who don't have it.
  • Jerry 2012/06/13 20:32:44
    Jerry
    +1
    ............. I read this above, this gentleman demonstrates a True Love that We all reading this should emulate in Our Love for Family and Friends, ........ many years ago, my Mother had Alzheimer's Disease, She is deceased now, but while She was alive, in Her infancy state of mind, She could still sense, Family visiting Her, just for a little while, Love, can still be extended to Our senior citizens, even with this terrible " Alzheimer's Disease ".........We should All share this same Love, this gentleman expressed with His wife..........
  • Shawna Jerry 2012/06/13 20:34:21
    Shawna
    Alzheimer's is cruel both to those who suffer it and to those who love them. I'm sorry your mother had to go through it but it sounds like she was lucky to have such a wonderful family.
  • Jerry Shawna 2012/06/13 20:46:07 (edited)
    Jerry
    +1
    ........... " there were good days, and bad days " ......... I will say, She always brightened up, when Mister Roger's Neighborhood was aired weekdays.........Nursing Homes, should run continuous video of that particular program, He always seemed to relate to the elderly, especially, Alzheimer's Disease patients.......... http://joecrubaugh.com/blog/w... http://daddytypes.com/archive...
  • Shawna Jerry 2012/06/13 20:59:48
    Shawna
    Fred Rogers was a sweet and gentle man with a good heart. I can see how he would be comforting to people.
  • Jerry Shawna 2012/06/13 21:14:34
    Jerry
    +1
    ...........Mom, always brightened up, when that program came on, via PBS.........
  • sky blue pink - American 2012/06/13 20:16:38
    sky blue pink - American
    +1
    True love, indeed.
    Have a good one !
  • Vision of Verve 2012/06/13 20:13:30
  • 1wickedwitch 2012/06/13 20:10:52
    1wickedwitch
    +2
    Ok thanks for breaking my heart
  • Shawna 1wicked... 2012/06/13 20:15:03
    Shawna
    Unfortunately life is bitter sweet. But just think about how many wonderful years that woman had with such a loving man!
  • 1wicked... Shawna 2012/06/14 14:41:27
    1wickedwitch
    +1
    so sweet.very beautiful
  • Huki68 2012/06/13 20:07:16 (edited)
    Huki68
    +1
    Yes it is it made me cry, Beautiful story
  • Shawna Huki68 2012/06/13 20:08:31
    Shawna
    +2
    It is like the movie The Notebook. Did you ever see that?
  • Huki68 Shawna 2012/06/15 00:28:23
    Huki68
    +1
    Yes I love that Movie... That story Match me 100% because I would do the same for my love one, I will never give up
  • Shawna Huki68 2012/06/15 00:29:38
    Shawna
    +1
    You are very loyal and very romantic. Your loved one is lucky.

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